Is race the most important thing to you?

[JPGhost]

I'm trying to think if I have racial preferences...but I can't come up with any. If the guy or girl is attractive to me, it isn't because of their skin color.

Nah..derek, I know you going nuts when a girl super eager/extremely thirsty with your d

 

[JPGhost]

First time joined JUB in 2011..something never change
I just test the water, we still drowning in the same puddle.

But personally I changed alot..change..change changed alot and I'm glad with myself, a bit proud of myself

because I'm not basic anymore

 

[tarallucci]

life proof http://asian-beef.tumblr.com/post/95415724531/alwaysbeenstocky-stocky-asian-guys
I think it's because of demographic- they're definitely not concentrated in your area (Italy?)
But you right about your type could be abundant in one or some ethnicities but not the other..even in their homeland, not many asian guys could become that large/stocky and even gay altogether..

But you can trust me or not..if he's very far from your ideal range- the chemistry will end at some level. ^^

Not bad, though they are still too smooth and thin to muscular.

The Chinese community is pretty large in Tuscany and Lombardy.

I'm not sure about that. I've been with someone who was very tall, basically hairless but still chubby, somewhat uncut lol, not exactly handsome to my eyes, and the chemistry has been extraordinary. The folksy nature is everything to me.

While on the other hand I have seen and known guys who represent my idea of aesthetic perfection who have a mundane predisposition... and that is a complete turn off.

 

[Cormac135]

When you say "no fats, no fems", you refer to a human's physique. It's like what you wrote. I want a sports car. I want leather seats. But when you see "No Blacks, no Asians", the person dismisses an ENTIRE race which to me is Racism. If he indicates his preferences "Not into Blacks with big dicks" or "Not into Asians with small dicks", that I understand. OK, they're stereotypes but at least the person doesn't reject an entire race.

If the person wrote "No Jews" (and let's say you're Jewish), would you accuse him of being anti-Semitic? Or would you think it's just his "preference"?

I bet you're white (and I might be wrong) because you dismissively think "their race preferences are no more or less offensive than Cormac's "no fats, no fems, etc." which is comparing orange with apple. A person who hasn't experienced racism would not write something like that. You might think there is nothing essentially wrong with the line "No Blacks, No Asians" but to Blacks and Asians, it's quite offensive. And racist. Some gay men think it's OK to use it and hide their racist views behind the "Oh it's just a preference. I have Black and Asian friends" blanket. It's like saying, Yeah I have minorities in my team but I only promote Caucasians.

And Yes, the dating apps DO represent gay men in a way, including you.

Eh, i was just joking about the no fats no fems.

 

[peeonme]

I'm sorry in behalf of all asians but you know right? There always be cunts in every race?

I should not have posted that, I am sure that there are many who don't act as the one's that I have worked with, I have seen many picture that you have posted, you are very cute.