Ive tried the gay meeting sites,but no luck!

[Dreads]

So, i somewhat new to the guys ive had a few experinces and well i think im hooked. I want another experince since i cant stop looking or thinking about guys, i want to get to know someone chill see what happens iv tried the internet sites with no luck . im not into the guys bars but im been thnking of going try that out again, so any suggestionson anything on chill gay bars in the chicago area? or anyother ways to meet chill guys?

 

[tonyboy]

What's with the word chill?
You use it alot.... is it a verb or a noun? don't know what it means exactly.

 

[Dreads]

relaxed, down to earth i guess

 

[G-Lexington]

chill. In my day, we were "awesome".

Are you looking more for hook-ups (quick things) or something a bit longer-lasting?

Lex

 

[Dreads]

well not too much into hooking up, i mean it happens every once in a great while when ive been with girls, but yeah somethng a little more than just a hook up

 

[maxpowr9]

If you are looking for a "down to earth" guy, you most likely won't find them at a club because most of them dont like clubs. Most down to earth guys tend to be introverted. Yeah im basically describing myself. How lame.

 

[I Just Wanna Be]

What's with the word chill?
You use it alot.... is it a verb or a noun? don't know what it means exactly.

In New York chill is like, Cool. Not that different. But when I moved here the first time, it threw me off. lol. That and "on line" when waiting IN a line. lol.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Dude, look carefully around. Not every bar is the in-place at the moment... and not every spa is bustling with sex/crazed dudes. And not every day is a good day and not every time of the day is a good time fo that particular place.

See, meeting up with other dudes for sex is not just like going to your local mall and shopping for food. It takes some research, study and yeah, planning, too.

Ever so often, even if you do everything right, you'll go home dry... Just the nature of the beast...

SC

 

[civic91]

My experience is to look for friends. Start to form a network of friends and then you start meeting people at a simpler conversational level. In other words, you're NOT getting together to sniff each other to see if you wanna have sex. Most of my bfs, I met very casually because we knew something or people in common. Best of luck to you. BTW, Wasn't that experimenting part fun??>

 

[fag lick]

what sites have you tried & do you actually message people?

 

[Dreads]

My experience is to look for friends. Start to form a network of friends and then you start meeting people at a simpler conversational level. In other words, you're NOT getting together to sniff each other to see if you wanna have sex. Most of my bfs, I met very casually because we knew something or people in common. Best of luck to you. BTW, Wasn't that experimenting part fun??>

yeah just not sure where to find guys at i guess still in the closet here for the time being but hopefully that will change soon soon, yeah the expermeting part was very fun

 

[backpacker]

Find some gay groups to join. There are groups for about every interest and you are bound to make friends with some nice guys. From that you will probably find someone to date.