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Job is causing problems...

Well, it's over and it feels like shit. I think I need a drink
 
leNate, I'm sorry that the relationship is over but I think you will see that it's the right thing in due time. When he started with the "not good enough" crap, this tells me one very important thing about him......... he is a very controlling person and he will never change. You are better off without him and you deserve better anyway.

Believe me, I was in a relationship for 8 years with a person who was controlling and it was 8 years of my life that was wasted. You're much better off with this ending now rather than later when you would have invested a lot more of yourself (and who knows what else) in it.

Big hug to you and hang in there.....(*8*)
 
He doesn't trust you, that's why he doesn't want you to be at that bar. If the trust issue is your fault than you should fix it, but if it is his, why should you love someone who doesn't trust you? Trust is the best proof of love.
 
Good for you. Now you can have some fun....and hopefully you've taught the spoiled little piece of work something about throwing a tantrum. Hugs and good luck with school.
 
Thanks for the kind words. I miss him so much already, but I know it would have only gotten worse. I just have to keep telling myself that.
 
Sorry its over, but I really think it is the best option, he was jelous and it only ever gets worse. Breaking up is always hard to do, even when in a situation like this when it is the right thing. Good luck getting over him and enjoy.
 
leNate, down the line, you'll realize that you saved yourself a lot of grief by not caving into someone who was overly emotional, non-understanding and absolutely vicious in using emotional blackmail.
 
You needed someone who was mature and understood the real needs that one faces in the world. This kid didn't get it. You're much better off. Nurse the hurt, and pick yourself up and go find someone who knows what they're doing.
 
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