Is wrong for parents to assume their child is heterosexual?

[MyReply]

1 parents many kind world ova even kids is parents ins alls a manners sitituations creat by barkin mad cutures

2 straight men nothing just mean cock in pussy trick? what no difficult cause humans desgin fa it

3 Gay is create term like rest male cultures bullshit cause > if ya no live it go ya cultures ans worlds hisotrys plenty for beginners level ans try avoids da bullshit of history writers what got their cultures plug up theirs butt

4 ans lot more numbers

is noooo da be da pickys and whateva but like people living out there just wanna make life with whoever they heart go lick da walls ova

how sex SO CALLED CULTURES wanna do it HEY go watch TV fill wit male fantasys how they wanna blow up world

while real world conintue ins all it flavours ans ooh dat bullet fa me?? go join local communitys and share ya parent hoodys with parents<cause they so fucked up with all dat crap floatin aorund (all countrys up da wazoo) need help

maybe kids be free of da million ans one ways ta get fucked

ooh forgot

has GREAT

and may ya HEART GET LOT OF all da mushy stuff

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Can someone transcribe that for me, please?

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

Totally lost.

Can someone transcribe that for me, please?

simple mann

lot world no idea what STRAIGHT IS OR GAY

so pointless use um or not note world way it is

Me think kids get enoughs hammering from cultures cretin stoopid words as is ans adults no da fuckin clue what theys is too

has nice ins

 

[rareboy]

I always tell those parents to keep in mind that their kid may turn out to be a homo or lesbian.

But that they can still be a heartbreaker.

Or that their daughter can date girls.

When I have more time, I'll translate babel speak ans ta whudevah from Sloppy.

He appreciates it when people finally help make sense out of his meanderings.

 

[MercuryJones]

Here's how UNINTENTIONALLY oblivious people can be:

One of my kids shared that one of her friends says she's in love with someone but won't tell her who. My daughter went through all the boys they know and ruled them all out, and kept asking so who can it be?

I finally said Do you think maybe it's not a boy? Maybe it's you?

And she was SHOCKED. It never occurred to her that her friend might be in love with another girl. And if my freaking kids can forget that possibility, so can anyone.

 

[MercuryJones]

Totally lost.

Can someone transcribe that for me, please?

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

it good word but how ya teach folk no idea what it is? or get it? what millions no evens gets froms what lords ova um anyway

no think lot cultures any idea what theys doins with kids ( in da NORMAL ) so call family unit cause da parents stills children stuff with dip ans if theys was no stuff with dip ya no see countrys doin da most barkin loony things


so like on gay sites folk wanna give Gay ans terms a rest on GAY sites unless they alls just discova da planet round ( or it there thang keep spin same cheese ) or minds drop their load in real world and (real world internet)<it CUM from it!!!!!>what just wanna spind peoples brains inta whip > ans they no more gay then da last fleshlight they just fuck

OKAY brain hurt now KOOL has goodinsssssss ta THEM Enjoy ya muttons but say thankya assfter might give ya betta ride next one

 

[evanrick]

gay or straight doesnt really fit. if you life a gay life then you are gay, but gay people can live straight lives and strait people can live gay lives.

how do we know people are straight or gay since homophobia may be forcing people into a straight lifestyle?

i just feel bad for people who have been forced, im sure there are many but you dont have to conform.

 

[nialltt]

I think its unfair and thats why you have people that marry girls or gets a girlfriend because they succumb to the pressure. Dont mean to judge. But ye even after coming out my parents are still forcing me to go to church and telling me to get a GF even if I make jokes referring to me being gay. OH my.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

gay or straight doesnt really fit. if you life a gay life then you are gay, but gay people can live straight lives and strait people can live gay lives.

how do we know people are straight or gay since homophobia may be forcing people into a straight lifestyle?

i just feel bad for people who have been forced, im sure there are many but you dont have to conform.

what is gay life and stragiht life?

gay life ya dead or dead or dead or lot other stuff

straight life ya dead cause ya go job army cause no money and get kill ta keep Warts running countrys ans lots ways

every day people got do stuff ans other people just has other people do it for um

gay<ans all it include world ova is still DEATH in many horrible ways ans ta see double digits not evens that

sorry is be da picky but it matter


has great hot porn time

 

[Swellegant]

I wouldn't say it was wrong for people to assume... it is, however, stupid. No matter how likely you are to be right, the chances of being wrong are high enough that the comment wasn't worth the breath it took to propel it out your mouth. I mean, you don't go on a game-show and blurt out the first thing that crosses your mind, you take a moment to decide if you're right first.

