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Is this inappropriate?

If this is a friend who is becoming more than just a friend do let him know what it is about him that makes him more than a friend to you. You obviously have the hots for him, but, and for a thousand of no good reasons, he is reluctant to bare what you hope might be his "deeper" feelings for you.

Be patient, give it time.

Sex, IMHO, ought to come about as a wonderful confirmation of the bond that already has come to exist between two persons. No plastic cone will take the place of the cock that belongs to the man you have bonded with. And that cock will be to you a treasure because it belongs to that guy.

Start building a real relationship. Most guys claim to be "regular guys"--I did too, and then I bonded with the new guy in town and a two year long period of learning by doing began. He and I are both long-time married men, but we do not forget those last two years of high school when we enjoyed that "other side" of our sexuality. I loved him then and I love him still.
 
I've actually thought about this with my friend.
The idea seems ok as long as he doesn't get creeped out by it, but I think it works better in theory than in practice.

You'd have to be pretty tight with someone for that to be ok. For me, I'm not asking.

Besides, I don't want to consider my friend as a sexual object. I love that man and I know he's sexy as hell, but his being sexy is not why we're friends. I know he's straight and I (highly) doubt he'd feel comfortable around me knowing I'm using "his" dildo and thinking about him while I'm doing it. That gets a little weird.

Now I know some people might be ok with it, but my friend would definitely not be. It comes down to your friend and your relationship with him I guess
 
i'm leaning toward a big fat NO. It's inappropriate.
 
What would be the big advantage of doing this? Just get a generic dildo and pretend it's his. Making a dildo of his dick is just going to further attach you to the idea of being with him when he is basically unattainable.
OTOH, the way he responded to you possibly indicates he might entertain the thought of exploring certain activities...
 
have you seen his dick before (with him knowing)?

have you seen his dick hard before (again with him knowing)?

has he seen your dick hard or otherwise?

If you answered yes these questions then no, it's not inappropriate, just make sure he's liquored up when you ask.

If none of these have every happened, you're not close enough friends.
 
Back off and be a super-respectful good friend and more than likely you'll get to play with the real thing soon enough one drunk evening.
 
Inappropriate and a bit creepy. Unless you are the closest of friends and I mean close - it is creepy that you want to ask him to get hard and stick his penis in this thing so you can mold it and make a dildo out of it. I think he might get creeped out by the fact that you want his cock up your ass and this model will make that possible.
 
Genereally, that would be construed as creepy.

...though depending on how close you are and the situation, some dudes might say, "hey ok, it's a compliment." My best friend is straight, I used to have a thing for him (which he knew about), and I'm pretty sure he would say yes...

...if someone'd ask me to do the same, I would prob say no...

...also, if you had to pose the question on this forum, your gut probably already told you that it was a no-go situation.
 
Look him in the eye and tell him if he keeps it up, you will finish what he started.
 
well i think it depends on how close you are. if you are really really close then i think you could safely ask, he'd likely say no, but then you probably would be ok after. if you are not super super close then it's easy for him to be creeped out by it. but i see you've decided not to ask so it's all mute point anyway. ;)
 
errm....highly inappropriate....i'm sure you're nto a stalker and are so turned on by him, you see the mould of his dick as a rather compensation for the real thing...but it's just inappropriate to ask. lol...

well, unless, you have a close girlfriend, and he happens to be banging her and she ask, under the pretense that it's for her, than maybe it's ok. more deceptive, ok i guess. lol
 
Redeye said:
I told him to his face to knock that shit out. He agreed to stop, but did it again the next time I saw him and doesn't seem to want to stop doing it. Mixed signals suck. I just assumed that I'd cave in to him and talk to him again and then I could 'fix' my problem by asking him to make the thing for me. Like Milboy said 'better in theory than in practice'.
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What did you say, knock off flirting with me if you don't mean it? Or did you say flirting with me is making me uncomfortable (i.e. I'm a homophobe).

I think you have a chance. You can always become better friends with the guy. I have a straight friend that sends me pictures of himself in his shorts (after A LOT of convincing). He wouldn't even change even while wearing boxers, in front of me when we first met.

One thing you actually can do is this. You can say that you know somebody who's girlfriend made her boyfriend make a dildo replica of his dick and that you're thinking about doing it yourself for shits and giggle. Then as you talk about it and he is flabbergasted by the idea, you should say, hey you should do it too and just play along like it's the funniest thing. See what he says or how he reacts. then you can say, rib him and say, what, you don't think you can fill the mold or reach the minimum requirement to fill it or you don't think you can stay hard that long? call him chicken.

it actually might be worth asking and might give a laugh. When he says know, then say, no matter, I'm going to do it myself and then stop talking about it. If he ever brings it up say, nope, I'm not telling, you're not gonna do it so why should you know. then if he brings it up again, say, why don't you try it and find out. of course you have to find a way to get it from him (maybe keep the mold). good luck :)
 
If I were that guy and you asked me that, I would turn the other way and run. Really creepy.

He said nothing can happen because he's straight, so accept it and just be friends with him. His dick seems to be for girls only, so find a guy who's into other guys.
 
Redeye said:
Maybe I should ask, if it meant he'd run away, cause then he'd finally stay away from me if he was the one to run away.
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I like this idea, go for broke, at this point you have nothing to lose, especially if you've asked for him to turn down the flirting and he hasn't.

Flirt back too, then ask him.

I say GAME ON!
 
Forget the dildo..that's a little creepy and I'd think that it would screw with your friendship...

However, since he already knows about your feelings, you should just tell him that you don't want your friendship to be affected by your feelings, you're ok that he doesn't have the same feelings, but if he ever wants to experiment or just needs a good blow job with no strings attached, he should know that he can always come to you...

You never know...some night when his girlfriend gives him blue balls, he might just come to you for some relief...

Keep us posted...
 
Redeye.....Your Buddy sounds like the typical Straight-Dude that is "secure" with who he is and doesnt mind having Gay friends...

But he also sounds like the type of person that will "flirt" with you KNOWING nothing will ever happen..

When you're together you need to get serious with him and tell him to cut that Shit out...Only when he sees that you're not playing is when he'll stop...

Just remember one thing...He's probably not interested in getting with you but he will play with your "Head"..I hope your social life includes dating Guys and hanging out with other friends...
 
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