i've got a date and i'm so nervous.

[headhunter71]

i've been chatting with this guy online on and off for a few years. he lives in another city so we've never met. turns out we have tons more in common than expected and we now text each other a few times a day.

he's coming to town and we're meeting this week and i am so nervous. i kind of wanna bail but he's far to sweet to do that to.

on one hand i am looking forward to finally meeting in person but on the other hand i don't want to get involved with someone who lives in another city. i have zero interest in moving to where he is and i don't want a long distance relationship.

 

[HunterM]

Don't over analyze it. He's coming to meet up with you. Go meet him and have fun. You don't have to marry him and move after the first date.

Get to know him. Take it one date at a time. It's always fun to have friends in other cities...in case you need a place to stay while you're traveling.

Relax and HAVE FUN!

 

[tbtmo02]

i agree your just meeting. its an hour of your life its not that serious

 

[Seasoned]

How nice to finally meet someone with whom you've been chatting. It doesn't have to go any further than that.

 

[timboy]

i've been chatting with this guy online on and off for a few years. he lives in another city so we've never met. turns out we have tons more in common than expected and we now text each other a few times a day.

he's coming to town and we're meeting this week and i am so nervous. i kind of wanna bail but he's far to sweet to do that to.

on one hand i am looking forward to finally meeting in person but on the other hand i don't want to get involved with someone who lives in another city. i have zero interest in moving to where he is and i don't want a long distance relationship.

I met up with someone off another forum that lives relatively close to me . no romance at all but we have met up every month for the last three years , great friends now . Its good x

 

[headhunter71]

thanks guys.
i'm starting to get really excited now.

 

[Darted]

i've been chatting with this guy online on and off for a few years. he lives in another city so we've never met. turns out we have tons more in common than expected and we now text each other a few times a day.

he's coming to town and we're meeting this week and i am so nervous. i kind of wanna bail but he's far to sweet to do that to.

on one hand i am looking forward to finally meeting in person but on the other hand i don't want to get involved with someone who lives in another city. i have zero interest in moving to where he is and i don't want a long distance relationship.

What are you doing with him? See how things go, don't push him away because you don't want to move, but just keep an open mind

 

[palbert]

It's an opportunity to make another friend. Take it. And, if you want, it doesn't have to go beyond friendship.

 

[headhunter71]

it was fantastic. i met him at the station after work. he was so friendly and excited to meet and greeted me with a big hug. he was even better looking than his pics, extremely funny and smart.

walked to a restaurant he wanted to check out and had a great time chatting and enjoying some amazing food.

the conversation was so easy, it was like we knew each other for years.
sometime between when we met and sat down to eat he texted me "you're adorable" which so so sweet.

after several hours of chatting we left the restaurant and walked around a bit. it was a cold night in the city and i hadn't worn a very warm coat, nor did he and it was getting late. he had to go meet his friends who he was staying with and i had a trek home so we had to call it a night.

i walked him to a cab, we hugged and gave each other a quick kiss and were on our way.

a few mins later i got another text from him which was so cute.

we both wish we had more time to hang out together this weekend. sadly with it being easter we both had commitments.

i we've been texting all day and we both had a great time. it's really a shame that he lives in another city. he'd be a keeper.

we spoke about going to a festival in another city as one of our favorite bands are playing and not coming to our cities. i'm really considering it.

 

[HunterM]

Good to hear! Take it one date at a time. Going out of town together is a GREAT way to get to know each other fast. Have fun!

Make an effort to visit him in his city as well.