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Jealous Girlfriends

Muscles4daze

Muscles4daze

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I am starting to notice a trend with a lot of girlfriends of my straight friends, They get jealous. I must admit a lot of my friends tend to take a liking to me (personality wise). It get's to the point where we call each other on the regular basis and hang out a lot. I always try to bring out the best in my friends, and help them improve on the things that they feel they need work on, weather it's fitness goals or personality. I am starting to realize a pattern with the girlfriends. A lot of my friends don't know I'm bi, but I still hear comments like "are you talking to your boyfriend again?" "All you do is hang out with that guy?" "You act like he's your wife or something!". I have stepped back from a lot of my friends because of this, and then they get upset with me. They tell me how much they value my friendship and they don't want anyone coming between us, but they don't put these girls in check.

I once got a really nasty message from one of my friends girlfriends, she was hysterical and crying and telling me to stay away from her boyfriend. I just faded away from him, he calls me and e-mails me all the time and I just ignore him. Now it looks like I'm in a similar situation with one of my other friends. Don't get me wrong I have fell victim to the straight guy crush, but when they have girlfriends they are off limits and I can honestly say I am not attracted to these guys.
 
They would worry when they know you are bisexual :lol:. I don't think you should distance yourself from your friends. You are friends and you spend time together. When it's really that much, just say he should more time with his girlfriend, but continue being his friend. I think i need some fitness advise as well!
 
RRRalph said:
They would worry when they know you are bisexual :lol:. I don't think you should distance yourself from your friends. You are friends and you spend time together. When it's really that much, just say he should more time with his girlfriend, but continue being his friend. I think i need some fitness advise as well!
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I do try and coax them to spend more time with their girlfriends, but they do what they want regardless and I end up looking like the villain in these girls eyes. I distance myself because it's becoming a headache, I'm like if you value my friendship that much, put these girls in their place. I think when a female starts to see another man as a threat there's deeper issues there.
 
Well in a way it's like with married couples -- you have to treat them like a team, at least part of the time. If you ignore or dis the girlfriend, she's going to say evil things about you to the boyfriend, and next thing you know he'll drop you.

So make sure you socialize with both of them on a regular basis, and be extra nice to her. The less you like her, the nicer you have to be, if you still want to be friends with her boyfriend.
 
slobone said:
Well in a way it's like with married couples -- you have to treat them like a team, at least part of the time. If you ignore or dis the girlfriend, she's going to say evil things about you to the boyfriend, and next thing you know he'll drop you.

So make sure you socialize with both of them on a regular basis, and be extra nice to her. The less you like her, the nicer you have to be, if you still want to be friends with her boyfriend.
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I don't know if you read my post completely, but I am the one who chose to distance myself. Those girls have not made any effort to get to know me, but they are quick to throw insults. To be honest I think these girls may be questioning these guys sexual preferences, but instead of going straight to the source they want to take it out on me, and make me look like the villian.
 
suddenlyic said:
Do you put your arms around your boyfriend to make their girlfriend jealous? Seriously, be direct with your friend about the situation and see what he thinks. It's up to him to talk to his GF about it.

It reminds me of this girl I know. She asked me out, but I wasn't good with words back then and told her to "GET LOST", and she hated me ever since. I know that was insensitive but I was in my hormonal teenage years. Well she ended up dating my friend and hated it when I go out with him without her. THE COW banned him from going out with me. I'm kind of glad they broke up.
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I've told him and he said he's gonna handle it, but nothings changed, so I'm just gonna leave him alone. I have not given this girl any reason to feel that way, I think she's just insecure.
 
Muscles4daze said:
I don't know if you read my post completely, but I am the one who chose to distance myself. Those girls have not made any effort to get to know me, but they are quick to throw insults. To be honest I think these girls may be questioning these guys sexual preferences, but instead of going straight to the source they want to take it out on me, and make me look like the villian.
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Then I don't quite see what your problem is. If you don't want to have anything to do with this guy, why should you care what his girlfriend thinks of you?
 
slobone said:
Then I don't quite see what your problem is. If you don't want to have anything to do with this guy, why should you care what his girlfriend thinks of you?
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Re-read my original post, I began distancing myself from him due to his girlfriend and her insecurities. He is not doing a good job of handling her, so I was like if he can't do that I'm gonna leave him alone.
 
maybe they're insecure because you're really really good looking? ... hehe
 
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