Is this guy looking for something?

[KaraBulut]

"man, I'm starting to think you really are gay". At wich point I SHOULD have said or done something clever, but I didn't.

Like, "I'm cuddling with a half-naked man in his bed- I think we're both gay".

Which would be as true as it is clever.

 

[backpacker]

He said "man, I'm starting to think you really are gay". At wich point I SHOULD have said or done something clever, but I didn't.

You should have said something like "Funny I was thinking the same thing about you".

As I said previously, he is just as afraid as you. My read is that he's hoping you will come out to him so that he can make a move. You both are playing this game. Every time it gets to the moment of truth, the fear kicks in and things cease. That's what I think happened with scratching incident.

I don't think that he's trying to use you or anything like that. He wouldn't be doing all the touchy stuff with you just to get money or stuff. If he were doing it to get money, things would have progressed a lot farther by now. Now a piece of advice, stop buying things for your friends unless they reciprocate. It actually hurts the friendship when you bring money into it. You won't have to question motives if there is nothing to question. Think about it.

By the way, congrats for taking a bit of risk on the scratching him thing.

 

[Jerry]

Thanks guys

We have another movie to watch tonight, so we'll see how that goes.

Backpacker, my friends usually do recip for things. Its not like I buy anything major, under $10 generally , and usually more for convenience or whatever. No big deal. They get me back. Besides, he really helped me out a few weeks ago when I was sick.

I don't really think he's just trying to use me I guess, I'm just getting frustrated with this.

But you guys should see him with his shirt off. Oh baby is he hot!

 

[G-Lexington]

When he pushed you away, smile and say "Hey, you want it or not? Or would you rather scratch me?" Put the ball totally and squarely in his court.

Lex

 

[Jerry]

I think its just going to have to come down to a right time, right place, right moment kind of thing. I mean I can keep trying, but I'm not gonna go too nuts lest I embarass myself or worse.

The only real problem is that we both have roommates and they're both coming back soon. So when that happens we won't have the privacy anymore. I'd really like to get it out in the open between us before they get back.

It feels like we're so close, but that one last hurdle is seemingly insurmountable at this point. I mean we made some progress if we're laying in bed half naked, running our hands through each other's hair, all that stuff. Straight guys don't do that stuff. Maybe a playful ass grab once in a while, but not like what we're doing.

Hopefully work doesn't call again tonight (though they may) and I'll be able to watch another movie with him. This time I'll see if I can get him in my room since the lights were bright as hell in his room last night, which may have served to impede our progress. I'll be working the dimmer this time.

I wish I had a pic of his abs and chest though guys, I think you'd like it too. Well, if you're in to smooth, fit, young Latino guys you would.


And I think my reply for a "I think you're gay" comment this time will be "Just for you baby" (since I call him baby anyway). It may not be the best, but it beats "I'm just fucking around man"

 

[backpacker]

Go for it! I also like the "just for you baby" reply. Good luck!

 

[Jerry]

Go for it! I also like the "just for you baby" reply. Good luck!

Thanks, I appreciate it.

Hopefully I can get him over here tonight. Then I'll be interested in what he's wearing. If he's got some easy-off shorts, that should be a clue.
I need to make this happen quick so it doesn't fizzle out.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>Then I'll be interested in what he's wearing. If he's got some easy-off shorts, that should be a clue.

And another "in". "Those look convenient. Easy on, easy off."

Lex

 

[swarley]

I seriously hope it works out for you because if it doesn't, it will probably be kind of embarrassing. I know you're looking at the positive things that could come out of this, but are you also looking at the negative if it doesn't? I'm not trying to bring you down or anything... just trying to make sure you don't get hurt.

 

[Jerry]

I seriously hope it works out for you because if it doesn't, it will probably be kind of embarrassing. I know you're looking at the positive things that could come out of this, but are you also looking at the negative if it doesn't? I'm not trying to bring you down or anything... just trying to make sure you don't get hurt.

I appreciate that. That's why I'm trying to always have an "out" if something goes wrong. Kinda why I'm not so good with the impromptu stuff.
If I make a move physically or verbally and he doesn't respond favorably, I'm able to play it off like I was just messing around or whatever so he doesn't get spooked and call me out.

But as far as it going to the physical level and going bad from there, well I don't know. But he's in it just as deep as me at that point. If he wants to talk shit and make stuff up or something crazy, I'm bigger than he is. That won't last long.

 

[Jerry]

Well I just texted him and he texted me back saying he was going to watch the movie and wash clothes.
I told him he doesn't need clothes, he's good without 'em (HINT, fucker!).

Anyway, it looks like the movie may be on but it'll probably be in his bright ass room again and with another distraction. And I found out my roommate is coming back early tomorrow.

Dammit!

Maybe I'll just have to wait until we hang out and get drunk again, but I'm not giving up on tonight yet. I texted and told him to let me know what he "wanted to do", another subtle hint since we already know what we were going to do. Maybe this guy's just not that bright, I don't know. He sure is cute though!

 

[swarley]

lol I wonder what would happen if you just texted him saying "wanna have sex tonight?" If I knew you, I would give you $50 just to text that lol. I hope you get the answer you want tonight. Let us know how it goes.

 

[Jerry]

lol I wonder what would happen if you just texted him saying "wanna have sex tonight?" If I knew you, I would give you $50 just to text that lol. I hope you get the answer you want tonight. Let us know how it goes.

