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It is easier to get sex from a man than get the love

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Do you agree that it is easier to get sex from a man than get the true love from them.
 
I agree... Thats why I don't want to meet guys for sex, unless that is our intention... Otherwise, no.
 
The very base nature of human sexuality is about the "hunters" and the "hunted"...sexually speaking. Primal instinct. The flesh usually wins out over the spirit. So yes, it is much easier to get sex than love. Basically, love is what separates us from animals. Love is an emotional bond, sex is not. While sex is important as the ultimate expression of love, if you have ever been "in love" you know that it's a rather small part of the whole relationship. Conversely, sex without love is nothing but masturbation. It is simply "getting off" and is 90% "mental".
 
but you could find real love whrn searching foor true love.
 
I think finding someone to have sex with is both easy and common. Finding your 'one and only' is more difficult and more rare. I think both singles and couples could agree on that.

People go looking for sex. Love comes looking for you.
 
well, sex does not have to involve love - although it probably reaches its zenith when love is there too. when there's chemistry between the two, sex is great in itself. definitely i would say it is easier to get sex from men . love does not come first, i don't think. at least, not in my experiences.
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When I was single I always found it easy to get a date (and dessert) but difficult to find someone I wanted to see again

So - yes
 
Of course! Sex is an instantaneous response. True love can only develop over time with conscious work and commitment. Sex is the fuel that gives you the energy to put in the effort and it's the glue that holds the whole structure together while you shape it. Love is the aim of the relationship, not the beginning.

Besides, Men are not especially interested in commitment.

Maybe you're thinking of 'falling in love' - but that's not True Love - it's just Sex wearing a romantic hat.
 
Of course...

A lot of guys are ready to say anything if it means getting their cock sucked or put somewhere where they can have some fun...

Although, there may be one or two guys out there who are actually looking for true love...

And I already have dibbs on one of them.
 
Yes of course.

Sex is easy.

True love isn't easy.

I love it when a guy is proud of lots of sexual conquests, as if that means anything. Stay in a relationship for ten, fifteen years, then we'll talk about an accomplishment worth being proud of!
 
you could have sex with anyone but i don't think you can find love with everyone.
 
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