Just got hit on. . .

[Hardforyou2222]

So far in the past 2 weeks i got hit on by 3 different guys. All 3 where around my age so 20-24. I thought it was going to be weired and arkward but it wasn't. Most of the guys had the pickup line " Hey, you look so familiar" blahh blahh blahh lol... so my question to the straight and bi guys... Have you ever got hit on by a dude and what did you do about it ?...

I know I'm a good looking guy so i took this as a good thing. I think most straight dudes would take this situation the wrong way

 

[Hardforyou2222]

Nothing happen, we were just talking about shit

 

[Hardforyou2222]

God, your all talk.

What are you talking about? and isn't this the straight and bi forum? aren't you gay?

 

[hotatlboi]

lol yeah, your profile says you are looking for fun. So why not have fun with them?

Unless were you not into them?

 

[evanrick]

nice..what are the chances you will see them again? pretty good id say.

 

[medic1]

What are you talking about? and isn't this the straight and bi forum? aren't you gay?

Dude , the site is called Just us boys, so don`t get so defensive.
Just saying.

 

[JNewYork]

Is everyone who starts a conversation with you "hitting on you"? I don't mean to be argumentative, but I start conversations with people, some of them good looking, and I'm not hitting on them.

 

[Hardforyou2222]

Is everyone who starts a conversation with you "hitting on you"? I don't mean to be argumentative, but I start conversations with people, some of them good looking, and I'm not hitting on them.

No but i really didn't get into detail about my story but when i brought up my girlfriend they said "thats too bad." So i know when I'm getting hit on and when its just a friendly conversation.

 

[Gnarlibar]

So far in the past 2 weeks i got hit on by 3 different guys. All 3 where around my age so 20-24. I thought it was going to be weired and arkward but it wasn't. Most of the guys had the pickup line " Hey, you look so familiar" blahh blahh blahh lol... so my question to the straight and bi guys... Have you ever got hit on by a dude and what did you do about it ?...

I know I'm a good looking guy so i took this as a good thing. I think most straight dudes would take this situation the wrong way

I have had this happen too: a guy flirting with me. It's a compliment I guess. Maybe you were checking them out and they noticed so hence the question "you look familiar..." Open for you to flirt back.

Personally, one guy (very drunk) went to snog me after flirting. I didn't fancy him doing that especially in a pub in front of loads of people I knew so I blocked him and made a joke of how drunk he must be.

Other than that I've always been too nervous to take it further really. One guy (also drunk) cuddled and fondled me. That freaked me out as I was only 15 at the time. It's a longer story that is really a sexual assault on a minor by a lad a few years older than me.

 

[MisterMajestic]

So far in the past 2 weeks i got hit on by 3 different guys. All 3 where around my age so 20-24. I thought it was going to be weired and arkward but it wasn't. Most of the guys had the pickup line " Hey, you look so familiar" blahh blahh blahh lol... so my question to the straight and bi guys... Have you ever got hit on by a dude and what did you do about it ?...

I know I'm a good looking guy so i took this as a good thing. I think most straight dudes would take this situation the wrong way

That pickup line is also used by Gay/Bi Guys in their 30's to 40's..I casually-flirted with several Straight Male & Female co-workers in the past and still do...We all do it because we've known each other for such a long time......One Straight-guy in particular Loved the attention..He's White and only dates Black women ..He called me Sexy & Handsome just about every time we'd run into each other in the building and I'd smack his Ass when no one was around.....Grabbing his Ass for years was a step beyond flirting but we both liked it and I'm sure he expected it..There were times when he'd wear big shirts and I'd say to him "How can I see your Ass with that Big shirt covering it"?...He'd lift up his shirt and I'd grab both of his Cheeks...LOL....We always talked about each others Love-life but never hit on each other. So our flirting never blossomed into anything outside the job...His department closed in October so he's gone. I miss him and his Ass...

The thing about being Bi is that some pickup lines can go right over your head, especially if it's a co-worker. My advice to Bi-Guys is to ENGAGE if you're attracted to the "straight/closeted dude" that seems to be throwing certain lines your way...

I think most Straight Guys just enjoy the attention...Once straight Guys start talking about their Girlfriends &/or wives most Gay/Bi/Closeted-Dudes will back off and change the conversation...It will be as if nothing ever was said..