Ha, that's actually not a bad idea.

He came over with the movie and YES, he was wearing some easy-off shorts. He laid down in my bed with me and after a minute he started "adjusting" himself again. He was SO obviously "outlining" his cock through his shorts for me. It looked nice too! And again he asked me if I wanted to do it for him, but I screwed it up again.

Now the good news, he has off tomorrow so he said he wants to hang out all night with me. (He's gone right now taking care of something). Funny thing is he changed to pants right before he left, kinda like those shorts really were for me.

I'm pretty happy right now, I think this may happen tonight. I'm gonna take a shower and straighten the room/bed up a little before he gets back and with any luck, it'll be a good night. I'm sure he'll end up in my bed again, and he said he wanted to drink, so that's pretty handy too.

I promise you guys, I'm gonna go for it tonight. It's all or bust. I'm really convinced he wants me to do something, so I'm going to. Besides, if I don't, I've just been wasting everyone's time here.

Man, I miss him in my bed already.
Maybe I'll text him before he gets back and tell him that.

 

[KaraBulut]

Probably not the metaphor to use but sometimes the shortest distance between two points is a "straight" line.

Watch TV in bed together and cuddle. When the movies is over, get up turn off the TV, turn off the light and crawl back into bed with him. See what happens.

 

[Kyanimal]

Here's another thought ... and I don't mean to bring You "down"!

It seems Your Friend is comfortable enough, and confident enough, in his "own skin", to let You "play" with Him ... and ... Him with You! I can not express just how "Priceless!" that is!!

However ... from what You've told "Us" ... He draws a line at His crotch! He may, indeed, be perfectly Str8! If that's the case ... pushing that "line" just might send Him packing!

You are on the right track keeping Your "outs" handy! But ... also ... be a bit wary of being too aggressive! He may be at His "limit"! Obviously, He is more than "comfortable" with You! But ... He is also Trusting You!

I'm just saying ... is the idea of Sex more important than simply Enjoying the snuggling and cuddling?? (Which is totally AWESOME, by the way!)

Advice? Wear as little as "casually" possible around, and near, Him. Make Yourself completely "available" to Him. But ... also allow Him to make "it" His choice! He has already approached that "line"! Let it be His decision to "cross" it, though!

Of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[Jerry]

Here's another thought ... and I don't mean to bring You "down"!

It seems Your Friend is comfortable enough, and confident enough, in his "own skin", to let You "play" with Him ... and ... Him with You! I can not express just how "Priceless!" that is!!

However ... from what You've told "Us" ... He draws a line at His crotch! He may, indeed, be perfectly Str8! If that's the case ... pushing that "line" just might send Him packing!

You are on the right track keeping Your "outs" handy! But ... also ... be a bit wary of being too aggressive! He may be at His "limit"! Obviously, He is more than "comfortable" with You! But ... He is also Trusting You!

I'm just saying ... is the idea of Sex more important than simply Enjoying the snuggling and cuddling?? (Which is totally AWESOME, by the way!)

Advice? Wear as little as "casually" possible around, and near, Him. Make Yourself completely "available" to Him. But ... also allow Him to make "it" His choice! He has already approached that "line"! Let it be His decision to "cross" it, though!

Of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

That's some really sound advice, I really appreciate your input.

And you may be right on. Last night when we were laying here he put his arm around me and pulled me close to him, kinda kissed me on the head and then played with my ear a little. We just looked at each other and smiled and cuddled some more. It seemed like he was trying to start something but just wasn't quite ready. He's close though, or so it seems.

Like I said before though, he's my friend and the friendship is more important to me than getting in his pants. I love snuggling with him in bed and playing around with him, so I don't want to lose that either. Since we joke around like that around our friends, we already have a "cover" if anyone were to get any ideas about us, should we decide to go further.

He had some other issues last night with family and stuff so we didn't get the chance to get back to my room, but we did sit and hang out for a while. It was weird, he kept like staring at me from across the table. I'd look back at him and he'd wink or just keep looking at me. He was upset about something else though, so he went in early. I really wanted to console him, but I guess he needed some alone time.

I texted him though and said I was here for him if he needed me, and that I loved him. He texted back and said thanks, and that he loved me too.

So I guess I'm cool with not getting in his pants right now. I'd really like to, but I guess it'll just have to happen naturally. It'll probably be a better experience that way anyhow. I just wish I could stop thinking about him for a minute. Ha.

 

[swarley]

lol i think somebody is falling in love

 

[backpacker]

I understand taking things at a pace you are comfortable with. I still think both of you are so afraid of "being found out", that neither will make the move. You guys are inching closer and closer. I just hope you close the deal before you are old and gray.

 

[veryhotguy]

It's pretty obvious that he's into you. When you both finally had the courage to tell each other what you really want, even when it's just sex, you'll probably be sorry that you waited so long. Just imagine all the good times you could have had when the roommates were gone... (not that what you guys did isn't good, it gets me turned on just by reading what happened)

 

[beatleshead]

Excuse me...

U GUYS R SO GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!....

Two guys cuddle and "adjust" each other cocks and they still think, "hey I wonder if hes gay?"

COME ON!!!!!!

JUST GO FOR IT!!!AHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

lmao