it's crazy how many people outthere don't have the willpower to turn down sex.

[refujiunderground]

looking at that general petraeus situation, dude possibly put the whole entire country in jeopardy for some sex. he was spilling national secrets to a woman who for all we know could have been a spy for some other country. there's no excuse behind what he did. some people let their dicks and pussies have full control over their minds. you're not going to die for turning down a piece of ass. you'll live. some people have it way too good.

me personally, i don't see or understand how anybody could cheat on their partner especially if they're fucking on a regular basis. some people are just ungrateful.

 

[refujiunderground]

Refuji have you ever been offered any to turn down ?

good one. well, uhhhh... *looks around* yes, i have. i'm not ready to do it anyway. not losing sleep over it either. jerking off holds me down pretty well.

 

[HunterM]

Men are dogs.

People are weak.

/thread.

But you never said no to me.



I'm all about positive thinking. I'm a yes man!

 

[refujiunderground]

lol from what I gather...you've had plenty of chances, huh?

You better get on out there and experience the wonderful world of gay sex. It's good...I'm tellin' ya. lol

wouldn't say plenty but there's been more than enough opportunities throughout my life. just didn't have the balls to do it and still don't.

sex actually scares me for some reason. i think i would go into another psychosis or derealization/depersonalization moment if i actually do it. i can picture myself doing it, daydreaming BUT i don't think i would be in my right mind though if i actually did do it. *shrugs* too used to being a virgin. it would be one of those surreal experiences like "is this really happening?".

don't see how it's hard to say no to sex though. it's a whole lot easier than saying yes.

 

[TheLyingGame]

ahem.. not everyone's a whore.

Regret is a bitch, and it's one i don't intend to cross paths with again.

 

[JOHN B]

it's crazy how many people out there don't have the willpower to turn down sex......actually , I DO know how many people DO have the willpower to turn down sex....:/ ...does anyone out there wanna prove me wrong?

 

[cynicus]

Refuji have you ever been offered any to turn down ?

Oh, Benderoverboy! That's harsh! Remember the old joke: God gave us guys just enough blood for one head--don't let the little one steal from the big one.

 

[PreTTy PeTe]

I love it when virgins are preaching about others sexual habits.

good for you refujiunderground stand your ground.

 

[maxpowr9]

Unless I am completely trashed (which at that point, intercourse is just a challenge on its own), it's not hard to say "no". Hell, I'm usually the one that says "think with your big head, not your little one."

 

[refujiunderground]

I love it when virgins are preaching about others sexual habits.

good for you refujiunderground stand your ground.

wasn't doing that at all. just don't know what's so hard about saying no to sex.

 

[TheLyingGame]

Ahem, saying 'yes' to sex does not a whore make.

Depends how many times one says 'yes'.

 

[refujiunderground]

Have you had sex before?

anytime you have to ask that question. if you look in here, i already said the answer.

Honestly? If you ever are able to get through that tangle of emotions regarding sex (which I empathize with), you may change your tune a bit. Trying saying 'no' to your hand for a month.

well, from 2001 to 2005, i did exactly that and within certain time periods within that span, i succeeded. it got harder when i got older though. when i realized what i was doing wasn't benefitting me in anyway as well as learning more about masturbations positive effects such as decreasing the chances of prostate cancer (which one of my relatives actually battled for sometime and lost 4 years ago) and stress reduction, i went back to jerking off full time around 2006. in october 2014, it will mark 20 years since i started masturbating. might be time for me to spice it up. been thinking of getting me some special lotion or a fleshlight.

 

[birddog7]

looking at that general petraeus situation, dude possibly put the whole entire country in jeopardy for some sex. he was spilling national secrets to a woman who for all we know could have been a spy for some other country. there's no excuse behind what he did. some people let their dicks and pussies have full control over their minds. you're not going to die for turning down a piece of ass. you'll live. some people have it way too good.

me personally, i don't see or understand how anybody could cheat on their partner especially if they're fucking on a regular basis. some people are just ungrateful.

I agree 100%. I've never been offered any sex to turn down, but I have no use for cheating on a partner. I told somebody at work that cheaters don't appreciate what they have. They don't know what it's like to be alone, and lonely, but I do...

