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Just Told The Lad I Like That I Like Him...

Don't listen to friends, trust your own instincts. You need to talk to him seriously. He's gone far enough not to be shocked. If he's not gay/bi he's confused. He may just not want to face up to things, or he may be scared. Tell him how you feel - honestly, no joking with him. Tell him you want to be close and have a relationship, but that you understand if he does not not. Be prepared to lose him, if you want to have him. Try and see things from his perspective - you know him - and see if that helps you work out why he behaves the way he does. Best of luck
 
joeG23 said:
Don't listen to friends, trust your own instincts. You need to talk to him seriously. He's gone far enough not to be shocked. If he's not gay/bi he's confused. He may just not want to face up to things, or he may be scared. Tell him how you feel - honestly, no joking with him. Tell him you want to be close and have a relationship, but that you understand if he does not not. Be prepared to lose him, if you want to have him. Try and see things from his perspective - you know him - and see if that helps you work out why he behaves the way he does. Best of luck
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Ive already told him that i love him and the respose was you dont love me, and i was yes i do and then he said no you dont... But i am starting fresh again now and will be on the flight in a few hours.

I am disappointed it never happened and just want to get away from it all... cowards way out i guess...
 
Don't blame yourself. You've been honest with him, but he has never been honest with you. What you need is a breath of fresh air, and start out anew. Put him behind you and find someone else worthwhile. If he contacts you again, ignore him. The more you ignore him, the more persistent he'll get, but stick to your guns. It might hurt, but you need your own self esteem rather than someone messing with your head and heart all the time.
 
Ha... i said that i wouldn't be posting anymore about him but considering i am back home i have to see him again in college... I went back to my college to see if i could get back in and they agreed to have me back :D Unfortunately i seen him today and he was very shocked to see me, we didnt talk to each other and i dont intend to for a while. I am getting over him and have never felt better about it. I am keeping my distance from him until he approaches me and i will see what happens from there...
Speak soon guys!
 
Glad to hear it. Stick with school and worry about yourself. Get yourself centered!
 
Hi Guys...
Over the last few days "he" has started speaking to me again, well not speaking to me... FLIRTING with me! This has pissed me off big style because i have moved on and i am now becoming really good friends with another lad i like alot... He knows about the other lad so i am just wondering if he is doing this to get at me, which seems likely.
Oh i know hes flirting with me because at first i didnt even realize until my bi friend who was with me at the time pointed it out... I was like nooo really?! :confused:

What do you guys think...

Thanks ..|
 
oooo..

Don't you hate it when they get all jealous because you've moved on?

Just foreget about him... men who play games are SO boring.

You go crush on your new guy and leave Mr. Gamey McPlaysalot to his little thing.
 
I've done all that stupid mind-games crap with a bisexual lad many years ago. I seriously would move on and find someone who wont be flirty one day and obnoxious the next. Nobody is worth this much hassle.

But, ultimately, dont make decisions based on advice a bunch of internet strangers give you. Do what YOU think is right and have the strength of character to stick it out.

Good luck tho!

Gaz
 
Why would he be jealous though... Hes straight, well he says so, he even has a girlfriend.

Do straight guys get jealous when a bi guy moves on??
Seems wierd if they do lol.
 
Because it's an ego boost to him that there's this gay guy who's all into him.

He probably jokes about it with his girlfriend and brags about it at parties.
 
aww buddy sorry for all the hassle and hurt this guy is causing you !!

In my option , it sounds like he is confused and wants to go for it , but is maybe scared.

Alot of guys who are still young, think they might be bi/gay and then because they are afraid of the reaction of friends /family they go with the easy option ...

I feel for you , coz i too , even though i came out later in life, only just 11/2yrs ago, i too went through the lusting after someone who seemed confused!!

WE are mates, but he has over the years i know him had g/f's , however i did have a one night thing with him when we where both drunk... we work 2gether so its pretty strange, lucky for me , we are cool with each other, however i still get the bi vibe from him, i think he is in denile!! lol

Oh well his lose, i have moved on long time ago now, and have meet the most amazing guy, and have been blissfully happy for just over a year!!


Good luck .. and keep us posted on the events

:O)
 
Well, while i was in class with him couple of days ago he was going on about how his girlfriend isnt giving him any... and that he wants to stay faithful to her but he may go somewhere else for it if she doesnt put up any time soon, then he gave me a slight nudge and looked and smiled at me.
I thought i would see what he exactly means by this so i asked him if he wanted to come round to mine tomorrow... he said yes. Now i have a plan, if he comes on to me i will just push him away and say i have moved on, you had your chance.
It may be harsh and i may be sinking to his level but i want him to know how much he hurt me.

Comments on this would be great.
Cheers Guys.
 
Please do not sink to his level. Just move on and forget about him.
 
hmmm... *growl*
revenge might seem attractive to you at this point..
i understand.. it's not difficult either.. it will even taste sweet.. for a while..
but nothing good comes from it.. revenge doesn't change that which has come to pass.. nor will it reforge that which was shattered..
i urge you to move carefully..
it is easier to destroy then to create..
treat him.. the way you'd like him to treat you..
be the better man..
and if you've decided to end your friendship nonetheless..
then do so on good terms.. with the knowledge that it wasn't meant to be..
part with a smile, and welcome the future into your life ^^
 
Dont worry... I didnt sink to his level. But i cant help fall for him, he was round yesterday and we decided to go on the computer, it was a bit cramped with us both sitting next to each other on the same chair so i told him to sit on my knee, as a joke. He didnt take it as a joke and sat on my knee :confused: i was like... ok. After a little while i put my arms around his stomach and just hugged him for a while, he then started to put his hand on to my knee but would then suddenly pull away, his feet were touching mine as he was resting his feet on top of mine. I really liked this becuase i missed it so much when i was gone. I also started to tickle his back and nibble his ear which he didnt mind at all!! Then as he was leaving we hugged and he was gone.
Today we seen each other in college and for one of our classes we always sit next to each other, i got to my seat before he got there and as he was coming in i waved him over to his seat. He completely blanked me and went and sat somewhere else... :(
I dont get him and i actually thought i was getting over him, why do i always keep going back to him?
 
you two sound sow adorable ^^
i think you're just going to have to accept him the way he is
perhaps he felt embarrassed because he gave into you?
enjoy what you have without asking for more
well.. that is how i would handle it.. ^^''
 
This guy sounds more confused than you are, and seems to be acting like a total douche bag.

I hope that by now you have come to some sort of terms with this dude, I know its been a few months since you've posted about him.
 
This story is so cute, but I hate people who play with other's emotions.

I've gone through this type of thing and it hurts. It's even worse when you have to see this person all the time.

I guess all I can say is to not spend too much time with him. It may hurt, but your feelings will die down. I've tried this and so far it's working, for me anyway.
 
Hi guys, long time since i posted anything at all but i have to post this.

I kissed him on Monday and he kissed me back...
I also gave him a BJ.
He hates me now though and he is blaming it all on me. He still keeps saying he is straight but this time i am sure he isnt.
I just dont know what to do anymore, ive dreamed of kissing him for so long and it finally happened but now he hates me :(

What do you guys think???

x
 
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