I always try to mix some sort of anal penetration with jacking off, when I can, because it just makes it all the more better. But actually, I think, contrary to popular belief...sometimes certian techniques feel too good and I'm just too sensitive to really take it for that long, so I prefer to having the pleasure diluted a bit some so I can last longer....
I tried some of the things other gay men told me and it felt amazing, TOO AMAZING and I just can't really do it everytime... it's like overindulging in chocolate, or something.
Sometimes I prefer slow, sometimes fast... the key is to always try to have variety, that's what makes it hot.
With that said here's what I just tried:
Get a
dildo or phallic-shaped object. Go in the shower. Get heated up and horned up... think about whatever turns you on. Like maybe getting fucked in the ass in the shower. Then, take the
dildo and prop it up against the soap handle-thingie. It should be the right level, for you to just prop right on it. Now, ride the
dildo..the feeling should be amazing....
I just tried that a few days ago and it was really great. Be careful though. If you're a little out of shape, you can almost pass out from the pleasure. It kind of takes a bit of endurance for some reason, standing up while riding a "cock" like that lol.