Is this pretty much proof that he doesnt like me?

[peanuts83]

so i rly like one of my friends (gay). i was talking to him just before about this guy who keeps messaging me, and trying to get some advice on how i can nicely let him know im not interested in him.

i asked my friend wot he would do if i asked him out..

im the green and he is black

so thats pretty much confirmation he doesnt feel the same way yeh?

 

[Eagle653]

Yep, I think you have your confirmation.

 

[peanuts83]

this makes me a sad panda

maybe 1 day he'll fall for me???

 

[tonyboy]

You got it mate..... He doesn't feel the same way.
But kudos to you for asking anyway.

 

[rareboy]

I think he gave you pretty clear guidance.

It is a bit of a chain though, isn't it? You're not interested in guy A, he's not interested in you, etc. etc.

Maybe you should actually take the chance and go out with the guy you're not interested in and see what it is like to live life in person and not just virtually.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

I think he gave you pretty clear guidance.

It is a bit of a chain though, isn't it? You're not interested in guy A, he's not interested in you, etc. etc.

Maybe you should actually take the chance and go out with the guy you're not interested in and see what it is like to live life in person and not just virtually.

Rareboy might have hit the nail on the head. At times, guys are experiencing some sort of self-confidence overflow and are turning people down left and right, feeling a rush of pseudo-self empowerment.

Yup. He clearly said, NO. Move on, Panda and do not even look back. He ain't worth it.

SC

 

[TygreBryte]

I think it must have been really sudden for him, and over text message, too. Neither of you could judge facial reactions or voice tone. If that guy has been a good friend to you, and you want to continue being friends, I think it might be good to bring it back up again, face to face, sober, and serious.