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is my best friend gay

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so i like my best friend, his parents also love me. He doesnt know that i am gay yet (to afraid to tell him) tell me what you all think of this: He brushes up against me alot and when we touch he doesnt pull away. We were sitting on a big couch together with another guy, and he was sitting so close to me that we were touching, when there was a giant space between him and the other guy. this girl gave him a gay magazine with a party advertised when i was sitting next to him and said he should go to it and he said "I LOVE IT!" he didnt put the magazine down right away, he looked at it and smiled for a little while. He told me that he is uncomfortable around gay people sometimes and says "thats so gay" about stuff. Yet he told me that a gay man was one of his favorite people, and he even spent the night at a gay guys house that he is friends with! i thought that was a pretty good sign. He even once put it on a tv show were gay guys were showing affection and i just watched the tv (i think he was trying to see my reaction) and when i didnt react he said "i have trouble watching gay people show affection". he even told me he watches chelsea lately sometimes, and he broke the news to me that oprah is getting her own TV channel! he has also bragged to me that he has slept with 100+ girls! is he gay, or atleast bi? he wants to spend time with me ALL THE TIME and wants me to come over everyday. What should i do? He also has had me try on some of his clothes and gave me some of his clothes, and said my butt looked good in his jeans. He even put a hat on me and adjusted it so it looked good once. he also looks at my mouth alot when i talk. I never see him hanging out with girls because he is with me all the time! I have never got proof of him hooking up with girls, just what he has told me. I also catch him looking at guys when i am with him in public, they are usually ones that i think are hot.
 
My guess would be yes. From what you've said, I would say he is definitely not straight. I think he is trying to figure you out as well. Putting on a gay tv show may have been a test, and perhaps seeing that you had no reaction, made him retreat a bit back into the closet by his comment about gay guys showing affection.

An ex of mine used to make "thats so gay" comments, so I wouldn't put too much stock in that.

I would say next time he makes a suggestive move or comment, go with it. Say or do something suggestive back. Flirt. Who knows, maybe you two will be making out within seconds of a little back and forth flirting, and that'll answer everything. Good luck.
 
sounds flaming...

but you could be seeing what you want to see...

ask him to describe his dream woman...if he does anything EXCEPT rattle off a long speech about body parts--i.e. tit sizes, ass-sizes, legs, vaginal qualities etc.--he's totally gay.
 
He sounds hot and fun...you should give him my number
 
that first post wears me out. did you type that all in one breath, buddy?

whew

skip the next bump and use the enter key occasionally...lol

maybe you need to just think less about it and kiss him the next time he stares at your mouth.
 
I'm not sure I'm convinced based on what you've said, but I would certainly be skeptical as well. Perhaps make similar comments about him looking hot in jeans. Be a little more suggestive and see how he reacts. Let him see you looking at guys too. Perhaps if he sees his friend doing or thinking the same things, he might become more comfortable coming to terms with an attraction to men, or even let it go further.
I wouldn't do much more than that though, not yet.
 
Tell him you are gay.

And that you find him incredibly hot.
 
well he made a joke about certain guys having big dicks and he patted me on the leg, when we go out to a bar or something he seems kind of territorial over me, and he sits with his legs facing me (when i was sitting next to him). he also smokes from a pipe that is shaped like a penis! he said its a "joke" and he just wants to see peoples reactions.
 
So many clues in your post I half expected it to end with I'm writing this with his cock in my ass.
 
Oh for God's sake. Your friend is gay. He knows you're gay. Why don't you two just fuck and get it over with?
 
yeah you guys are probably right, he seems totally into me (he doesnt hang out with anyone NEARLY as much as me). How should i go about this? what should i do or say?
 
Dude yes there's no doubt about it especially since the "pat on the leg." Just be cautious if you feel you're right for each other then go at it, if you're really desperate then make a move. When I say make a move I mean like make huge advances on him.

When he pats you on the leg again grab his arm and make him rub your leg some more.
 
I don't want to get your hopes up, but if he is checking out your ass than I would at least tell him you're gay.

If he isn't gay and he doesn't like the fact that you are than you risk losing the friendship, but if he is really your friend he will stick around and if he is into guys than you might have better luck that way, but if not stay in the cloest and stay good friends.

But the fact that he is looking at your butt makes me think he is into you. My guy friends don't look at my ass and they're all straight...so yeah.
 
None of us know your friend, but you do, so that puts you at an advantage ..|. Tell him you're gay and if he is, he'll probably tell you too. He probably assumes you're gay and that you know he's gay too.

Talk about it. It'll be better.​
 
yeah, i should do something. When he looks at my mouth (espescially when i am sitting close to him), it drives me bonkers
 
Whatever.

time to fish or cut bait.

The interest in the 'is he, or isn't he' will start to wane pretty fast among your readers here if you don't take some decisive action, or decide that you're going to leave it alone because you don't want to risk a friendship by fucking it up with sex.

So either do something about it or stop mooning over it.
 
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