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I've always thought about why I'm gay...

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...and I've had a protruding thought. I'm not sure if this is exactly why, but it's the best explanation I can find.

When I was a little kid, my parents were never home, and my brother used to always beat me up at least twice a week. My parents never did any long-term punisment to him, so my brother just kept on beating me up. He only stopped when I grew older and I could defend myself.

Anyways, does anyone have any thoughts on this subject?
 
why would that turn you gay? wouldn't that in fact make you fear all men?

i beat up my little bro all the time. and he's a raging hetero.
 
Exactly. I have no idea why I am. That's just the only thing I can think of...it's quite sad really.
 
liwi80808 said:
...and I've had a protruding thought. I'm not sure if this is exactly why, but it's the best explanation I can find.

When I was a little kid, my parents were never home, and my brother used to always beat me up at least twice a week. My parents never did any long-term punisment to him, so my brother just kept on beating me up. He only stopped when I grew older and I could defend myself.

Anyways, does anyone have any thoughts on this subject?
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I don't see the link, I used to beat the shit out of my nipper (and vice versa) he's as straight as a Roman road and married with three kids.

Also, my cousins grew up (3 girls 2 boys) as latch-key kids, parents never home arguing fighting and none of them turned out to be gay.
 
My brother and I fought so much we were on a first name basis with the doctors and nurses at the ER. It's what brothers do. As far as I can tell, it had nothing to do with me being gay or my brother being straight.
 
i just finished watching a star trek episode ;)

i dident learn anything that is of much use

ill have to try another one..|
 
liwi80808 said:
...and I've had a protruding thought. I'm not sure if this is exactly why, but it's the best explanation I can find.

When I was a little kid, my parents were never home, and my brother used to always beat me up at least twice a week. My parents never did any long-term punisment to him, so my brother just kept on beating me up. He only stopped when I grew older and I could defend myself.

Anyways, does anyone have any thoughts on this subject?
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From your comments it seems as if you are trying to find reasons from a psychoanalytic perspective. But I fail to see where you are coming from with this bit of information.

Unless you are suggesting that you are gay because you subconsciously want to dominate another male (who would represent your brother) and be the one giving the punishment instead of taking it.

But dominating another male doesn't necessarily have to be sexual; instead one could become hypermasculine and be continually getting into physical confrontations in repeated attempts to a) undo the past, b) to find self-validation/self-worth, and/or c) seek retribution.

Those are some thoughts...
 
Look ta it this way, straight folks don't rack their brains for a reason for why they're straight. I see no reason why we should have to rack our brains for a reason for why we're gay.

And if you can't find one, then you know what that means.
 
I don't have a brother and my mother or stepmother were always home all the time for my entire childhood. So how did I get gay? For something to have turned you gay, it would have to have turned a whole hell of other gays gay, too, for the hypothesis to work out.

Homosexuality does not stem from such simple things. No one thing can turn anybody gay. It is a complex of so many conditions that I doubt seriously if anyone will ever figure them all out.

So instead of beating your head against the wall about the whys and wherefores, just accept it as a given and move on to the next question: "So, what are you going to do about it?"
 
Why are people left-handed?

Some questions don't have answers. They just plain ARE.
 
I only always ponder on why some or gay and some are straight.

I find it so facinating.

Is it just luck of the draw.
 
Now and then I try to think about who in the family tree was gay before me that gave or carried the gene to me.
On my grandmothers side I have a couple of gay cousins, so now she gets married and carries the gene to the following generations. my grandmother had eight kids. of those eight I know there are four different that have gays kids.
As to how it hits one in a family and not the others boggles my mind. my older brother and sister are str8 but I am gay. My sisters 2nd is gay but his older and younger sisters are str8. My cosuins first and fourth child are str8 but the 2nd and third kids were or are gay. boy and girl. Another cousin has an older son thats gay and the younger was str8. The last gay cousin I almost hooked up with not knowing I was talking to my cousin at first. He's 53 or so and still in the closet .
 
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