Is this sick, or what?!

[JarodA]

OK, so I've been studying for about four weeks now. I'm rather shy, and there was this guy who was nice to me. He's bi. I never thought he was into me in a sexual way but I was trying to be his friend.

Fast-forward to present day, last night he said something on Facebook way too good to be true. Basically he indicated that he wanted to have sex with me. He said, and I quote, "I want you in and around my mouth" (maybe even in all-caps, I can't exactly remember).

More details about what happened today are in this link here: http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=300841

But I just chatted with him on Facebook. Basically the whole thing was a complete joke to him. He said the most overtly sexual things anyone's ever said to me in life (well, basically the ONLY sexual things ever said to me in my life), and he was completely joking. He knew I'd believe him and he deliberately fucked with my feelings.

When he said that he was joking, I said "Do you know how SICK that is?", and then he said "What's sick is staring at someone you don't know all day and awkwardly coming over". Then I said, "Of course it was awkward. I'm a shy guy." And then that's it. I deleted him from Facebook.

I almost cried. I was right on the verge, but then I thought "Fuck it. This guy's a complete jerk who's not worth crying a single tear over."

I hate that I have to still go to the course with him, but whatever. I don't know what I did to deserve this apart from act a little "awkwardly", as he put it. But deliberately messing with my feelings is totally fucked up and there's no excuse for what he did, is there?

 

[JarodA]

Aww, hon. My heart goes out to you. That is some seriously fucked-up shit.

Maybe this would be better moved to the no-flame zone, though. You should ask the mods to move it to CO&R.

And no, there's no excuse for what he did, especially for the reason he did it. Just because someone's shy doesn't mean you get to fuck with their emotions; just the opposite, actually. I'm fairly shy myself and if someone did that to me I'd be devastated. Just keep in mind that you're probably not the only one he's done this to, and that people who do that kind of shit to others usually end up lonely.

I already have a kind of related thread there, and I wanted quicker responses which is why I posted here. This is a rant thread lol

 

[Críostóir]

Some people are assholes. Sit as far from him as you can in class, and don't speak to him. Ever. No matter what.

But what, you may ask, if he tries being nice, or changes his mind?

Especially then. You mustn't let him get away with this. Besides, if he thinks he can get away with it he'll probably do it again! Just look through him like he isn't there, and walk away.

Teach yourself not to look at him at all. People find that as disconcerting as being stared at.

Oh, and don't speak to the other coursemate who "Ethan" sent to tell you he wasn't interested, either. Move on.

 

[JarodA]

^Ah, okay. Well, if you ever wanna chat feel free to drop me a PM.

Thank you but I'm alright really...I just can't believe how cruel someone could be. Welcome to the real world I guess.

 

[Críostóir]

Thank you but I'm alright really...I just can't believe how cruel someone could be. Welcome to the real world I guess.

Yeah, unfortunately there's way too many of these guys. One more thing you could say to the guy who told you "Ethan isn't interested," but ONLY if he seeks you out to bring up Ethan again. Say "Ethan is a total asshole and I hope his dick falls off."

 

[JarodA]

Yeah, unfortunately there's way too many of these guys. One more thing you could say to the guy who told you "Ethan isn't interested," but ONLY if he seeks you out to bring up Ethan again. Say "Ethan is a total asshole and I hope his dick falls off."

Yeah will do.

 

[evanrick]

fuck facebook is my personal motto

 

[HornyHenry]

He's a tease and a nasty one at that.

He said, and I quote, "I want you in and around my mouth" (maybe even in all-caps, I can't exactly remember)./QUOTE]
After he lead you on with that and after what he did to you he could at least apologize.IMHO I feel he owes you a good BJ and swallow your load.

 

[Críostóir]

He's a tease and a nasty one at that.

He said, and I quote, "I want you in and around my mouth" (maybe even in all-caps, I can't exactly remember).

After he lead you on with that and after what he did to you he could at least apologize.IMHO I feel he owes you a good BJ and swallow your load.

He won't though. Best to avoid the bastard.

 

[JarodA]

He won't though. Best to avoid the bastard.

Too right, I don't want an apology. I just don't want to speak to him ever again.

Thanks for all your replies Críostóir.

 

[jizzeater]

He's a major prick. Stomping on someone's feelings like that is heartless.

 

[tonyboy]

Yeah it's sick.. sick as can be..

I wish we could figure out a way to mess with this guy.. he has hurt one of the finest guys i've ever written to on JUB..

 

[BearBoi]

At a time like this, there is really only one reasonable solution for dealing with the pain…

Download some bestiality porn, Photoshop his face onto the man’s body, and write a really nasty letter involving a party at a farm and mail it to his mom.

IMPORTANT: finish the letter with, “PS: Sorry to cut this short, but I’ve got to write a letter to my mom before hittin’ the kitten one more time before bed. See ewe tomorrow… BaAAaaaad boy!” That way his mom will think he mixed up the envelopes before mailing it. hehe

Others have given some great advice and words of comfort... I'm just trying to make you smile. And maybe inspire you.

PS: An 'ewe' is a female sheep.

 

[JarodA]

At a time like this, there is really only one reasonable solution for dealing with the pain…

Download some bestiality porn, Photoshop his face onto the man’s body, and write a really nasty letter involving a party at a farm and mail it to his mom.

IMPORTANT: finish the letter with, “PS: Sorry to cut this short, but I’ve got to write a letter to my mom before hittin’ the kitten one more time before bed. See ewe tomorrow… BaAAaaaad boy!” That way his mom will think he mixed up the envelopes before mailing it. hehe

Others have given some great advice and words of comfort... I'm just trying to make you smile. And maybe inspire you.

PS: An 'ewe' is a female sheep.

Great idea.

Oh and I come from New Zealand. So I should know about sheep.

 

[crowboy]

Great idea.

Oh and I come from New Zealand. So I should know about sheep.

A New Zealander that does not know about sheep is like a day where the sun does not rise and set. NZs know their sheep, hey mate.

Remember mate, on Monday as I said to you "hold your head high". crowboy is with you in spirit.

 

[Knucklehead]

Best to just forget it and move on.You'll meet guys like him in your life.Consider yourself lucky you didn't totally fall for him before you realized he was just a mind fuck..

 

[JarodA]

A New Zealander that does not know about sheep is like a day where the sun does not rise and set. NZs know their sheep, hey mate.

Remember mate, on Monday as I said to you "hold your head high". crowboy is with you in spirit.

Thanks mate you're the greatest.

And yes, no New Zealander worth a damn would not know what a ewe was.

 

[crowboy]

Thanks mate you're the greatest.

And yes, no New Zealander worth a damn would not know what a ewe was.

ewe prefer Rams tho hey mate.

Glad you can smile now this weekend.

 

[JarodA]

Oh yeah, I've already told a few people that were following the thread - he sent an an apology message. It was a very nice apology message admittedly. He told me he wants to start over...but I'm still not trusting him again.

A part of me really wants to give him another chance...but his actions need consequences, and if he can play games like that I'm almost certain he'd do it again. I'm going to be strong here...I'm going to keep it civil since we'll have to work together, but that's as far as it's going to go.

 

[jizzeater]

Good idea. To hell with that game-playing idiot. He blew his shot.