Is this guy looking for something?

[Raincoat Massacre]

There be an update when I get back from the debates tonight!!!

 

[Jerry]

There be an update when I get back from the debates tonight!!!

He's waiting for me outside, but real quick...

He was (standing) in my room today and I was laying on the bed, so I kinda caressed his junk with my foot. He smiled, reached down and lightly grabbed at my junk.

Then later we were talking and he said "this and this are both yours". I think you know where he was pointing.

I gotta go, he's waiting. And my roommate isn't back yet!

 

[Jerry]

Well, we were out drinking with some frinds tonight and he said he was wanting to keep drinking. No problem there. So as everyone else left, we started talking.

I brought up my suspicion that he was just using me for my money and car.
Wow did things go bad. He took off the $100 sunglasses I gave him (to borrow) and said we could go immediately to his room and he'd give me te rest of my "shit" back.

Not so good.

So I explained to him that I've been burned before, I really really liked him, and I was just afraid that this was going to be fake too. We ended up talking for quite a while, exchanging stories. I let him talk and just listened for about an hour or so before we headed in. But I think we made nice at the end. Man, that was a close call, but I got some insight into this guy and I think what I learned was positive.

He said he wants to change our living arreangements so we can be roommates, so that's a bonus right there.

I think I'm gonna head to his room right now and make sure we're "good", in the hopes we "make up" a bit more.

We'll see what happens.

 

[kramer362]

This is a shot in the dark but if you're not sure about making a move physically maybe mention how close you've gotten and that it was bizarre to you, like

"We are closer than I've ever been with another guy and don't act like it's a typical friendship, something's different about it so I got paranoid you had some motive but I absolutely do not think that's true after talking to you"

Anyone feel free to say that's stupid and would ruin everything. I'm just saying what I think might help, unfortunately I have no experience whatsoever to apply to my advice in this situation

 

[Coffee]

Damn.
But why did he push me away when he offered to let me "scratch" him?
I mean come on, I did better this time than I had in the past, and still got nothing. This dude needs to meet me in the middle or something.

--> may be he's just a little embarrassed as you. May be he's been thinking too much like you.

But you guys should see him with his shirt off. Oh baby is he hot!

--> If I lived near you, I would steal him from you haha, just kidding

The only real problem is that we both have roommates and they're both coming back soon. So when that happens we won't have the privacy anymore. I'd really like to get it out in the open between us before they get back.

--> So try to find a private place outside with beautiful landscape, and try kissing him, I mean, hey, why sex in a room where your friends can come anytime. If you two are caught up, may be he'll be so embarrassed and cut it all off, and avoid everything (which may be 80% he's so into you). Careful. Many guys don't want anybody else know about them (except you), they'll withdraw and try to act as if nothing happened between you (which is, hell, yes, many signs).

He came over with the movie and YES, he was wearing some easy-off shorts. He laid down in my bed with me and after a minute he started "adjusting" himself again. He was SO obviously "outlining" his cock through his shorts for me. It looked nice too! And again he asked me if I wanted to do it for him, but I screwed it up again.

--> Damn...... you're so lovely haha, but that would drive him crazy, be yourself, but, step up a little bit (more than "a little" is ok) .

For your big question (topic name), hell yes, he's waiting for a love, but like you said, always ready for a way out. And... hey you two could have a love, not just sex.

I think I'm gonna head to his room right now and make sure we're "good", in the hopes we "make up" a bit more.

--> Go buy some condoms and... lubricant. haha. Good luck .

 

[Jerry]

it's ok, I just got back and I have the best taste in my mouth right now.

HA!

I went to his room and said I was afraid he'd be pissed at me and I wanted to make things right. So we were laying in his bed together and I moved my hand and felt something.
I honestly didn't know what it was at the time, I thought he had something in his pocket. No, seriously. So I started feeling it. Yeah, it was his half-hard cock.

