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Its SO Hard!!

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Hello guys!! ok here is my problem, i'm 40%(str8 ) and 60%(gay) and its so frustrating that i have to keep this a secret, cause if i say something about this to my parents they are going freak out(theyre christians, homofobics) and if i tell them it will never be the same, so basically i cant tell anyone( is not something ppl would expect from a christian'' person) its so hard and irritating cause i'm not into girls right now(they get pregnant and that freaks me out lol). And i like this guy(classmate) but he doesnt kno i'm BI'' and i dont kno if hes gay(frustration) but everytime he passes by me, he looks at me and its weird cause even when hes talking to a chick in the hall, he turns around and looks quikly, so we had a couple of eye contact lol (guys from exp what can u tell me, is he into me? or its just a normal thing?).... I dont kno what to do, this secret its killing me and getting a secret bf like this is so hard.....

(FEEL FREE TO COMMENT, OPINIONS,SHARE SOME OF YOUR SOAP OPERAS lol, GIVE ME SOME ADVISE)....

XOXO Orinorie,x,x,x
 
Welcome to life in the closet.

"Christians" everywhere are gay. There are those that embrace it as a gift from God, and those that deny/lie/and try to be sly, like Ted Haggert or Larry Craig cruising for sex in airport bathrooms.

So, why don't you just ask him out? Go to a movie. Go eat dinner. Get to know him outside of school to see if he really is gay, or in his "bi-nial" stage still.
 
Hey there. First off, don't label a thread "It's SO Hard!" on a gay messageboard. You're going to have a lot of people disappointed when they actually read your post. :D

Next, your parents. If you don't live with them, there's no need to tell them. If you do still live with them, work on changing that scenario. It may take some time and effort (and sacrifice), but it'll be worth it in the end.

Thirdly, this guy. Is he? Hell, you see him on a regular basis, and you don't know. How the heck should we? :) But why not get to know him better? Say "hello". Strike up a conversation. See where things lead.

Lex
 
lol srry Lex... omg, i see him everyday in school. but im scare to talk to him cause i dont really kno if hes interested( I hate when some1 i like dishes me lol) and taking the risk of being exposed(is scary) but ill try...
 
orinorie said:
lol srry Lex... omg, i see him everyday in school. but im scare to talk to him cause i dont really kno if hes interested( I hate when some1 i like dishes me lol) and taking the risk of being exposed(is scary) but ill try...
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Nothing ventured, nothing gained dude. It's the way the universe works. If you aren't willing to take the risk, you won't get the reward. No way around it really.
 
>>>... omg, i see him everyday in school. but im scare to talk to him cause i dont really kno if hes interested( I hate when some1 i like dishes me lol) and taking the risk of being exposed(is scary) but ill try.

Dude, you don't have to go up to him and say "Hello, I'm bisexual and I'm interested in going to bed with you." Just say "Hi". Start chatting with him a bit. Feel him out.

Lex
 
OK. Got it... Friendly conversation...(hope i dont start flirting with him)lol...
Thxxx... this is serious to me.,.,
 
You have a plethora of issues to work through.

Firstly, I don't understand your parsing of sexuality into percentages. I have the feeling that you are thinking that as long as even 40% of you is acceptably straight, it is somehow better than being maybe only 10% straight.

You need to stop immediately slapping labels all over everyone, including yourself. Your parnts may be christain. They may be homophobic. The two aren't connected.

There are hundreds of thousands of guys who have told their parents they are gay. Sometimes the parents freak, sometimes they are fine. In the end, who cares. It is their choice of how they want to receive the news. Better to tell them and be honest than to live an entire life as a lie because you fear rejection.

Next, you view of girls as somehow dangerous because they get pregnant demonstrates that you aren't even remotely emotionally ready for a relationship with any depth at all since you don't somehow see where your own responsibility lies.

And then, like everyone else has said, you need to invest actual effort into talking to guys you are interested in.
 
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