Is my hot friend interested in me?

[sixthson]

Have you guys ever talked about your sex lives with other people?

 

[Alistair]

Have you guys ever talked about your sex lives with other people?

To whom are you directing this question?

 

[sixthson]

To whom are you directing this question?

Rex

 

[Rex]

Have you guys ever talked about your sex lives with other people?

What do you mean? We don't talk about anything involving gay sex. I'm out to him but not his friends. I know he prefers it that way. The most he's gone into detail about his sex life is I know he's into girls but he rarely talks about his sex life unless I ask him about girls and if he's seeing anyone.

 

[Rex]

Sorry to sound pessimistic but I just don't get the feeling he's interested in anything other than friendship. Bumping feet while eating out isn't much of a signal. I doubt think there's anything wrong with flirting with him but don't be surprised if he isn't interested. Is it worth losing a friend over? It may just happen. If you're committed to giving it a go then do some light flirting and see what happens. Hopefully it won't freak him out. Best wishes

Steven

It was the way he did the feet bumping. He was slightly drunk and it happened too many times that night to just be an accident and he kinda let out an embarrassing laugh when I pulled my foot away and he saw me smile. He might not be interested but he made me atleast want to respond back to that eventually just to know for sure. I'll probably just ask him when the moment feels right instead of trying anything too forward.

 

[Rex]

Last weekend me and my friend had an awesome time hanging out. We went to the gym, then went to eat and got pretty drunk and later hung out at this house. I feel we got closer this time and he mentioned the trip to Vegas again. At the end of the night, he was falling asleep when we were watching a movie so I decided it was time to go. When he got up and we were saying our goodbyes, I asked him "are you gonna go to sleep?" and his response was "hmmm.. maybe" with a smile and I knew what he was getting at but when I told him I was getting going, his expression changed from excitement to more just saying a bro goodbye. He was pretty drunk but I knew he was hinting at maybe doing something. Unfortunately, he has two roommates who were there (sleeping) but still would not have been a comfortable situation with them in the house. Anyway, the way he said "maybe" was sure fire sign he was interested in doing something so at this point, it's definitely not in my head. I guess I'll have to wait for the right moment but I still haven't had the guts to just outright tell him I'm into him badly and ask him if he's curious.

 

[SoccerGay]

Why not invite him to your place next time where you are alone with him and ask him if he would like to stay over the night?

 

[rareboy]

^ I agree.

Particularly if he is a little tipsy. You don't have to take advantage of him...but he may be one of those guys who needs to mask his desires behind being a little loosened up.

The risk is that he might play it like 'I was so drunk I didn't know what I was doing'....and your friendship suffers....but he may have no second thoughts the morning after. Especially if the sex is good.

 

[jaysizzles]

He knows you are bisexual, right? It seems he's throwing every hint he can think of out to you for you to respond to, but you keep on backing off. He might be starting to think that you're not interested. It's time for you to make the next move. Next time you two are hanging out watching tv and drinking beers, rub your crotch and casually say that you're horny, or that you've got to bust a nut soon. His reaction will tell you what you want to know.