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Is Spooning a Fetish

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So like most folks I really enjoy sex. :sex:

As much fun as sex is, sleeping with another guy is actually my favorite activity. My boyfriend and I are like a couple of puppies in bed. We are all over each another all night long. He even snores and I find that oddly soothing. Interestingly, I have never slept more soundly.;)

How about you?
 
Sometimes I prefer the spooning and cuddling afterwards more than the actual sexual act. Not that the sex is lacking, though :D it's just something about me holding my boyfriend and him holding me in the post-cumming afterglow that makes me feel so safe and loved :-)
 
Spooning is great. Especially if the person you're sleeping with has the right body temperature. Sometimes a guy can be a little too warm.

One thing I don't like about it is that it usually makes me really cold right after getting out of bed. I have a theory that I use the warm body next to me as a heat source, and turn off my internal heating system. Then, when I get out of bed it takes some time before it's turned back on.
 
Too many guys miss all the good parts of sex because all they are thinking of is ram, bam, and scram.

The time before when you slowly undress each other and then run your tongue all over each other, stopping to suck and lick all the good parts. Then, after you've spilled your load, cuddling up with a guy and holding him all night long.

The hubby and I love to spoon; matter of fact I sometimes have a hard time sleeping when I travel because I miss his arms around me or mine around him. Plus, smelling him gives me some soothing comfort. We often sleep on each other's shoulder with our arms around the other....it is so much of a turn-on.

Heck, sometimes even without sex, we'll just spoon on the couch at night and fall asleep in each other's arms or on the other's lap. Plus, when you wake up, you are in the perfect position to slide inside and have a little morning fun!
 
I abso-fucking-lutely love it! There is nothing that compares to being held/holding your man after going through one of life's greatest pleasures. To me, it is pure ecstacy...having two souls as close as possible, held back only by the limits of the skin. I love it, love it...love it.

Honestly, just thinking about spooning with my man gets me hard, and nights when we aren't able to be together are the worse. I can't sleep at all, but its almost comforting to know that a person can have that affect on you
 
Spooning, and its brother cuddling, are the best sexually-related activity there is...period! After all, I can easily orgaz all by myself at home, but spooning and cuddling REQUIRE the actual presence of somebody else.

Yes, kumming can be done at home, AND it's great with somebody, but it's not quite as special as the physical closeness which can last for hours.

I've found, nearly as often as not, that the sensations from cuddling and/or spooning can sometimes be so intense that they completely swamp and overwhelm the actual sexual feelings, so much that actually having an orgasm doesn't always happen. In fact, when I've really been deeply into the touching stuff, I can often be there for hours without even being "hard."

Most people would think that it means I'm not really into them or something, but usually if I'm intimate with somebody and barely even getting hard, it probably means that I'm enjoying the encounter to the utmost.
 
Glad to hear your happy! But finding it slightly disturbing that you ask if building intimacy in your relationship is considered a taboo, or fetish. Over it now, sorry.

Spooning is the best. Sometimes I like to be held and sometimes I like to hold. But the best for me is face to face, hard cocks poking in da belly, my arm is has fallen asleep and I don't care snugglin. Try it, you'll like.
 
ariesstar89 said:
I abso-fucking-lutely love it! There is nothing that compares to being held/holding your man after going through one of life's greatest pleasures. To me, it is pure ecstacy...having two souls as close as possible, held back only by the limits of the skin. I love it, love it...love it.

Honestly, just thinking about spooning with my man gets me hard, and nights when we aren't able to be together are the worse. I can't sleep at all, but its almost comforting to know that a person can have that affect on you
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Aries....couldn't agree with you any more. BTW...nice to hear from you!


fetaby said:
Glad to hear your happy! But finding it slightly disturbing that you ask if building intimacy in your relationship is considered a taboo, or fetish. Over it now, sorry.

Spooning is the best. Sometimes I like to be held and sometimes I like to hold. But the best for me is face to face, hard cocks poking in da belly, my arm is has fallen asleep and I don't care snugglin. Try it, you'll like.
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OK...maybe fetish wasn't the right word....but I know I LOVE it!!!
 
thewiz said:
Too many guys miss all the good parts of sex because all they are thinking of is ram, bam, and scram.
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Couldn't of said it better, thats the best part is before and after sex, its so cute.
 
^ Abso-fuckin'-lutely!!!

What I call "afterplay" can be really fantastic, because undivided attention is given to the cuddling and closeness itself, as the sexual urge has been taken care of already.
 
Foreplay...hot sex...cuddling/spooning. It's the complete package! Anyone who just goes for a fuck is just getting the 'cliff notes' on what a good time with another man should be.
 
Well I've been enjoying spooning with my guy, especially in this colder weather. But what I really like is when he lies sort of on top of my chest and lays his head there, and I can hold it and caress his neck, ears, his back. And since I'm the one that's always cold, he keeps me warm that way too :D Definitely enjoyable.
 
I don't think spooning can be considered a fetish but, if you add a knife and fork its deffinately a threesome.
Casper
 
I love being the 'big spoon.' I can never really get comfortable or fall asleep being the 'little spoon.' It kinda sucks wanting to be the 'big spoon' when you're only 5'10" and 135 lbs; sometimes it just doesn't fit!

...but it's still kind of fun spooning a guy 1/2 a foot taller than you. :lol:
 
Pocono is SOOOO SPOONABLE -- slide over a bit and I'll be right behind you !!! If you feel a little something --- oh well !! your fault for being soo sexy !!
 
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