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Is it wrong to not want to suck my partner's dick?

raskdog

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I have never enjoyed sucking dick. I hate the taste of semen and my partner has a lot of pre-cum which I find gross. My partner gets annoyed, especially since I love him sucking my dick. However I tell him that there are things that I do to him that he doesn't reciprocate.

Is it wrong to not want to suck his dick and if so how do I overcome my aversion to it?
 
Rub it with something you like to eat and go after it like a starving maniac. The guy deserves an enthusiastic bj once in awhile.
 
they have like flavor strips, or flavor cream that you use to make it better. see now im jealous I never have any pre-cum, I always wonder how it feels, I also have never had a wet dream :(
 
I precum a lot and I'm not crazy about it either when I go down on a guy and taste a lot of it. However, oral sex is part of the trade to being gay. You can start by sucking on his dick before he begins to precum a lot (there is that beginning window of opportunity). Or, you can start reciprocating in different ways such as offering frequent and amazing hand jobs or bottoming more. His dick wants attention.
 
Put some maple syrup on that dick and suck it good. You a selfish cunt too talking about "I like to have him suck mines but I dont like to suck his" "I do other things which he doesnt do" Oh yeah like what what could possible make up for you not sucking dick you can bottom all you want it just aint the same, now put on some syrup or ketchup :) on that dick and suck dammit
 
I don't like to suck my partner's dick either, but I always offer since he does it for me. He says it's fine and doesn't take me up on it every time, but sometimes I question if it is actually fine.
 
Is not wrong but oral sex is a vital part of sex. I hate precum too but there's a lot of ways of avoiding it: Put something like whip cream or something you like on your partner's dick as somebody else suggested, or simply clean the precum with your hand before putting your mouth there, I know it doesn't sound too sexy but it could help you.
 
God damn, I'll suck it for him if you're not going to! Selfish prick, lol.

Cock is hot, I'd prefer to suck a cock than be sucked if I'm honest.
 
According to the sex advice columnist Dan Savage, "Oral sex is standard. Any model that comes without it should be returned to the lot.” ;) But you actually sound like the perfect boyfriend for me. I hate getting my dick suck. I much more prefer giving than receiving. Much much more. Eventually your bf is going to resent that you don't give him oral. And he's going to stop doing it to you. Which is actually fair.
 
Nothing wrong with that at all. Some guys don't like sucking dick. If you like your boyfriend enough to stay with him, then you might want to consider doing it anyways. I mean, as much as you might not like it, it's probably not the worst thing in the world, and it would be good if you just did it for him. On the other hand, if you ever end up breaking up, you should find a boyfriend who doesn't like getting his dick sucked. There are plenty of ultra bottoms out there like that, and you two would be a match made in heaven.
 
I have been with my partner for 26 years.,...I love the man unconditionally and we have a great sex life...and I have never sucked his dick..nor him mine (well...he did once before I told him I dislike getting or giving BJs)

I never felt like I was missing out on anything...It just isn't my thing and I am cool with that.
 
idk i dont like it either luckily i found a man who loves sucking and doesn't care about recieving but honestly i do it from time to time to keep things sorta a balanced, but if he said im only gonna suck you when you suck me id be okay with it. like if you dont like suckign then just be okay with not getting sucked and then it okay right ???? idk i feel like nothing should standard you love someone not there mouth not there dick so you have to accept their boundaries or something like that.
 
Here's my take. There are no predetermined sex roles in a male relationship. With some couples, each sucks and fucks as much as the other. Some couples are more oral. Some equally, and others where one sucks and the other enjoys being serviced. (Like me and my husband). Some couples are more anal. Equally, or they have more of a top and bottom dynamic. And some couples just like to kiss and cuddle and coo.
But this is the important thing for me. Ideally each partner should feel fulfilled in bed, and not feel compromised or used or frustrated or resentful. The only measure is internal, subjective. Are you having your needs met? Are you and your partner communicating the needs to each other? Like the man said, "to thine own self be true."
 
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