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I've started opening the closet-door.
- Thread starter jubalon
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Thanks for the comments folks!
Since last time, I haven't really gotten to talk to my flatmate in a sober state about my coming-out to him. I admit that I was intoxicated when I told him, so it felt sort of like "a thing that happened yesterday" the day after. He's mostly been away also, so except for one brief chat I haven't had the chance to bring it up.
I still have one flatmate left to come out to, but during the weekend I never found an "appropriate" moment to break it to him. I'll do tomorrow if there's a chance.
It sounds a bit stupid coming from me, with all the good reactions I've had. But I still feel uncomfortable with coming out. The past 3-4 days, I've sort of retracted from it all. There are moments where I almost feel a regret. So, when around the people I've come out to, I've felt that I've been avoiding the subject. While being closeted, I was very aware about not letting people know anything personal about me, and I grew used to that. It still is there, to a certain extent.
Anyways, me and the first flatmate I told had a talk and he asked me if I had made any progress. He wanted to be able to talk to others about me soon, but he didn't want to do so before it seemed appropriate. I said that he could just start if he wanted to, really.
A new week starts tomorrow, and I'll try to forget about my insecurities and say a whole-hearted "fuck you!" to the moments of regret and unreasonable thoughts. At least that's what my logical thinking tells me to do.
Since last time, I haven't really gotten to talk to my flatmate in a sober state about my coming-out to him. I admit that I was intoxicated when I told him, so it felt sort of like "a thing that happened yesterday" the day after. He's mostly been away also, so except for one brief chat I haven't had the chance to bring it up.
I still have one flatmate left to come out to, but during the weekend I never found an "appropriate" moment to break it to him. I'll do tomorrow if there's a chance.
It sounds a bit stupid coming from me, with all the good reactions I've had. But I still feel uncomfortable with coming out. The past 3-4 days, I've sort of retracted from it all. There are moments where I almost feel a regret. So, when around the people I've come out to, I've felt that I've been avoiding the subject. While being closeted, I was very aware about not letting people know anything personal about me, and I grew used to that. It still is there, to a certain extent.
Anyways, me and the first flatmate I told had a talk and he asked me if I had made any progress. He wanted to be able to talk to others about me soon, but he didn't want to do so before it seemed appropriate. I said that he could just start if he wanted to, really.
A new week starts tomorrow, and I'll try to forget about my insecurities and say a whole-hearted "fuck you!" to the moments of regret and unreasonable thoughts. At least that's what my logical thinking tells me to do.