 

[refujiunderground]

Then you really can't understand how hard or easy it is to say yes or no if you've never experienced it before

is it really that good where you can't just say no? you're not going to die if you don't ever have sex. some people just don't have the willpower or are weak willed. there's nothing wrong with saying that. just don't get how someone would wager something like their livelihood, their career, their spouse, or something that they value greatly over some sex. it's really not that serious. if you can keep yourself from doing something that will land you into jail or with a criminal record, it should be no problem to turn down something simple as sex.

it's crazy seeing how many men have fucked themselves over for some sex putting their damn livelihoods over that shit. the thing that gets me is that most of these guys have someone in their lives giving them some-a spouse, a girlfriend, or boyfriend. they simply just wanted to try out some new pussy or dick. you think they would go about it in a smart way but naw, they just go about it foolishly basically shooting themselves in the foot for some minutes.

 

[TheLyingGame]

And what number would that be, your Moral Highness?

You tell me.

I wouldn't want to embarrass you.

 

[refujiunderground]

It's not that simple. Sex aside from drugs is probably the best physical feeling possible and our brains are hardwired for it. Do you tell someone who has been on drugs to "just say no" once they've already tried it? When it is constantly surrounding them 24/7? It's not that easy.
Men think about sex all the time. They say no to it all the time. However, if an attractive woman is involved, it's VERY difficult to say no.
If a hot stud approached anyone on JUB for sex, i'm pretty sure 99% of those who are not partnered would say YES. Sex is just that amazing.

Pot is illegal. Can I say no to it? Of course I can but I don't. Alcohol and junk food are both not good for me. Do I partake in both? Of course.
Now just imagine something a million times better than both of those.

all of the things in bold are either not true or are highly questionable.

there's plenty of people that are around drugs and alcohol and don't end up using them either.

 

[refujiunderground]

Which ones do you think aren't true?

men think about sex all the time. <=unless you're a sex addict.

if a hot stud approached anybody on jub for sex... i tell you right now, i'm a part of that 1% which would have absolutely no problem saying no. my cash register is broken. unless i decide to open up (if and when i feel like it which is a question mark), his only option would be to rape me. i mean it too. he better be ready to strongarm me or sneak some drugs into my drink. it's not going down like that.

sex is the best physical feeling possible aside from drugs. <=depends on who you ask.

 

[TheLyingGame]

That's funny, because I wouldn't be embarrassed. The term 'whore' exists for people like you who are so lacking in their ability to communicate their feelings to themselves and others that they need to attack other people based on their sex life. Simply having sex with someone shouldn't cause shame--so where is the line that sex with one more person will change your status as a sexual being? The fact is, it doesn't exist anywhere else but in people's heads.

Woah. This thread is about guys inability to turn down sex. Way to go off-topic.

When i said "not everyone's a whore" I meant ME! I'm not a nun. Just you see, unlike some other people, I don't sleep with everyone I make eye contact with.

Really? Because that's not the definition of a whore where i'm from..

And FYI i never attacked anyone. I think that's pretty clear by the lack of a carcass

Let's not forget who quoted who. I'm just finishing what you started.

 

[refujiunderground]

Ask around.. and obviously you have to ask those who have had sex.

And studies have pointed to men thinking about sex an average of once an hour or something like that. Or 18 times a day. I'm sure a google search and provide you with all you want to know.

there's plenty of guys that i've heard that say that sex is overrated.

and you CAN'T make generalizations about the world's male population with a research study. i certainly don't think about sex every hour of the day.

 

[refujiunderground]

Did I say generalizations? I said there are studies. Now if you want to find studies that support what you're saying fine. However, I'm talking about people who have done surveys, who have done experiments and what I have learned from my limited studies of neuroscience, psychology and social psychology.

We are designed to want sex. We are designed to procreate. You can deny that all you want but it's part of who we are as human beings.
Doesn't mean you have to want sex but you're making bigger generalizations that I am at least I have actual studies and science backing me up here.

well, that's how you feel about it. there may be men outthere that think about sex many times a day BUT there's no way to tell that every man is like that though. studies on the human population can only draw conclusions about a certain number of people. not everybody. they can say whatever they want about men. i know i'm not like that and even if i did started fucking, i doubt that sex would change my behavior and way of thinking.