I tried to explain to him that I didn't know it was his dick, but he didn't seem to care much. So I left my hand there for a bit longer, rubbing it gently. I asked if we were still going to be friends and things between us weren't going to change, and he said yeah.

So he says "if you're going to go for it just do it". Hey, GOTCHA!

So yeah, we got past "that point". And by the way, his cock is friggin' beautiful! I really enjoyed all of my time with it and hopefully it isn't over.
When we were done I looked at him and he looked satisfied and pretty well ready for sleep. So I just wiped him off, rubbed his stomach a bit, and quietly stepped out. I think that's what he wanted, and it worked for me.

I just hope this doesn't hurt our friendship, because I do really like him as a person and I want to be friends regardless of anything sexual. But so far, so good.

 

[swarley]

You'll know if it hurt the friendship tomorrow if you see him or if you text him. But right now all I can say is yay!!!! Good for you! Hopefully this all works out for you.

 

[Coffee]

it's ok, I just got back and I have the best taste in my mouth right now.

HA!

I went to his room and said I was afraid he'd be pissed at me and I wanted to make things right. So we were laying in his bed together and I moved my hand and felt something.
I honestly didn't know what it was at the time, I thought he had something in his pocket. No, seriously. So I started feeling it. Yeah, it was his half-hard cock.

I tried to explain to him that I didn't know it was his dick, but he didn't seem to care much. So I left my hand there for a bit longer, rubbing it gently. I asked if we were still going to be friends and things between us weren't going to change, and he said yeah.

So he says "if you're going to go for it just do it". Hey, GOTCHA!

So yeah, we got past "that point". And by the way, his cock is friggin' beautiful! I really enjoyed all of my time with it and hopefully it isn't over.
When we were done I looked at him and he looked satisfied and pretty well ready for sleep. So I just wiped him off, rubbed his stomach a bit, and quietly stepped out. I think that's what he wanted, and it worked for me.

I just hope this doesn't hurt our friendship, because I do really like him as a person and I want to be friends regardless of anything sexual. But so far, so good.

OH MY GOD I love your life story, keep us posting

 

[backpacker]

AWESOME update! Congrats on taking a risk and getting the big payoff.

As you noted, you almost blew it with the stuff about money. Looks like you smoothed that over, but don't be surprised if it doesn't stick around for a while. It's hard to un-ring a bell.

The news about him wanting to be your roommate was pretty big. If I read your message right, I think that was said sometime after you brought up the money stuff. That's pretty big that he was thinking in those terms. You may want to give your physical relationship a little while to develop before making such a big move.

By the way, was the dick play all one sided? If so, he owes you one that I'm sure he will pay up.

 

[Jerry]

Well the roommate stuff started before the money thing was brought up. We were together all day, and he brought it up in the morning when I stopped by. Neither of us like our current roommates, so I think it'll be good if we can do it.

Yeah, it was one-sided. It was late though and we were both tired. It was funny when I was in bed with him before it started he was pretending to sleep, waiting for me to do something. Had I not accidentally started grabbing his dick, I may have chickened out again (and it really was an accident at first). I guess that's just how things work out sometimes, this time it worked well.

After he told me to "go for it" he said something like, but I don't think I'm gonna do anything back. I'm ok with that for now. He was probably just as nervous as me I'm sure. Besides, I got to do what I've been wanting to do for a while now.

I am curious as to how we're going to act toward each other now though. We had been joking with our friends about being gay, calling each other baby and sweety and stuff, but I think I'm going to stop that in front of others incase he gets spooked by it now. I'll just have to see what he does and go from there I guess. We have plans to do other (nonsexual) stuff this weekend, so we'll see.

I wish I was his roommate now so I could crawl in bed with him and give him a nice wake up! Hahaha

 

[Jerry]

Oh and about the money thing coming back up, I don't think it'll be an issue. Like I said, we talked at length about it.
I did apologize for kind of accusing him and he said he understood where I was coming from thinking that way. He said he's had people try to take advantage of him before too.
I guess time will tell, but I think we're good.

