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It's creepy to send to his home address without his consent. Find an excuse to ask for his address first. Tell him the content of the package will be a surprise.
 
i think its only problematic if hes staying with his parents or relatives.

i think food and/or flowers are totally appropriate for somebody whom you dont know that well yet.
 
If by getting to know him, you mean you met in person and know his first and last name and what town he lives in, well then in the age of the Internet (or even the white pages of yore) it's not all that hard to figure out.

It's only creepy if you've never met him in person or if he's not really into you or he lives with others who don't know about you.

Does he live by himself?
 
Ah...now that we have more background info to work with. Since you two know each other very well for over a year, by all means, surprise him with a box of chocolates at his parents house ..| While you're at it, feel free to send me a box as well :lol:
 
Will it embarass him to receive a package at his parent's home?
 
Cannibal said:
There souldn't be any problem with the parents. He's been out since like 15 or so. He's more openly gay than I am.

Well, people, what should I get him beside chocolate? I was thinking of something that doesn't cost too much but means something. Don't want to over do it, you know?
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Partridges in a pear tree :D
 
When he asks you, "How did you know where I lived?" what are you going to tell him?
 
Why not just give it to him in person?

As for other gifts, you know the kind of music he likes, buy
him a CD. Or perhaps a DVD of some favorite movie?
 
Give him a kiss and tell him you like him. That might be what he really wants for Christmas.:-)
 
^ A kiss is perfectly fine for a first date...hold the tongue please. Tonsile wrestling each other is a bit much for a first date (but that never stopped me before).
 
Cannibal said:
I've slowly getting together with this guy, who is still a student. This holiday, I want to send a box of chocolate and something else straight to his home as a surprise. Is this ok or is it creepy? He doesn't know I know his home address.
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I'd find that not only creepy, but also fairly alarming.

Cannibal said:
Also, what other present should I get him? I can't think of anything off the top of my head. He's personality is feminine but he dresses like any other guy. He doesn't wear jewelery and stuff. Can't think of anything romantic to get him.
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Respect for his privacy.
 
Cannibal said:
He doesn't know I know his home address.
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It might end up creeping him out or being a really good surprise. It's gonna be a VERY good surprise or the END of everything. If you want to be safe I would recommend you don't do it without his consent or make sure he knows that you know his address.
 
Get him something sentimental between the two of you. A DVD of a movie the two of you went to see together or a movie he mentioned he loved as a kid. Maybe a CD with a song that has some meaning for you two or a song that reminds you of him and let him know.
 
Actually, I just meant a kiss on the cheek or a peck on the lips - I just think you should tell him that you like him. And it kind of sounds like he likes you too, so it's kind of "the gift that keeps on giving." I think that would be a nicer gift than any flowers or chocolate or whatever. Knowing that someone cares about you trumps any little holiday gift. Whatever happens, I wish you all the best. :-)
 
Cannibal said:
So, earlier today I went to the gym with him. Afterward, he invited me to his apartment. Well, you can figure out the rest.
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So he invited you to his apartment...to help him vacuum and wash the dishes? :confused:





:lol:
 
You were very sensitive to his needs, etc...asking us for advice on mailing a simple box of chocolates. Should I kiss or not? Then...boom! What a great surprise eh? Congrats man! :=D:

There's a thread on "Advice on how to get it on with a guy...coz he's moving too slow". I think he might have posted that one and followed our other advice :rotflmao:
 
Congrats! Kisses are always good.

*high five*

Hope all goes well!:-)
 
I dont see a problem at all. Even if you were just friends with no romantic involvement for over a year, I couldn't really see a problem with just sending a gift for Christmas. In the interest of his privacy, all you have to do is sign the card with your initials, which in the event he was feeling awkward back at home, it would allow him to tell his parents a small white lie.

I couldn't imagine any of my friends having a problem with sending them a gift, even if they hadn't told me the address. I'd just say I wanted to surprise them. I personally wouldn't be offended either (if I was good friends with the person), I'd be more flattered at the thought :D
 
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