Jack off clubs or group jo sessions.....any rules of behavior?

[bergentony]

Has anyone gone to a jack off club that some cities host where groups of guys get naked and jerk each other off either in a private club or hotel? How did it go? Did you enjoy it? How do you get started?

 

[cuteguyincali]

Has anyone gone to a jack off club that some cities host where groups of guys get naked and jerk each other off either in a private club or hotel? How did it go? Did you enjoy it? How do you get started?

I want to know more about these said clubs and how do you find them?

 

[pozvatop]

bateworld.com would be a good resource

 

[flscribe]

I belong to the Orlando Jacks club (nearest one to me), and have attended others around the country. The rules are all fairly similar to these from the Orlando club, although some do permit private play, away from the group scene, where anything goes.

What is allowed:
Sensual touching of one another
Jacking off of one another
Nipple play
Foot play
Cum play
Kissing
Voyeurism
Exhibitionism
Massaging
Erotic talk
Gay Pornography
Lube (Astro Glide, Albolene, Boy Butter, etc.)
Anonymity (must provide only us with basic info)
Only watching, but you must be naked

What is NOT allowed:
No fucking
No sucking
No lips below the hips
No aggressive behavior
No forcing anyone to do something with which they are not comfortable
No playing in any rooms except the designated "play room"
No cameras of any type
No audio recording devices of any type
No swapping of play toys
No sharing of bodily fluids (in one another's orifices)
No disclosing any personal information about attendees or the location of the event
No alcohol is allowed

This is for a club at a private residence, and the hosts (the homeowners) get to set the rules.

As far as unorganized jacking parties (like you'd arrange at a hotel with Craigslist), the rules generally are less stringent. Basically, no means no, but you can give anything a try once. Like every other situation in life, just ask. "Mind if I suck your cock?" "Do you want to cum on my face?" "Need a hand with that?" And so forth.

 

[cuteguyincali]

Oh wow this is something I can definitely look into.

 

[cuteguyincali]

Ok so someone mentioned bateworld, any other sites to look at? Im interested.

 

[bergentony]

I belong to the Orlando Jacks club (nearest one to me), and have attended others around the country. The rules are all fairly similar to these from the Orlando club, although some do permit private play, away from the group scene, where anything goes.

What is allowed:
Sensual touching of one another
Jacking off of one another
Nipple play
Foot play
Cum play
Kissing
Voyeurism
Exhibitionism
Massaging
Erotic talk
Gay Pornography
Lube (Astro Glide, Albolene, Boy Butter, etc.)
Anonymity (must provide only us with basic info)
Only watching, but you must be naked

What is NOT allowed:
No fucking
No sucking
No lips below the hips
No aggressive behavior
No forcing anyone to do something with which they are not comfortable
No playing in any rooms except the designated "play room"
No cameras of any type
No audio recording devices of any type
No swapping of play toys
No sharing of bodily fluids (in one another's orifices)
No disclosing any personal information about attendees or the location of the event
No alcohol is allowed

This is for a club at a private residence, and the hosts (the homeowners) get to set the rules.

As far as unorganized jacking parties (like you'd arrange at a hotel with Craigslist), the rules generally are less stringent. Basically, no means no, but you can give anything a try once. Like every other situation in life, just ask. "Mind if I suck your cock?" "Do you want to cum on my face?" "Need a hand with that?" And so forth.

Thanks, great info. I'm curious about the ages of the guys who go to the Orlando Jacks....are they younger, older, mixed?

 

[bergentony]

Ok so someone mentioned bateworld, any other sites to look at? Im interested.

Google jack off clubs. I found the site for NY Jacks and it has a page with links you can follow.

 

[flscribe]

Thanks, great info. I'm curious about the ages of the guys who go to the Orlando Jacks....are they younger, older, mixed?

This group tends to be a younger (30s) crowd -- OK, at least younger than I am (late 40s) -- but there are guys in my age group or older. The group also tends to be gay, rather than bi (as I am), but I've never felt anything but welcome. I generally prefer playing with fellow married bi guys my age, but I have enough of a voyeuristic side that if I don't find a buddy or two on any given visit, I can always sit back and enjoy watching the guys masturbate or get a helping hand from someone.

The fact that the parties are held at a private home on an occasional basis, rather than as a business that's open daily, probably brings out larger groups of guys and, by extension, a more diverse population in terms of age, size, ethnicity, sexual preference, etc.

 

[bergentony]

This group tends to be a younger (30s) crowd -- OK, at least younger than I am (late 40s) -- but there are guys in my age group or older. The group also tends to be gay, rather than bi (as I am), but I've never felt anything but welcome. I generally prefer playing with fellow married bi guys my age, but I have enough of a voyeuristic side that if I don't find a buddy or two on any given visit, I can always sit back and enjoy watching the guys masturbate or get a helping hand from someone.

The fact that the parties are held at a private home on an occasional basis, rather than as a business that's open daily, probably brings out larger groups of guys and, by extension, a more diverse population in terms of age, size, ethnicity, sexual preference, etc.

Have you ever run into some one you knew by mistake there who didn't know your orientation?

 

[flscribe]

Have you ever run into some one you knew by mistake there who didn't know your orientation?

Actually, no. That's a side benefit of being part of a club that's about 75 miles away from my hometown.

That said, I've also had some, um, fun locally and I haven't run into anyone that way, either.

Lucky, I guess.