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Is this weird for someone my age?

beatleshead

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sex doesnt mean anything to me unless its someone i really care for...i mean im a fuckin virgin so maybe ill go crazy when i finally expierence it...but i mean i cant see myself just fucking the shit out of somebody...like i can only see myself going nice and slow on top eye to eye making sure everythings alright for the person im making love too. my friend called me weird and old fashion for thinking that way. maybe i am:cry:
 
Dude, at 19 y/o you need to go crazy having sex. Find someone to shag and go for it. You have many years ahead of you to find love. At 19 y/o you just need to "Love the One You're With" as the song goes.
 
Ahhhh no... you dont need to go crazy beatles...

You just need to stay true to who you are and what you feel is right for you. And right now if that means only making love with someone that you actually care about then thats exactly what you should do, and you should feel proud for wanting it that way.

There is no way you should ever feel pressure to compromise or act in any way that doesnt feel right to you or makes you feel uncomfortable. Love and sex are incredibly individual things and I can guarantee that there's plenty of guys who share similar values to you. Values that make you, you. Values that make you the confident growing person that you have become.

So no mate... its not weird. Its great. It what you want and thats all that matters.

And if you feel different tomorrow then thats ok too... just do what feels right... and sits comfortably in your world.
 
People change, bh. I'm not saying you will, but I'm saying you might. And if you don't, then you'll just have to meet someone and fall in love before you have wild monkey sex. And that's not wrong at all in my book. :)

Lex
 
No stick to what i believe in. i am 21 and i am totally the same, i did have a few one night stands when i broke up with my bf, and i couldnt stand it. i hated the disconnection with someone u barely know. When u care about someone the sex is far better anyway, because u know what u both like and u can go nice and slow. One night stands that is not usually the case, i once got fucked so hard that i couldnt sit down for a week!! Trust me, relationships are the way to go, the ones who don't agree with this are the wierd ones.
 
I'm 21 and I'm a virgin... you're not weird believe me...
 
beatleshead said:
sex doesnt mean anything to me unless its someone i really care for...i mean im a fuckin virgin so maybe ill go crazy when i finally expierence it...but i mean i cant see myself just fucking the shit out of somebody...like i can only see myself going nice and slow on top eye to eye making sure everythings alright for the person im making love too. my friend called me weird and old fashion for thinking that way. maybe i am:cry:
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That's very sweet, actually.

Don't jump off the bridge just because everyone else is. Didn't your mother ever tell you that?

Do what you enjoy. You may find that there's a middle ground where you have sex with someone you know fairly well but are not in love with (fuck buddy). Or maybe not. Do what you want, not what people tell you to want.
 
I'm young as well and pretty much feel the same way... I have absolutely no desire to hook up with a random guy, and wouldn't consider doing anything with anyone until I got to know that person pretty well.
 
Not in the least bit weird. It proves you have integrity and the courage to stand by your belief and principles. After all, STDs are spread by random monkey sex with strangers. It only takes one infected random stranger to ruin your life.
M
 
I just turned 20 and im still a virgin

Believe me...its not as uncommon as many people think.
 
I think its a great attitude to have, and as Lube said, there's no need to jump off a bridge with everyone else. I often thought I was weird for thinking the same way because all of my friends were screwing around like the end of the world was tomorrow. I've learnt that we are all different, and the lifestyle that suits my friends isn't necessarily the lifestyle that suits me.

Don't get me wrong, I've had a few one-night stands, most have been with people that I felt a connection with and thought it might continue into something else, but a couple were purely because lust got the better of me - something I thought I would never do.

Like most things in life, goalposts move, times change, our beliefs and attitudes change as we become older and more experienced - nothing is written in stone (except death and taxes).

You're not weird, you're YOU! (*8*)
 
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