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I'm not new to this site, and had forgot my old name, as I never logged on to it, so created a new one smh but, as the title suggest i'm just a lil bit curious and, wanted opinions over something that, had happen to me in the last couple of months concerning this dude that used to work at my job who was my eyecandy of sorts lol.

I was wondering was he potentially trying to hit on me, or just trying to befriend me, as he basically worked in a different department from me, and have asked me was I off two or three times, and one of those times, I swear he followed me because, I was walking to the backroom to clocked back in for lunch and, he was like a couple of steps right behind me to ask was I off to then turn back around after I had said no.

I personally found that strange, and everytime he asked this, it really didnt go anywhere after I said no then, he seem to tried to make more small talk two more times i guess by asking while I was with this other dude how was are supervisor treating us, and another time he came to the department where I was working at and ask where did this item go and what me and the same dude that I was with the other time what we was doing, which I felt was less strange, then asking me am I off and then saying nothing else like why he wanna know, but both these times I felt he was looking moreso at me to answer then the other guy as his eyes seemed focus on me and before he had asked where the stuff go he was looking at the corner of his eye towards me I think.

And I even got bold once to talk to him asking him about his job and position but, I felt so awkward and nervous that, I kept turning around and stuff so, that was a big fail for me to really ask him anything. I have ask different people already, and it was mostly one sided so, just wanted some ol jub posters opinions as, I know it wont be bias so yay or nay fellas?
 
hi xPrimaryx,

Welcome back to JUB. I have read and re-read your story, and it seems to me that this guy is interested in you. I still have a few questions, and I think people over here will be able to give you a better advice when they know a bit more about the background.

So are you open at your workplace (so people over there are aware that you are gay)? And how about him? Is he (an open) gay, do you have any clues about (former) girlfriends / boyfriends etc? Any idea if he might be gay?

What's your age (and his age)?

And you told us: "And I even got bold once to talk to him asking him about his job and position but, I felt so awkward and nervous that, I kept turning around and stuff so, that was a big fail for me to really ask him anything."

I would like to advise you to find ways to feel less awkward and less nervous when you have such a small-talk with guys. I mean, all of these questions are work-related and perfect to 'test the water'. Any idea what's his opinion about gay guys? Please work on it and try to get some advice to behave less nervous when you meet him again. Random meetings and this kind of small talks are a perfect way to learn more from each other. Christmas and New Year are as well perfect topics for starting such a convo with him.

Feel free to ask for more details.

Good luck, and best wishes.
 
Welcome back! It seems as though he wants to spend break time with you. Try to make that happen and you'll begin to know him as a person and not just a passerby.
 
My guess would be he may want to get to know you more. Not sure in what way though. Str8t/ Bi/Gay maybe he is alone, new in town, has few friends. Maybe give him a chance instead of just walking by and mkeing him feel unnoticed, not wanting to talk to him, avoiding him, all cuz you just blow by him everyday at work.


Be a better human, and give him a few minutes of your time or offer him a simple cup of coffee at break time... and you'll feel pretty good about your self...

Guess you could go for lunch/beer/coffee and start there. You either gain a friend, beer buddie?????
 
Sorry for the late reponse, been feeling sick but anyway @ Ganoderma, no im not out and im 22 I dont even know anything about him basically lol he's around my age im sure.

He basically quit working where I work at and, I dont even see him anymore so, basically this just been a missed opportunity to know him better.

The reason for the nervousness was because I thought he was cute so, that was bad lol and, I know its not strange for co-workers to chat and stuff but I do think it strange when I can see him stop what he doing to follow me to the workers area to ask was I off to then turn back around. Thanks guys.
 
I ment since I thought he was cute, it made me all nervious and stuff leading to the arkwardly bad chat where I really couldnt say all that I wanted or even more over the couple months that he was working there, not bad cause I thought he was cute. that's a good thing that I thought he was cute hehe.
 
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