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Is this guy giving me a hint?

cassandram

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Like I've said in other threads, I'm very new to dating and sex. A little over a week ago, I went out with this absolutely beautiful guy. I mean, stunningly beautiful. The entire time, I couldn't believe he was even with me. He has a really fun loving personality that put me at ease and we had a pleasant dinner.

We went out in the parking lot and talked for maybe 30/45 minutes and then he said he had to go. We said our goodbyes and then I texted him when I got back, wanting to make sure he got back safely since he lives 30 minutes away. He said he did and we resumed a little flirtation. I sent him a dick pic, trying to show him how hard he made me. He seemed intrigued and commented about the largeness of my dick head. He said he had to sleep and he'd send me pics the next day.

Anyway, he never texts and when he does, he talks about how busy he is [he works 40 hrs a week at a restaurant] and says he never has time to do anything.

Is he trying to tell me he's not interested or is he truly busy? I feel like an asshole taking up his time, but I really like him a lot. What say you?
 
Sending dick pics to a new beau can be a mistake, it can smack of desperation. Why not send him a text thanking him for a great time?
 
Experience life just a little more before being way laid by a gorgeous face....for life's teaching lessons, experience by any other name are a valuable tool providing us with the wherewithal to cope better with our emotions, always engaging us in our quest to love, and be loved in return....

There are many fish in the sea...at the appropriate moment you will hook a catch that appreciates you for more than your penis...
 
There could be so many reasons why he's seems to be avoiding you, as medic said it could be the dick pic seeming rather forward or desperate, maybe he's just really bad at letting people down and worried about conflict so he thinks the best way to confront it is by ignoring it or maybe he really is super busy and will get back to you when he can.
What I'll say is go with kallipolis' advice, stop texting and waiting around for his reply. Enjoy your life for you and not just some gorgeous face there will be plenty more, and maybe he will reply if you give him time and space.
 
Dick pic's are reasonably ok for the hookup app sites, but perhaps not so much after a nice respectable getting to know you date. Especially if it was out of the blue... "Hey - had a great time at dinner and talking with you tonight/getting to know you... oh by the way, here's my dick!"
 
borg69unimatrix said:
Dick pic's are reasonably ok for the hookup app sites, but perhaps not so much after a nice respectable getting to know you date. Especially if it was out of the blue... "Hey - had a great time at dinner and talking with you tonight/getting to know you... oh by the way, here's my dick!"
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^ I agreed. I would be offended seeing a dick pic after the first date.

I would prefer my date showing me his real dick under the dinner table for me to grab while still on the date. :lol:
 
He asked me if I was hard and I sent him the pic to prove it.
 
Rule to live your life by, guys who are interested will make the time to see you.
 
sending a dick pic on first date is kinda like telling someone you LOVE them after the first date.


makes one seem desperate....clingy.

a text saying what a great time you had, and looking forward to a next date may have been better.
 
Thanks, guys. Live and learn I guess. I kinda wanna send a text to apologize.
 
an apology would be a good move. his response will most likely let you know how he feels about things.

don't ever think someone is too good looking for you to date or is out of your "league". there's no such thing. I'm 47 5ft 7in and weigh 165. I'm balding and not very attractive at all and I dated an Abercrombie model for 6 months. trust me. I never in a million years thought it would happen but it did.

Steven
 
I apologized and he said it was fine, but he just doesn't have time to have a life with work and stuff, but he says he enjoys working. oh, well..
 
When there's a choice between believing a person's words or believing their actions, take their actions over their words. There are so many intangibles when it comes to forming a relationship that it's impossible to force it to happen. It does that on its own.

Just be yourself. That way you'll never have to put on an act. In time you'll understand all of this in an instant when someone is after you, but you don't feel the same way about them.
 
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