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Is promiscuity wrong?

bankside said:
Hell, ten guys in ten years and I'd call slut. But I'm old-fashioned that way.
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Seriously, wtf.

That's a different guy every day for close to two weeks.


As for promiscuity, it's not for me- and a big part of why I'm really detached from gay culture. I just can't associate with it and SO MUCH of gay culture is based around it. I don't care what individuals do but when it's at the core of an entire being/community.

Pass. Superpass.
 
It's up to the individual to decide whether or not it's wrong.

But, if it's done in ways that endanger people (such as somebody continuing to be promiscuous when infected with gonorrhea, etc. - or maybe far worse), THAT is wrong...

But promiscuity by itself, done safely? I can only determine whether it's "wrong" for my own preferences, and not anybody else's.
 
I don't think so.

It's like my mum told me once, 'go sleep around have fun, thats what life is all about'.
 
What is gratuitous about sex?
 
If you want to have a sexual encounter with someone and are safe---no harm no foul.

Addiction, codependency, and whatever psycho-babel someone else wants to label others with--- just shows some of their own issues about sex. Desperately wanting to have sex and not allowing yourself the freedom to do so, seems (to me) to be a much unhealthier personally trait than someone who goes after what they want and can achieve it.


Many people have different needs and wants---just because you can't understand them(or approve) doesn't make it into a psychological issue--
 
Society likes to frown upon it.

but then again, society likes to be pretentious
 
As long as the people you ride are clean (there's nothing worse than a funky dick) and they don't offer you money afterwords, I say what the hell!
 
I think it's bad and not for me because it wastes time you could be using looking for something lasting, but I have a moral imperative against it, so no, it isn't really wrong, just something I would never do.
 
No it is not wrong.

"Take it from a whore who's turned many a trick. The best loving comes from a dick long and thick!"

But you should play as safely as you can and don't be dishonest if you are in a relationship.
 
rareboy said:
What is gratuitous about sex?
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^ I love this!

When I'm on my deathbed, I think I'd find no satisfaction looking back on all the sex that I missed out on! But maybe others find consolation knowing they denied themselves pleasure during their brief time on the planet...
 
Epic Fail said:
If the men were willing and able... and I wasn't JUST in the process of coming out... I'm sure I'd be doing many many regrettable things.
Maybe it's a good thing that I ain't :D


Promiscuity ..|
If clean and not with dirty people for drugs shouldn't be a problem.
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Why did you mention the drug thing?
Why does the reason you're having sex with someone make it any different, like other people are saying, "its your body."


I find it funny how you can say its not wrong unless said reason.
 
ApexWonderKid said:
Why is it usually women and gay men who get scorned for having a lot of sex?
Straight guys never get called 'sluts' for banging every skirt that passes by.
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That's actually really not true. They're not admonished for it but aside from frat houses; it's not a medal of honor. They're the sleazy friend at parties.
 
Having been both promiscuous and monogamous I think to each their own. Both play styles have their ups and downs and as long as it's consensual and no one gets hurt be who you want to be!
 
It's unhealthy mentally (your mind is programmed in only having sex or getting an orgasm), emotionally (no attachment), physically (if unprotected...), and spiritually (youre giving up pieces of yourself to too many people).

There's no gain besides knowing how to suck and fuck better.
 
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