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Is my straight friend gay or Bi?
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OK I got a scenario/ question for you guys out there. I am bi , none of my friends know it. I have a friend who I think is either a gay or bi in the closet obviously. Let me tell you my reason why. When we were in college he was very anti-gay and always talks to me making gay jokes..etc most of you guys know what Im talking about typical straight gay guy jokes. Also this is soo cliche but he is a HUGE Tom Cruise fan! He is obsessed with him, and will "joke" about hooking up with him. I mean we all know about Tom Cruise and gay guys. Secondly I was talking to a friend of his once when we were all a little tipsy, and his friend said that he would always try to show him his cock, or flash it etc. He has not done that to me though. Finally this may be small but when he was joking with me one time he made reference to the word "twink". Now I thought most st8 guys wouldn't even know what a twink even is. So i tested it with my other friends one night and they had no idea what a twink was. So after all this and other small things I kinda think that he is a repressed homosexual. Am I crazy or does this sound like a classic closet case? Maybe someone else out there has a same situation or knows more. What do my fellow JUB'rs think?;)
 
Marley those are very good points. I was just trying to get some feedback. I am not interested in him though, he is just one of my boys. I just get the feeling that he is gay or bi.
 
Tis tru ya after I posted..the thread I was like..wow uh that might be kind of misleading..haha
 
The fastest way to know is to ask him. I sure beats speculation.

If you are not interested in him then why do you want to know?

I am assuming you're a pretty young guy. I work with guys 18 to 25 mostly. You cannot suppose anything about anyone. I know guys that will walk around naked ad infinitum. I know others that won't change in an open room. I know straight guys that have gay best friends and I know straight guys that get all wonky around gays or guys they even remotely think might be gay. Knowing terms is no big. His girlfreind might be a fag hag.

If you want to know, honesty is the best policy....ask him?
 
i just recently found out like 3 or 4 days ago that a friend from high school is gay/bi but he has three kids, so you never know until you ask. i'd would have never guessed about my friend but he was truthful and told me and answered all my questions i in turn had to tell him about my own love of the thing we call man meat.. lol but i just broke it gently. i would say from my own expierences but please take it with a grain of salt cause everyone and everyones situation is different, find out what he can handle first before u go blurting out about you being bi, start him out gradually, dont just come out and say u like guys... dont want to freak him out and FOR GODS SAKE DONT MAKE A PASS AT HIM... BIG MISTAKE,
 
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