As long as he doesn't get "weird" around me now and we can still be friends, we'll be able to work it out if it does come up anyway.

 

[kramer362]

Damn dude I hate living vicariously through others but I'm proud that you got past that point

 

[KaraBulut]

Well, now that you've gone there- just make sure that it is a two-way thing.

If you end up servicing a "straight" guy, you're going to get hurt.

 

[Jerry]

Well, now that you've gone there- just make sure that it is a two-way thing.

If you end up servicing a "straight" guy, you're going to get hurt.

Yeah, I had cosidered that as well. I don't want to be his "back up" if he can't find a girl for the night or whatever. But at the same time, he is 10 years younger than me and fucking beautiful, so I don't really mind helping him out with that every once in a while. It's a fine line I guess.

I really just need to make sure he doesn't get weird around me right now, and I'll worry about the rest later. If he is interested in playing back, he may have just wanted to make SURE that I was down for that kind of thing first. I think he knows now!

 

[Coffee]

... he is 10 years younger than me and fucking beautiful...

Whaaaaaaaaaaat ?!?!?!...and I mean it....

 

[backpacker]

Once again - CONGRATULATIONS! I just can't say it enough. Yours is the best story I have read on here in a long time.

As much touchy stuff as you two did leading up to it, it's definitely something that he wanted. Given that he's 10 years younger than you (I hope he's legal - lol), it's possible that it's his first time with a guy (maybe with anyone). No matter how much he wanted it, he will probably still be a little weirded out. Just do your best to act the same way you did before. Call him the same nicknames you always have. If you start changing the way you interact with him he may think that you are weirded out.

I don't think for a minute that you were servicing a straight guy. Once again I refer to all the touchy stuff you have been doing for some time. He may not be ready to do the servicing yet, but I bet he will in the future.

Thanks for clarifying the roommate comment. I still think it's good that he was thinking in those terms. It would have been a bonus had he said it after the money situation was brought up.

Speaking of money, you will need to be very careful where money is concerned. I know you guys hashed the situation out, but I think you may have hurt him pretty deeply with the comment. He has real feelings for you and you discounted those to money. I know you went there because of you own insecurities. Just don't go there again. That's hard to avoid in the heat of an argument. The best way to avoid it is not to create the situation. Sorry to dwell on this point, but I really think it could be an issue in the future if not handled properly. I get the sense that this may be a bit of issue that you need to work on regardless of your relationship with him.

I couldn't end with message without saying CONGRATULATIONS!

 

[jeep72209]

I'm sorry, but how old are you?

 

[Jerry]

Well, he's actually 9 years younger. He's 20, as I said previously.

I texted him today and asked if he was going to be around this weekend. He texted back and said he was going to be gone until Sunday, which is normal for him anyway. He usually takes off on the weekends.
But the good news is that he texted me back and everything seems normal so far. Of course I haven't seen him in person yet, but we'll see. Maybe a few days in between is a good thing.

I know some of you may get hung up on the age thing, but I really don't care. He's a really nice guy and someone who I consider it a privilege to be friends with, and I mean that, regardless of how he looks. That part's just a bonus.
We do have some age-related differences, but we have alot in common too. We're happy when we're with each other, and that's all that matters to me.

 

[veryhotguy]

We do have some age-related differences, but we have alot in common too. We're happy when we're with each other, and that's all that matters to me.

That's the spirit!

 

[Jerry]

Once again - CONGRATULATIONS! I just can't say it enough. Yours is the best story I have read on here in a long time.....

Well thank you. It's funny, I was reading back through this thread last night and it almost seemed like a fictional love story or something. I've never had anything like this happen with a guy before, so it's pretty cool for me.

I really hope the money thing doesn't become an issue, but it is a possibility. But hell, anything can happen at this point really so who knows. One day at a time.