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Is Making Out Cheating

To me, any intimate exchange with another person is cheating.

Then again, I know people who think blow jobs don't count, either. "Why are you so fucking uptight, Lex? It's just sex."

I can't say as I understand that point of view.

Lex
 
Not necessarily. If he is an actor and was kissing another man because the role required it then you should cut him some slack.

Look how many actors have to do love scenes and they often fall inlove with their co-stars and divorce their partners.

Its about trust which you seem to have none regarding him.

You need to be more understanding and not jump to conclusions.
 
I'd say it's cheating! I'd also say that you should run the other direction from a lying cheat! Sorry!(*8*)
 
Is making out cheating? I say YES.

The only "gray" area, is whether the two of you were at a point in the relationship where you were monogamous--you'd decided that it was just the two of you.

But it sounds like you did the right thing and got out of the relationship.
 
Neh I dont think it is, not when your drunk, things happen were only human at the end of the day. If there was more to it emotionally, or the person makes a habit of it then its cleating and get out.
 
Depends if the making out is intimate, if it's just fucking around, like on a dare or something, like something innocent and without ending up in the bed, then it isn't really. Each kiss someone gives doesn't always mean "to the bed with you", so if the kissing wasn't intimate, meaning "with the intention of ending up in bed" then no, it isn't cheating. Context.

How's that for an answer?
 
Get a grip - there is no hard and fast rule that determines whether or not specific behaviour is cheating. it's a matter for individual morality. Think about it - if we all followed the moral imperatives of mainstream society then we would all be inthe closet. No - you need to make up your own mind about what is appropriate for you, and soliciting the opinion of others as to what is 'right' and what is 'wrong' will not resolve your dilemma.

Behaviour can only be considered 'cheating' if you and your partner have previously discussed the matter and agreed between you exactly what levels of trust and commitment you expect from each other. If you haven't discussed it then there's no point in griping - but it might be appropriate to discuss it now and agree on some basic definitions and ground rules.
 
Last time one of my friend used one of the lame excuse of how it's not cheating..
Friend - "It's not cheating cuz she was in a different area code"
Me - "So, if the person your dating, do something with another person in a different area code, it's ok?"
Friend - "No"
Me - "Ok, shut up then"
 
MrAwesome07 said:
He is NOT an actor, if it was for that reason I would understand. It was a random "i want to do something crazy" and then he lied to me about it and didnt tell me about it for almost two months...

And also i have the right to not trust him, he lied to me about little things and even after I told him that I knew and that I forgave him, he still lied about them. He told me after we broke up that he was lying the whole time.
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making out is cheating, Lieing is even worse, so you broke up with him is a good decision, he is making out with someoen today and say he is not cheating and lied about it and tommorow he will sleep with someoen and say it's nto cheating the next day he go fuck another dude? so just end it before you got into it any deeper.
 
MrAwesome sounded like your guy cared nothing for you - I hate guys like that. But i agree with everyone...he cheated, cheated, CHEATED!
 
If you can catch something
from what's being done,
be it a cold or the herpes,
and give it to your partner,
then yeah, that's cheating.
 
everything that involves intimacy with someone else, and kissing is a form of intimacy, is cheating - if u r someones boyfriend. and he lied to you - so there is no trust from his side.
He is a cheater.

sorry, MrAwsome:-( I know how u feel...
 
MrAwesome07 said:
I have a question that I have been thinking on... If you are dating someone and that person makes out with someone else, would that be constituted as cheating. It is one of the reasons I broke ties with my ex (not the only reason and the least important one), but he argues that he wasnt cheating and it was just for fun.

What are your thoughts?

Thanks. :)
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unless he was pashing the mirror or a mop-- i would say it was cheating
 
anyone who feels the need to do anything physical with another person , other then the person they are " in love " with is DEF cheating!

Touching / feeling/ kissing / having sex with etc etc is physical contact!!

If anyone did ANYTHING remotely physical with another person i would most def considering it cheating and dump them !

Although i am prob alittle weird , coz i consider flirting on web sites with people cheating too!

If you do not have the respect to committ to the person your with 100pct, and can not find the motivation in your relationship to not flirt with others or have sex with others , then surely you should not be with the person your with!

Break it off and go about your flirting / sex etc when you are SINGLE! being in a relationship is about trust and respect for the person your with !
 
I think it's cheating. Just because I think and my perception of kissing is intimate. And it should only be done with someone you actually have a relationship with.
 
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