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Is it wrong to cheat on your wife with another dude? i have read some posts here that convey a message of, " oh yea it's okay to go fool around with a married guy or try to" i mean seriously that's fucked up. that could destroy a family think about the wife and the kids. if most people do, i am probably on the wrong site.
 
stevexxx said:
Is it wrong to cheat on your wife with another dude? i have read some posts here that convey a message of, " oh yea it's okay to go fool around with a married guy or try to" i mean seriously that's fucked up. that could destroy a family think about the wife and the kids. if most people do, i am probably on the wrong site.
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Absolutely wrong.
 
If my [male] partner ever cheated on me with a woman (or another man for that matter), there would be some definite Hell to pay by all parties involved. :)
 
If my partner ever cheated on me, I'd let him go. But his balls would be mine! I'd cut them off and preserve them in a little jar.
 
Mr. Steve, you are either Koresh or Manson, as your knowledge obviously comes from above to allow you pass judgment on others.
 
stevexxx said:
Is it wrong to cheat on your wife with another dude? i have read some posts here that convey a message of, " oh yea it's okay to go fool around with a married guy or try to" i mean seriously that's fucked up. that could destroy a family think about the wife and the kids. if most people do, i am probably on the wrong site.
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syoBsUtsuJ said:
Mr. Steve, you are either Koresh or Manson, as your knowledge obviously comes from above to allow you pass judgment on others.
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Funny thing is, most of us agree with Steve that it is wrong (no matter if it is male or female, cheating is cheating). He brought up the fact that fooling around with a married man can cause damage in the lives of the wife and the kids.

Why do you have such a problem with that syo? Have you been in fact doing just that?
 
Most of us will tell you it's wrong to cheat on anyone, with anyone.

-d-
 
that is the thing that bothers me the most. im not trying to be mr. Christian priest of the year, but come on the guy is married has a wife and kids. just some posts i have read earlier made me think like come on, wtf are you thinking, you are old enough to know you dont fool around with a married dude or woman. i am getting harassed because i replied to posts like that and i am said to be too judgmental.
 
why is this even required to be proposed with a question mark?

marriage is a commitment. if there is any man on this forum that has knowingly interacted with a married male, you should, again i say, SHOULD feel ashamed.

unfortunately, in review of postings of this forum, as mentioned by the OP there are too many men that believe fooling around with a married man is the pinnacle on some f'd up "bucket list."

i'd almost swear i saw a thread on here recently of forum users posting pictures of men with a wedding band on their hand, why is that a turn on?

that married man went before friends and witnesses to propose and accept a vow, to be committed to that one women. it's not only his responsibility but her's as well to uphold those very words they spoke of on that day.

i mean d@mn, if a man cheats on his wife he should be ashamed as well...

and don't for a moment believe i'm making judgment, because ultimately it's not my words you should be concerned about.
 
His wife is apparently alrright with the situation, as she dropped him off at our last motel hook-up and even came inside to introduce herself to me (which was totally awkward).

Now am I solely and knowingly shattering a family unit irreparably? The answer is a resounding, "NO!" I got a phone call today from the wife thanking me for his renewed interest in sex, and even invited me to a 3-way, which I immediately, but respectfully declined.
 
I have a question for debate: is it possible for a person who would fool around with a married person (this is not only about gay men) to claim that he/she has any respect for the notion of marriage or commitment?

I can't imagine people who see nothing wrong in being "the other" maintaining a monogamous relationship with anyone. It sounds like a paradox to me.
 
mitchymo said:
Of course it is possible.

Its about respect. I wouldn't cheat on a partner. Involving yourself with someone who is cheating is not aiding and abetting someones infidelity, either they are gonna be faithful or they're not, nothing to do with the person they are fooling around with.
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But for a person who respects marriage, wouldn't the fact that a person is married be a turn off?
 
syoBsUtsuJ said:
His wife is apparently alrright with the situation, as she dropped him off at our last motel hook-up and even came inside to introduce herself to me (which was totally awkward).

Now am I solely and knowingly shattering a family unit irreparably? The answer is a resounding, "NO!" I got a phone call today from the wife thanking me for his renewed interest in sex, and even invited me to a 3-way, which I immediately, but respectfully declined.
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anyone know if this is included in the divorce rate statistics? ](*,)
 
easyroad said:
I have a question for debate: is it possible for a person who would fool around with a married person (this is not only about gay men) to claim that he/she has any respect for the notion of marriage or commitment?

I can't imagine people who see nothing wrong in being "the other" maintaining a monogamous relationship with anyone. It sounds like a paradox to me.
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This is the heart of the issue. How can one claim to respect commitment in one breath while in another be assisting a second individual break his/her commitment to a third party? Its like saying, "I respect straight people, even though I believe they are complete idiots". If you expect us to believe that your skull is as empty and hollow as your words.
 
mitchymo said:
People don't suddenly become unattractive after marriage. They're relationship status is not my concern, it is their concern and their partners.
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I'm not talking about physical attraction, but about morals. If a person has respect for what marriage means, it's very odd to think that this person might feel fine about being "the other". A cynical person, however, would make more sense.
 
I wouldn't sleep with a guy who I knew to be in a monogamous relationship. I wouldn't want to be responsible (even partly) for any problems that may arise in that relationship as a result. If the guy is so unhappy with his partner that he has the urge to see others, he should end the relationship first, then pursue others. That would be more respectful of both the person he is in the relationship with and the others that he would otherwise be with.

One more reason I wouldn't want to see a guy in a monogamous relationship who wanted to cheat with me is that in all probability, if I were in such a relationship with him, he might very well cheat on me too. A leopard doesn't really change its spots.
 
I know it's kind of wrong but wholeheartedly admit to having done it more then once. I was the other person with a man who was married to a well known actress at the time. The thing is, to me, it's just sex.
 
stevexxx said:
Is it wrong to cheat on your wife with another dude? i have read some posts here that convey a message of, " oh yea it's okay to go fool around with a married guy or try to" i mean seriously that's fucked up. that could destroy a family think about the wife and the kids. if most people do, i am probably on the wrong site.
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Those are promises the married man made, and if he breaks them it is entirely his issue.

He may have an "understanding" with the wife - if he does or does not it's his business.
 
syoBsUtsuJ said:
His wife is apparently alrright with the situation, as she dropped him off at our last motel hook-up and even came inside to introduce herself to me (which was totally awkward).

Now am I solely and knowingly shattering a family unit irreparably? The answer is a resounding, "NO!" I got a phone call today from the wife thanking me for his renewed interest in sex, and even invited me to a 3-way, which I immediately, but respectfully declined.
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His desire for men was blocking his desire for her - he worked that out with you - and his passion for his wife was hot again. She did well to give him room to follow his passions - I'm sure he's closer to her than ever - even emotionally. Few women would give him such freedom - so she's probably got him for good now.:)
 
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