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Is This Guy I'm Talking To Lying About Who He Is? PLEASE HELP!

swerve said:
^It was EASIER for him to find a picture stating that his storage capacity was full than to find one of a guy biting his lip that had a small amount of facial hair...

The guy in PIC 2 is NOT the same as in pic 3...

I mean -- as far as I can tell -- they're TOTALLY different people -- NOT EVEN CLOSE...

But that is just MY perspective...

Best of luck!!!

:):):)
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thanks for your input. I just deleted his contact/conversations etc. from my phone and computer.

kind of sick that he did that. whoever he is. just glad I didn't tell him where I worked or lived or my last name or anything.

wish so much that it was real. oh well.
 
jubdown5 said:
thanks for your input. I just deleted his contact/conversations etc. from my phone and computer.

kind of sick that he did that. whoever he is. just glad I didn't tell him where I worked or lived or my last name or anything.

wish so much that it was real. oh well.
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If he contacts you again, make a date to meet for coffee or a drink at a bar. Make sure it's near your house so you aren't inconvenienced if he's a fraud.
 
Some people ask for facebook.
I'll just give my mobile, and its up to them if they want to contact me.
 
palemale said:
But my webcam actually is broken.
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lol well of course they really do break. However I think you'll find people claiming no pics/sorry can't show you anything other than this fuzzy cropped face closeup and "sorry my webcam's broken", and someone fairly serious about making something really happen with you will either pick up a new cam or take a pic with a friend's phone or something.

If they're not serious enough to do that, and their appearance seems sketchy, they're probably hiding something. Or not serious.
 
palemale said:
If he contacts you again, make a date to meet for coffee or a drink at a bar. Make sure it's near your house so you aren't inconvenienced if he's a fraud.
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Telstra said:
Some people ask for facebook.
I'll just give my mobile, and its up to them if they want to contact me.
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Corny said:
And even if I had facebook - why should I give a profile with so many personal infos to a stranger? No way ..
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Rolyo85 said:
If you're not arranging a hook up but actually talking to the guy, then he's not a stranger.
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Ok answer me this. Is it wrong to ask for multiple pics? Every time I talk to a guy from Grindr/Craigslist/A4A I feel like I'm breaking the law by asking for pics. Like, how am I supposed to know if I'm REALLY attracted to you if I don't know what your body/face really looks like?

If he hits me up again I'm definitely calling him out, but I have a feeling he's done playing this game.

I won't ask someone for their FB unless I'm totally sure it's them and we have an actual connection.
 
It's not a crime, though nobody likes feeling under investigation. But it's usually easy to get a sense that somebody is playing games and using a fake profile.

Btw, you list all those names and you seem to have some experience doing this sort of stuff, yet your profile says "curious"?
 
Rolyo85 said:
It's not a crime, though nobody likes feeling under investigation. But it's usually easy to get a sense that somebody is playing games and using a fake profile.

Btw, you list all those names and you seem to have some experience doing this sort of stuff, yet your profile says "curious"?
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experience with what? listing names? I haven't changed my profile since I first signed up, but I am GAY. not curious.
 
jubdown5 said:
Ok answer me this. Is it wrong to ask for multiple pics? Every time I talk to a guy from Grindr/Craigslist/A4A I feel like I'm breaking the law by asking for pics. Like, how am I supposed to know if I'm REALLY attracted to you if I don't know what your body/face really looks like?
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From my experience, when getting to know someone on line there's a fine line between chatting/flirting with them, and the right time to trade more pictures. You really have to balance it out, and unfortunately it's different from guy to guy.

If you JUST chat in text, sure, you get to know them, but they may do nothing for you sexually when you finally do see/meet them.
If you lean too hard on being a picture monger, then you come across as shallow and annoying and ONLY looking for sex.
 
It's a little strange that a guy would send you parts of his face before showing full pics. If you do decide to meet him...make sure that you meet him some distance away from his place or yours just so that if you're not into him you're not gonna feel any pressure and will be able to tell him so, as well as for your own safety.
 
Just be careful, I chatted to someone from this site and we sent emails to each other, and then stuff wasn't adding up and then I clicked and he admitted to using someones elses photo's.
 
Yeah I believe the fastest way to confirm that he is who says he is, is by video chat. I know you said you don't like it, but there are so many pics out there of one person...it is easy to fake someone. This is the 21st century...if he has an iPhone, he can video chat.
 
Looks like its time to send the beautifully HOT Neve in to do some work!
 
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