It's OVER!

[Jayden]

Thank god that creep is finally out of your life. I hope she stays strong and out of his life.

 

[treanir]

Good riddance etc.

 

[kallipolis]

Will this drama be televised? Or is our viewing to be restricted to mere words?

 

[metta]

Congrats!

 

[rareboy]

Just hope she doesn't hook up with anyone worse.

And try not to get involved.

There's a 50/50 chance it isn't over.

 

[NickCole]

I'm not so sure on that one. She has the whole abused girlfriend thing going on where she thinks he's the only one who will like her, but he seems done with her, from what he said to me when we were IMing.

I'm actually a little worried about him, now that I think about it. I'm going to knock on his door later today when I wake up to make sure he's alright.

He sounds manipulative and destructive, from what you've written.

Unless you're in it for the drama, there's no point in staying in his life, including making sure he's all right.

 

[rareboy]

I'm actually a little worried about him, now that I think about it. I'm going to knock on his door later today when I wake up to make sure he's alright.

I'm trying not to get involved; nothing good will come of me getting in the middle of this. Thanks, though.

Listen to me.

Stay out of it. Stay away from him.

Guys don't off themselves just because they ditched a girl.

 

[G-Lexington]

It wouldn't surprise me if your sister tries getting back together with him by the end of the week.

Ditto the above. Cut all contact.

Lex

 

[alley]

yep--stay out of the drama...the guy is bad news, don't get sucked in.

 

[TygreBryte]

Didn't he get kicked out of the apartment building you're in? I think he needs to be farther away.

 

[biguy732]

Do yourself a big favor - and give this guy some wide berth until he is finally gone from your building.

 

[NickCole]

He's a manipulative person, that's why your sister is in such distress. And she will not feel better anytime soon because it's very hard breaking free of those bonds. He's manipulated her emotions and she has to get them untangled and then (especially if she's having problems connected to her parents as well) figure out a new way to live her life.

 

[Lefty]

let me see now. you lose a pusher/trogdolite that threatens your health both by his stock in trade and threats of physical abuse...how sad...NOT

sis loses a control freak druggie with sado masochistic tendancieswho may or may not be a closet queen who won't admit to himself but gets his rocks off hurting people...especially women and most especially women close to him...even sadder-REALLY NOT.

you stand to gain back the sister you used to know and still love, fewer opportuinities to indulge in chemicals and possibly the freedom to not have to barracade yourself in your fortress to avoid physical harm...hmm?

sis stands to gain a chance of emotional stability, renewing of familial and social bonds. an opportunity to find and meet a person she can grow with and enjoy life, less trauma/drama and maybe more sunsets and roses. hmm?

the scales of life are definitely out of balance here. my amateur psychological analysis from the sideline is simple. CLOSE the doors put THE END to this soap digest novel. let the scum settle where he may but not in your or her pond.

to be brief (i know, too late) have nothing Nothing NOTHING to do with him. his drawing breath is neither your sisters' or your own concern...subtle enough?

 

[Lefty]

nobody has a comment or thought to add?

 

[NickCole]

Thanks for reminding me to update the thread, Lefty.

My sister has agreed to go out with the baker as friends this Saturday; she's requested that I attend as well, to further drive the point home that she's not ready to be in a relationship with him just yet. He actually asked her last night if she wanted to "be his girl" , and she said that she really wants to but not yet... I'm glad she's not just jumping into a new relationship three days after ending the old one like she did with the last boyfriend. It shows maturity. I'm proud of her.

Not that I think she should date the baker or anybody else right now, because I don't, but just so you're prepared, it probably doesn't matter when she dates the next guy because even if she waits he'll still be the rebound guy. In other words, it probably won't evolve into a boyfriend relationship. That's generally the way it works. Getting over someone who fills our mind is a process.

 

[chopper]

Reading this threads like listening to a bunch of old ladies gossiping at the hairdressers while having their blue rinses!

 

[Lefty]

hey chopper, if you don't like it change the fucking channel and stay out of the beauty parlor...and i mean that as a friendly suggestion so don't get your panties up in a wedgie

 

[Lefty]

great shot splatt..chortle chortle...muc better than mine

 

[RationalLunacy]

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