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Just came out!

ryan2010

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Well, partially. I know there's a lot more people to tell, and a lot of people think telling your friends is the easiest part/not a big deal, but I came out for the first time to my best friends a few days ago, and I've already been feeling great!

Thanks to everyone at JUB who's posted in these forums, you may not know it but this has been a really helpful place for me and has made this whole transition a lot easier. I used to be kind of unsure about my orientation, but I finally realized and admitted to myself I was gay, and it's been uphill since. I just thought I'd share this here, and again, thank you all. :-)
 
Well done you. Hopefully you will be realising that the hardest person to come out to is yourself and that most of the worry is in your head. It will get easier as time goes on to the point where you won't even think about it. Keep up the good work (*8*)
 
I am happy for you. It's a great relief. The major announcements give way to living life openly if desired. I always ache for the people at the stage of figuring it out in isolation, alone and sometimes scared.

I'm so glad JUB is here and it's good to hear that it has helped you.

Wishing you the best of everything now and for a long time to come.
 
Congratulations! I hope things continue to go smoothly for you.
 
Congrats! .........
 
Congratulations. Like others said, coming out to yourself and that first person is the hardest. I find that the more people I come out to, the easier it gets to come out.
 
Congratulations! It's difficult at first. But after that, it feels great!!! :)
 
Thanks for the support everyone, it really means a lot to me. That definitely felt like the hardest part, but it feels like it will take some getting used to before I immediately go about and tell others. Unfortunately, I have an extremely religious dad (my would probably be totally okay if I told her) so I can't come out to my family anytime soon at least.

Again, thanks for leaving a message everyone :)
 
oh i c... at least you've made the first step already! :) My family is very religious as well...

I came out to my siblings first then to my parents. And it was New Years Day. Just this year. I was even surprised with my moms reaction when i told her i have a crush on someone. She asked me if i have a picture of him and told my sister to get her eyeglasses. hahaha! :)
 
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