It's the same with adults, how do you know the person you're talking to is straight or gay? You don't know, so keep your gender-specific comments to yourself. They're unnecessary and get you into awkward situations.

The thing is, people don't think about the things they say, and most of the time don't even mean most of the things they say. They're just parroting something they heard somewhere else and have never given a moment's thought to the ramifications of the statement. And not just about gay and straight, it's about all sorts of gender behavior and cultural attitudes, they're just repeating something they heard without having analyzed it first.

One time in an elevator with my Grandmother at the medical center, there was this little boy in a stroller; Grandmother and the other two women in the elevator (besides the mother) were cooing over the kid, who was incredibly pretty, maybe three years old but not talking much. One of the women said "and look at those eyelashes! Such a waste on a boy."

"Really?" I interjected...I find it useful on such occasions to play dumb, rather than attacking with wit, and force people to explain themselves, "Why is it a waste?"

"Well, you know," she stumbled, having not been aware of my presence at all in the first place, "Any girl would love to have those lashes."

"I'm sure he'll learn to make good use of them," I smiled at the mom. Then they all went on about the 'heartbreaker' thing, but I decided not to pursue that part (I mean, just because you're beautiful doesn't mean you're going to hurt people... don't they know that's what a 'heartbreaker' does?) because the elevator was too small to get into a fight and Grandmother doesn't like confrontations.

The thing is, 90% of the people in the world haven't got anything interesting to say, but they want to keep talking, so they just spout out various combinations of words. Rather more to be pitied than censured, really...except for the fact that they have the right to vote and access to children's minds.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

Parents make all kind of assumptions about their kids before they're born (they're gonna be smart, good looking, successful, a good person, etc).

I wouldn't really say that any of them are 'wrong'

so? world continue with most goin on pills and given money away ta uselss head shrinks and kids as confuse as them?

ans nos bes da picky with ya post

but people cans has wayyyyyyyyyy ( this FULL LIFE ) what many no even itch up their pussy got

 

[Knucklehead]

Totally lost.

Can someone transcribe that for me, please?

No. I can't..I don't even try anymore and skim right over anything he posts..

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

No. I can't..I don't even try anymore and skim right over anything he posts..

da Plane left 100 years ago

get a grip

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

No parent wants a gay kid.

"Accepting" parents just realize they don't want you to turn your back on them, thus insuring them a long, lonely adulthood.

yeah can swim with that but ^ gay ^ folk is just as Lovey take their theirs parents as any others on planet but current climate ( gay still up there with lot of ) please no no no let ma kids be all like page 456 please please pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee

in many parts of da world

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

How do you know a parent would automatically not "want" a gay kid?

That sounds a lot more stupid than the opening question.

dat a future possiblity

past it surplus ta requriments and sold ta da market place or etc ans etc so on

but me no wanna go there

but think more people startin ta ( grasp ) < it best word no sure
what issssssss a balanced human beingggggggg ans GAY take out all da crap KOOL

 

[G-Lexington]

They also expect them to be right-handed, and sighted, and with normal healing, and active, and socially adept, and of at least average intelligence, and without genetic diseases. And you know what? They're almost always wrong on at least one of those counts. Then they find out, they do that "why MY child" thing anywhere from a second to a year, then they just deal with it. That is, if they're decent parents at all.

Lex

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

How do you know a parent would automatically not "want" a gay kid?

That sounds a lot more stupid than the opening question.

ans KOOL Post

why you no be Prisendent country KOOL

 

[Sha-Rok]

It's a "social norm" so no it's not wrong to assume your child to be in that "norm."

 

[Xzilla7]

No parent wants a gay kid.

"Accepting" parents just realize they don't want you to turn your back on them, thus insuring them a long, lonely adulthood.

I'm going to have to disagree with that.

Anyway, there's nothing wrong with "assuming" your children are straight because they're children. The real problem is forcing heteronormative gender roles on them. This seems to be a bigger problem for guys than girls, but if your son wants to play dress up or your daughter wants to play football then let them. If you make their self-exploration shameful it will lead to low self-esteem in their teens.

 

[bulge]

Totally wrong. It is also totally wrong to raise children outside the due awareness they can be gay or str8. Everything in education must be changed. EVERYTHING. Sex must be approached totally otherwise. Boys must be raised in the awareness 2 men are better sexual matches (same tempo, same understanding, total knowledge of each others body, instant tuning in,...) than different sex. There especially must be be made a strong difference between utilitarian sex and sex. Don't tell children str8 fairy tales. It only harms children. I hope there will come one day class actions against this deliberate harmful one-sided sex education.