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Is this guy looking for something?

Congratulations! I've had a similar experience with a straight friend, and now it's become a regular thing. Fortunately, my friend acted like everything was normal afterwards so I hope the same thing happens for you.
 
Well guys I guess that about does it. I'll post a follow-up if anything interesting happens.

I want to thank everyone for all the advice and encouragement. It really helped me get to where I am.

I really think I'm falling (or maybe fell already) for this guy. I think about him all the time and I have to make an effort to keep from talking about him too much to our other friends. I wish we were roommates so I could crawl in bed with him. Not for sex, just to be next to him.

I still can't believe all this happened. (!)
 
Milboy said:
Well guys I guess that about does it. I'll post a follow-up if anything interesting happens.

I want to thank everyone for all the advice and encouragement. It really helped me get to where I am.

I really think I'm falling (or maybe fell already) for this guy. I think about him all the time and I have to make an effort to keep from talking about him too much to our other friends. I wish we were roommates so I could crawl in bed with him. Not for sex, just to be next to him.

I still can't believe all this happened. (!)
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Reading this really made me smile. Congratulations to you and hopefully this comtinues in the right direction. Feel free to do follow-ups if you feel the need. It's such a bubbly, happy story.

You answered yourself with that bolded statement. It's one of the best things anyone could say about another person, in my opinion. ..|

Here's hoping it works out well. (*8*)

I'm sure he'd be lucky to have you.
 
O.K. ...

I did read your update, yesterday, and was quite interested in TWO points that were brought up. But, I decided to hold off commenting to see how the discussion might progress from others, and to take some time to phrase my own comments, in my mind, before I responded.

First: I'm SO HAPPY, for You, that He let You play "past that line"! AWESOME!! And, I sincerely hope that Both of You continue to be comfortable exploring "new territory"! I have no doubts that YOU will be O.K. with that! But, not knowing His previous experiences, what He might be thinking about it NOW, I hope that He is going to be O.K. (and more!) with it, too! ..|

Second: I was "Surprised!" by the age difference. But ... not, necessarily, for the reasons that might first come to mind.

Throughout the unfolding of Your story (and my use of "story" is not implying "fiction"), I've been trying to "picture" the environment/conditions in which You are living. Roommates ... not, necessarily, of your own choosing. His room just being a few doors away from your own. Him expressing a desire for the two of you to become roommates, and You're thinking it might be able to be arranged (but not entirely sure). You're having the means, or so it would seem, to do whatever You might like, but still seeming to be "confined" in terms of the roommate situation.

All of that, and a few more of your comments, about circle of friends, etc., added up, at least in my mind, to "College Dorm". NOW, Him at 20, and You at 29, has "shaken" that perception of mine. :confused:

It really is none of "Our" business! However, I can't help being curious about Your living arrangements, and what has resulted in the Two of You being in that common situation.

Of course ... wishing You Both ALL THE VERY BEST! And ... You bet! ... looking forward to updates!! (group) (!w!)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Well he's coming back tomorrow and I really want to see him so I'll know if everything's cool, but I have to work all day.
I'm not sure what to do. Maybe if I get off at a decent hour I'll see what he's up to tomorrow night. But I don't want to seem too pushy either.

I want to text him but I'm not sure what I should text about. Maybe what he's doing Sunday night?
Again I don't want to seem pushy, but I REALLY want to see how he's going to react to me.

Ideas?

Maybe just wait until after work Monday? I don't know
 
Haha, sorry guys, I'm just so excited here.

I texted him and asked if he was going to be around tomorrow night. Then I felt stupid so I texted again and said I wanted to barbeque.

He texted me back and said yeah to both.

So now I'm happy. :gogirl: He still wants to hang out and be like we were. That's friggin amazing! (!)
 
Milboy said:
Haha, sorry guys, I'm just so excited here.

I texted him and asked if he was going to be around tomorrow night. Then I felt stupid so I texted again and said I wanted to barbeque.

He texted me back and said yeah to both.

So now I'm happy. :gogirl: He still wants to hang out and be like we were. That's friggin amazing! (!)
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Lol. That's great! You're so cute when you're giddy :p Good luck!
 
Ooh, apparently the facetious tongue emoticon takes on a whole new sexual context here... :p
 
G-Lexington said:
My work here, hopefully, is done. :)

Lex
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Hahaha, yeah hopefully.

Thanks so much for the help. I really owe you guys who helped out with advice. I'm so happy this seems to be working.

Just a quick update, I hung out with him and some other friends tonight. It was a bit weird seeing him again, but I did my best. It felt like there was just an ounce of tension there, but we both acted normal and we talked and joked some.

I think he's still having some family issues so that's why he was somewhat withdrawn, but I think things between us are fine, which is awesome.

After he left I texted and asked if he still wanted to be roommates and he said he was working on it, so yeah. That's great. And our other plans are still on so that's very positive.

I really care about this guy so I'm glad I didn't lose him with this. There's some other stuff going on that I won't share, but he needs a friend right now and I'm there for him. Screw the sex stuff, I want to make sure he has someone to confide in and trust. Someone he can share his feelings and fears with who will actually listen and understand what he's talking about. He's in a tough spot right now for a couple reasons and I hate to see him sad like he is. I'm happy he still wants to be friends so I can do my level best to help him through this.

Well, I guess I'll update later if anyone is still interested. I have to go to bed now.
 
That's fantastic, Milboy. It definitely is nice to have someone to confide in, and you're a great guy for stepping up to the plate in that regard. He's lucky to have you as a friend, and I'm sure he'll see that soon. Good luck!
 
Milboy said:
Screw the sex stuff, I want to make sure he has someone to confide in and trust. Someone he can share his feelings and fears with who will actually listen and understand what he's talking about. He's in a tough spot right now for a couple reasons and I hate to see him sad like he is. I'm happy he still wants to be friends so I can do my level best to help him through this.
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--> That's why I still believe in love :D:D:D
Go on. And good luck. Keep us posted. We're always interested in what's going on.
 
Thanks guys.

My roommate's gone for the night and I really want Him to come over, but I'm not sure how to go about getting him here. I don't want to be too aggressive and freak him out.

So I need to think of something so I can get him over here. I'd like to get some face time alone with him to see what he does. See if he hops in bed with me like he always did, if he really wants this or not. And just to see how he's doing.

Ideas?
 
Movie, dinner? That's about all I got. Sorry.

I just invite people over to hang out normally. There doesn't really have to be a reason. It opens the situation up to more posibilities that way.

Hope you find something good to do with him. ;) (*8*)
 
Lightsage said:
Movie, dinner? That's about all I got. Sorry.

I just invite people over to hang out normally. There doesn't really have to be a reason. It opens the situation up to more posibilities that way.

Hope you find something good to do with him. ;) (*8*)
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Good advice. I took it. I texted and asked if he was around. He's not, so I just told him to stop by later if he wants.

Sometimes it's the simple things. Ha.

We'll see how he responds to that idea. I'm a little nervous
 
Congrats! Hope everything works out. :D

Is there a smiley that represents something like this ---> : P cuz the one that comes out is kind really perverted...lol
 
Being nervous about these things is quite normal. Not that I should have to remind you of that.

It's healthy to feel that way. Especially considering what's being discussed...

I really do hope he goes over and things go well. Good Luck! (*8*)
 
Whether He comes over Tonight ... or not/can't ... doesn't really matter. What's important is that the two of you remain friends, and, eventually, get a chance to privately work out what's Best/Right for both of you! (group)

Well ... not as "privately" as to not keep "Us" posted! :badgrin:

(O.K.! I know! "Shut up, Chaz!") :slap:

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
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