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is this normal or am i just paranoid?

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so i'm bi. no one knows i like dudes (im not out). i'm on 2 gay sites, like adam4adam and justguys and people ask me for my face pic. but i'm scared that someone will see me and they'll know that i like guys. and i want to give it to them , but i dont know if i can just give out pics of me to people over the internet. what do you think?
 
If a guy on a gay site finds out, he must be gay too, or bi.......right?
 
usually, gays as a whole are pretty good about closet cases...

also, on those sites they usually trade naked pix with each other, so i assume they also wouldnt want those broadcast all over the place either...
 
I get nervous about that too, or atleast I did before I met my bf.

I think it's normal to be concerned, but there probably isn't much cause for it
 
This is similar to bi guys being afraid of going to gay bars, but with a bit of a twist. The risk is not knowing for sure who you are chatting with. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable doing, but realize that all of life is a risk. While it may be possible to remain closeted, it's unlikely. We get to a point when we may feel compelled to come out, or someone does it for us. I think you are more fearful than necessary, but if you don't want to send pics don't.
 
Well, if you don't want to show your face, then don't. It's as easy as that. Probably ask for theirs first? I don't know. I wouldn't be as paranoid. Given a couple of people were like, "I didn't expect you to be gay," yet when I saw them, I instantly knew they must be interested in guys, but still, they haven't like outed me out to everyone. lol I still remain friends with them. IT has even brought me closer to one of my friends. It's nice to know that you can be comfortable with a guy and not have to hide it.
 
It is natural and it is a risk. But you have to realize many folks are not going to even meet you with out a face picture. at least on adam4adam you can make it a private photo and only show it to people when you feel comfortable with it and then only limit it for a short period of time. but ya gotta ask yourself if you were someone would you meet them without a face picture?
 
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