Is the appeal of anal sex REALLY the 'scat' and smell?

[FatherGhostface]

I just always assumed that most people who engage in anal sex shower/wash/clean thoroughly in and out of that area before actually doing it. That's the only way *I* would ever do it.

I'll hear some guys say that a perfect ass is one that is smelly and dirty and I just get sick to my stomach. It's no wonder people stereotype and generalize that us gays are 'gross' and have 'poo fetishes'.

Why? How is that appealing? That kind of stuff should ruin the appeal if anything...*cue the replies calling me a "snob"*

 

[midnight81]

I'm pretty sure when people say they like a smelly/dirty ass, they mean sweaty and smelling like man-musk. NOT covered in and smelling like shit.

Although there are always exceptions, in both the gay and straight worlds.

 

[FatherGhostface]

I'm pretty sure when people say they like a smelly/dirty ass, they mean sweaty and smelling like man-musk. NOT covered in and smelling like shit.

Although there are always exceptions, in both the gay and straight worlds.

No I'm sorry I've read things made by other users on all kinds of message boards, blogs, etc. and they all talk about smelly ripe dirty asses as in poo smelly and scat.

 

[SilverWolf]

I just always assumed that most people who engage in anal sex shower/wash/clean thoroughly in and out of that area before actually doing it. That's the only way *I* would ever do it.

I'll hear some guys say that a perfect ass is one that is smelly and dirty and I just get sick to my stomach. It's no wonder people stereotype and generalize that us gays are 'gross' and have 'poo fetishes'.

Why? How is that appealing? That kind of stuff should ruin the appeal if anything...*cue the replies calling me a "snob"*

Having a nice thoroughly clean ass is how I like it as well.

I have no interest in a smelly, dirty, or even "ripe" ass. I have no interest in a smelly, dirty, or "ripe" body part. The very thought makes me want to puke. I have nothing against those who do, but it's not for me at all.

 

[vforvendetta]

I really think you ended up with a very biased initial sample - I'm the same way as the other posters, it's the 'musk' that's the turn on (pheromones are produced anywhere you find pubic hair). If there's poo down there, count me out!

 

[Nomenclature]

No, it's how amazing prostate stimulation feels for the bottom, and how tight the hole is for the top.

 

[cocksucker4use]

OK, so I am a pig. Raunchy and nasty does not bother me. However, I am hella aware that a lot of guys can not and will not deal with shit on any level. The best fuckin top I have ever had could not stand it - at all. The next dude was totally into it, and that was a big part of the deal. However, if you're gonna do butt sex, then there is always that possibility of shit. As a bottom, I have prepped my ass when I anticipate that I am gonna get fucked -- from a quickie fleet's that left me squeaky clean, to a three hour ritual which resulted in a disaster. So, there is always a degree of unpredictability, in my experience. When I am the top, I am not turned on by shit, necessarily, but if it happens and the bottom is not freaked out, I am not gonna call the hole thing off....lol. This occurred a coupla weeks ago, and by the time shit entered the equation, I was well into fuckin this boy's hole, and just wanted to score my nutt...As far as the perception of queers as shit jockeys, well I have known a hella number of straight folks that are into butthole sex one way or another. Including my exwife, who thought that was the problem and so offered up her asshole eagerly, thinking that's what I wanted the boys for....oh, well! Bottom line: shit happens and you deal with it.

 

[smydplzz]

I've never heard anyone equate gays to "poo lovers" but if they do I imagine it's just because they're being ignorant. I find it disgusting and make sure to have everything clean if I'm spending the night with a guy, even if I'm not bottoming. Again, it's that musky smell that gets me going, not anything related to waste.

I also should say that I don't like when people say things to the effect of: "it's because of gays like these that give the 'gay population' a bad stereotype." By having this mentality it's oppressing the very group that you identify yourself as being a part of. People think badly about gay men because they are ignorant, not because of how we are.

 

[Monkeydonkey]

Maybe 'dirty' refers more to the man-smell and sweat instead of other unpleasant odors...

 

[HornyHenry]

I always preferred to fuck a clean ass and getting my own ass kissed, licked and sucked by a rimmer who liked to lick/suck my ass clean.
Some dirty assholes made up for it by sucking my dick clean after I pulled out of them, just dont let one kiss you above the belt.

 

[piggybear114]

I clean myself out with a water Dildo It goes on the shower head and hoses me out good. I also have a juicy boy pussy. It self lubricates. After I fuck myself with the water Dildo my ass produces a slippery clear lubrication. I do believe the body produces it to help the poop slide out and not stck to the walls of the rectum. The fact is this. no matter how hard you try to clean out there will be accidents. The guys who freak out are immature baby's. It is just poop it washes off. Haven't any of you changed a brothers diaper? you clean it up no big deal. If you don't want to encounter shit don't have anal sex. where did you think you were sticking your penis into a vagina?

 

[HornyHenry]

If you don't want to encounter shit don't have anal sex. where did you think you were sticking your penis into a vagina?

Many vaginas arent very clean either.
Some bottoms will suck the Top's dick clean after the Top pulls out of their asses.

 

[DepravedMuscleFTL]

ahhh - this is nonsense - the appeal of fucking for most has nothing to do with ripe or dirty - its a natural built in component of tops to breed - just like straight males - they fuck because its natural and feels good - the ratio of those who fuck for other purposes is always going to be dwarfed by the majority who fuck because its a built in desire...

bigots who call gays poo lovers - jesus poo is so juvenile - what are you 10 - anyho bigots who call gays shit lovers do that because we fuck ass - wether its sparkling clean or not they will always continue to do so out of hate...

and for the record why knock what you havent experienced - my hopes is that some big hairy assed muscle daddy puts his ripe right after the gym puckered hole right in your face and smothers you - couldnt happen to a more deserving guy....

 

[AsianDream]

For being clean myself I’m quite fanatical – especially as I like watersports “piss enema” play. So I do a fairly elaborate clean out ritual a few hours in advance.

I’m not into scat - but I’ve fucked guys where there was some mess – never worried me at all – nor been a turn off.

But if I’m rimming someone – guess it would be a turn-off is they weren’t clean – but never happened

 

[mbamike]

Since I douche and shower before hooking up with a guy, the answer is NO.

 

[HornyHenry]

The main appeal to anal sex is the smoothness of the anus and the tightness of it around our dicks.