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You're in the most wonderful place you can be.

I needed about 6 months of daily JUB before I could tell myself I was happy with being gay. I, too, find this place the best place on the Internet.

Congrats, JamesDude! You must be ecstatic!
 
I wish I had found this place before I came out to myself. I had always known but never wanted to believe it. Eventually I came to terms with it and am fine. Congratulations on your revelation!

I didn't come out to friends and family for a year and a half after I decided I was okay with everything, and even then it wasn't my choice. I was outed, but that's another story.

Things will work themselves out for you in time.
 
Self-acceptance is the most important kind. It doesn't matter if your friends accept you if you don't accept yourself.

Now get out there and start living. :) ..|

Lex
 
Congratulations...my experience was nearly the same as yours. Guys here on JUB helped me as I wrestled with wanting to die in a loveless and fake marriage denying I was gay or making the decision to accept who I was and what I was.

Needless to say, coming to terms and accepting myself was liberating with JUBBERS always available to lend an ear any time of the day!

You'll have your good days and bad days; but accepting yourself is the first step in a lifetime of learning about yourself! Go at your pace and remain true to your statement that it be in your time and on your terms; you don't have to be a clone of anyone....
 
I had same kind of experience last year and it felt wonderful indeed. I was going to come out after that but I wasn't ready after all; however JUB has helped me gaining the courage to at least come out to my sister in the near future. But anyways, congratulations!
 
jamesdude said:
SELF ACCEPTANCE. YES, I ACCEPT MYSELF FOR WHO I AM!!!! I... I'M HAPPY WITH WHO I AM!!!
[I know this is the 'coming out' forum, but in a way, I AM coming out.... to myself.]
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Yes, well that is the first step in the process. And probably the most important part.

Congratulations.
 
jamesdude said:
(!) I recently just had a revelation. Upon reading these posts here on JUB, I gave a little thought to my own homosexuality, and i realize now that it's OK to be gay, and i'm proud of it. I'm still not ready to totally come out of the closet yet, but I got over my issues towards being gay. When I was a teen, I was very depressed about being gay, and sometimes I would just cry myself to sleep, thinking "why me?", but now I'm feeling something I've never felt before.... SELF ACCEPTANCE. YES, I ACCEPT MYSELF FOR WHO I AM!!!! I am so proud of myself. I've never been so happy in my life. I don't often cry, but I just broke into tears. I'M HAPPY WITH WHO I AM!!!
[I know this is the 'coming out' forum, but in a way, I AM coming out.... to myself.]
No more depresion, no more drugs to help me forget, no more self-denial, no more grief, no more pain.
Thanks JUB... I never would have done it without u guys.(*8*)
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I feel the same way. But, what makes it a bit hard it hard is my female best friend is in love with me. And I keep telling her i'm not the one for her. But, she just doesn't listen. And if I we're straight she would be the perfect girl. Nice voluptuous, perfectly proportional body, long hair, nice smile, smart, caring, independent & focused on her future, and goals, and is wealthy. God, its gonna be hard when I finally tell her i'm gay.
 
I'm happy for you. I spent years in denial over my bisexuality. I finally learned to accept it and I'm way happier for it. THis is a great first step for you. It will make life much better to be free. I know you'll come out in your own time. No pressure with that.
 
just going through that now....

and it wasn't like preconcieved. My thoughts suddenly went from why am I gay to Why dont I have a guy...lol:D
 
congratz...It's such a sigh of relief once you finally admit to yourself that you're gay.. I did it last christmas break and came out to my best friend. That was one unforgettable night :D
 
jamesdude said:
[I know this is the 'coming out' forum, but in a way, I AM coming out.... to myself.]
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There isnt a more important person in the world to come out to mate... and often we are the hardest ones to convince! Congratulations on laying the foundation to getting on with your life in a way you truly deserve - open, honest and happy!
 
That is great man :). It is just a sexuality, it does not define the type of person you are or the person you want to become. You still got to live your life just like any other straight person out there.

I went through this as well when I finally accepted I am bi. But after thinking about it and realizing about a lot of other stuff about life, I became ok with it.
 
I am very pleased for you.

It is not only okay to be gay, it is great being gay. You can have a perspective on the world that straight guys don't without being limited from doing any and every single thing they do.

Loving and respecting yourself is the biggest step you'll take to having a great life.
 
jamesdude said:
(!) I recently just had a revelation. Upon reading these posts here on JUB, I gave a little thought to my own homosexuality, and i realize now that it's OK to be gay, and i'm proud of it. I'm still not ready to totally come out of the closet yet, but I got over my issues towards being gay. When I was a teen, I was very depressed about being gay, and sometimes I would just cry myself to sleep, thinking "why me?", but now I'm feeling something I've never felt before.... SELF ACCEPTANCE. YES, I ACCEPT MYSELF FOR WHO I AM!!!! I am so proud of myself. I've never been so happy in my life. I don't often cry, but I just broke into tears. I'M HAPPY WITH WHO I AM!!!
[I know this is the 'coming out' forum, but in a way, I AM coming out.... to myself.]
No more depresion, no more drugs to help me forget, no more self-denial, no more grief, no more pain.
Thanks JUB... I never would have done it without u guys.(*8*)
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(*8*)(*8*)(*8*)(*8*)

Good for you! Feels great doesn't it! ..|
 
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