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A friend of mine came over last night. I had no plans to have sex with him, but the night turned out different. After a couple of drinks and some porn, he offered to blow me. Of course I said yes. We got into a 69 and I started playing with his ass and rimmed him a bit. He got on all fours and I got behind him. I had some lube handy and lubed him up. For fun, I teased him a bit with my cock on his asshole. He pressed against me and my tip went in him. He moaned so I went deeper. We fucked with me behind him until I came in his ass.

When I was done he turned around and looked at cock and saw it was bare. He said I thought you were wearing a condom. I felt bad, I thought he wanted it bare. I am not the most experienced top, but some guys want it bare and some want it wrapped. I know the risks and I do it the way the bottom wants it. I just never had a bottom assume I was wearing a condom when I wasn't. So my question is, if you are a bottom do you always communicate your desire for a wrap, or just assume the top is wearing one?
 
if he was that preoccupied with you wearing a condom, he should have checked. I am a bottom, and always know whether he is wearing a condom or not. Either I put the condom him myself, or sometimes go bare. I never assume a top is wearing one. Dont feel bad, its more his fault than yours. IMO.
 
It takes two to tango as the saying goes. I'd say that you share responsibility as to whether protection is used and therefore you also share the blame. Yes, the bottom shouldn't just assume that a condom is being used but then a top shouldn't just assume that the bottom is fine with one not being used.

I don't think you should feel entirely to blame but then I disagree with the idea that you should entirely absolve yourself from any responsibility. You should both learn a lesson from this experience and if everything is fine then you should count yourself lucky.
 
If you're going to shove your dick up someone else's ass, it should probably be wrapped unless they say otherwise. That's a courtesy wasted on a generation of older men who lived their youth fucking bareback. Safe sex is best in every possible scenario.
 
The best policy is: always always wrapped it up unless specified. It's also for your own safety. What if the next guy you have sex with is HIV positive?
 
HunterM said:
The best policy is: always always wrapped it up unless specified. It's also for your own safety. What if the next guy you have sex with is HIV positive?
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You are absolutely correct. Even though he is your friend and you do have sex, never assume that just because he is your friend that he does not want you wearing a condom. Because lets be honest here, neither of you know where each others dicks have been recently.
 
I would think that always wrapped is the norm, and one would say either with or w/o a condom. It just comes automatic to me that it would be wrapped given these times.... and I would never do bare w/o knowing the peticulars of the person FIRST no matter who it was...

this error in lapse in judgement falls on BOTH
 
You should get tested immediately so that you can at least give him a little piece of mind.
 
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