is there a cream that numbs the asshole before you shove something up there?

[refujiunderground]

i'm not screwing anybody tonight, losing my virginity or anything like that but i would like to know if there's a such thing so in the near future, i can know what to buy so i don't feel the shock of my life when the dick slides up the trap door entry. i'm trying to say wow not oww the first time.

 

[swerve]

There is plenty of stuff like that out there...

PROBLEM IS that it ALSO will numb the guys cock...

IMO -- it is not as much fun for either the top or the bottom...

 

[Beachguyj]

A bottle of Bailey's Irish Cream, but drink it.

 

[refujiunderground]

There is plenty of stuff like that out there...

PROBLEM IS that it ALSO will numb the guys cock...

IMO -- it is not as much fun for either the top or the bottom...

it would still numb the other guy's dick even with a condom on?

buy a dildo and get used to the experience?

my first time bottoming involved no pain/shock, no drugs required.

uhhhhhhh.... Dildo have you tried that?

 

[Beachguyj]

Just be a top, the last thing the gay world needs in another bottom.

 

[M4P]

Try this stuff but as Swerve said it will also numb your partner's dick so make him wear a condom - he should be anyway

 

[refujiunderground]

Just be a top, the last thing the gay world needs in another bottom.

i actually consider myself to be versatile.

 

[Asenath]

To answer your question seriously -- Yes, there is. And no, you don't want to use it. Pain is nature's way of saying STOP! If you don't stop when it hurts and go back to the foreplay & gentle stretching, you can seriously injure yourself.

 

[refujiunderground]

To answer your question seriously -- Yes, there is. And no, you don't want to use it. Pain is nature's way of saying STOP! If you don't stop when it hurts and go back to the foreplay & gentle stretching, you can seriously injure yourself.

i'm afraid that it'll hurt that's all. if it doesn't hurt, i'll be surprised.

 

[JayHawk]

But that is the point. Dont do damage you cant tell you are doing... do use smaller dildos and then increase to slightly bigger than your intended partner. The real thing feels bigger somehow...

Don't desensitize to avoid pain... do it to prolong pleasure

 

[refujiunderground]

But that is the point. Dont do damage you cant tell you are doing... do use smaller dildos and then increase to slightly bigger than your intended partner. The real thing feels bigger somehow...

Don't desensitize to avoid pain... do it to prolong pleasure

dildos.... alright, small as in how small. i haven't had anything shoved up my ass since i was 10 and that was with a themometer.

 

[refujiunderground]

I assume you go to the bathroom regularly, right? and aren't crying in pain every time you have a bowel movement?

if you're paranoid, start with some lube and a finger.

well, some days, it comes out without a prob. some days, i have to force it out of me. and then there are the other days where it hurts like hell and i can feel the shit tearing my insides apart when it's coming out my ass like last saturday. it hurt so bad that i was yelling in pain and stomping my feet. that's that shit right there.

i'm a shitphobe, man so i'm a bit weary about using my own finger to go up my hershey highway. i would rather have someone else do it though. you think vasoline would be some good lube to use????

 

[Soilwork]

Many porn stars for their bottoming scenes use Oragel.

Don't use the extra-strength... just the regular. You don't need a whole lot, by the time it wears off, you'll be wanting to feel it.

 

[TickTockMan]

I use

but Asenath is right. You really shouldn't use a product like that if you are new to anal. Also most of these type of products weaken condoms and make them break a bit easier. Keep that in mind.

To answer your question seriously -- Yes, there is. And no, you don't want to use it. Pain is nature's way of saying STOP! If you don't stop when it hurts and go back to the foreplay & gentle stretching, you can seriously injure yourself.

 

[refujiunderground]

Many porn stars for their bottoming scenes use Oragel.

Don't use the extra-strength... just the regular. You don't need a whole lot, by the time it wears off, you'll be wanting to feel it.

alright, thanks. will have this on deck for the first time besides the boy butter and elbow grease cream.

I use

but Asenath is right. You really shouldn't use a product like that if you are new to anal. Also most of these type of products weaken condoms and make them break a bit easier. Keep that in mind.

alright..... i'll try the finger method and hopefully it won't hurt. i think i'll practice jerking off together with a finger in my ass to do the whole massaging the prostate thing that people talk about.

 

[Soilwork]

With my budget right now...I think petroleum jelly doing it just fine!

NO!!

Petroleum Jelly will tear up the delicate mucus membranes inside your asshole. get silicone or water-based lube.

 

[TheFireGod]

My friend used a lube that would act like novacaine, numbing the ass. I don't know what it's called though.

 

[Beachguyj]

With my budget right now...I think petroleum jelly doing it just fine!

If you are on a budget get the Walmart (Equate) brand of KY lubricating jelly. It only costs around $2 or $2.50.

 

[Beachguyj]

Try Icy/Hot


























j/k

 

[Beachguyj]

Use water. Get a shower hose and buy an enema attachment. Once you can work it inside, it's not ticker than 2 fingers, the water will loosen you up, and clean your pus.