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Is this normal after a blowjob?

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tylerhart

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Yes, i'm inexperienced but i'm not a virgin. I sucked my officemate's dick at his apartment after an hour of sleepy cuddling but the awkward silence after that makes me feel either i did something wrong or he's regretting what we did.

What the heck should i do after doing something like that? say "Nice Cum" or something? lol
 
just hug him and play with his penis and nipples again and again doesn't matter if its soft.
 
Is he bi or gay or straight. Maybe he has not had it done before? Give us more details not how you did it but about both of you etc. No matter what do not freak out not that big a deal.
 
i think he claims he's bi but we never really talked much about sex or pretty much anything else aside from family/work stuff. then we just slept and started hugging then he pointed my hands to his crotch so it went from there. he didnt touch me either but im way too reserved to ask him directly to suck me off as well :/
 
tylerhart said:
i think he claims he's bi but we never really talked much about sex or pretty much anything else aside from family/work stuff. then we just slept and started hugging then he pointed my hands to his crotch so it went from there. he didnt touch me either but im way too reserved to ask him directly to suck me off as well :/
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Well, one way to move things along is to play with his balls and dick during the 'awkward silence' then start going down on him again.
Make him moan to break the silence :lol:
Did you ever try to kiss him while you're fondling him? That might break the ice. If he doesn't want to kiss then just go down on him.
 
The fact that he encouraged you by indicating he wanted you to feel his cock means he is into having some sexual fun with you but probably feels that 'guilty ' feeling once he has released his urges. Some guys in a similar situation just weird out and want you to go. Just take it slowly , dont say anything about it and cuddle up again if he wants too running your hands over his hot body. Best of luck :) Slowly. slowly catchee monkey !
 
^My new partner is bi-sexual,he went from being a great mate of many years to my man. I am still learning. Great post.
 
I never got the no recip thing. Why are you "too shy" to ask for a blowjob from the guy who had his penis in your mouth?

Shyness is kinda moot when some guy just nutted down your throat.

What specifically are you asking about? What do you do when some guy goes into gay panic?

What's the protocol for post fellatio politeness?


How people act after sex is not uniform, depends on them, but usually they're pretty happy about it.

If the guy is having gay panic, get out and don't go back.
 
Maybe awkward because you work together. I wouldn't force the issue. Continue to be friendly but if he had a case of the guilts and doesn't want to have another romp, so be it. If he does express interest in getting together again for sex, then you should speak up about what YOU want.
 
My guess is it is just good old fashioned puritanical guilt.

When he is horny he can put the guilt aside - after he cums it returns.

He is not fully comfortable with his being gay/bi probably due to religion or his up bringing. If you enjoy each other and are both having fun not just the sex - but other fun - it probably will get better in time.
 
tylerhart said:
What the heck should i do after doing something like that? say "Nice Cum" or something? lol
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There's two things going on here.

Some guys do get quiet after an orgasm. If it seems weird, you can say something like, "You got quiet". That acknowledges what is going on and gives them the opportunity to talk if they want to talk. And it doesn't push them into talking if they are not ready to talk.

But the other issue- the big elephant in the room- is blowing a coworker. That brings in a lot of other factors- the awkwardness of sex with a friend, work complications, post-orgasmic remorse, etc.
 
i usually say 'thanks for the taste!' go with the silence. hopefully in 10 or 15 minutes he'll be horned up again and since he's recently cum will be able to fuck you for hours!

co-worker: i've learned from experience that you should never shit where you eat, as they say.
 
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