just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

[refujiunderground]

I'll try to abbreviate.

I needed to change my clothes because I was getting off work, so I went to a closet where they were stored. My clothes were missing, which meant I had to walk back through an area wearing only a bathrobe. Everybody began laughing at me.

It turned out that a really pretty girl had saved my clothes for me. When she told me this, she began giving me those "come-hither" looks. I explained to her that, while I thought her very pretty, I was too old for her, but I added that, if I were closer to her age, I'd most definitely go out with her.

The whole thing--especially the part about the clothes--relates to sexual identity, RJ. (losing clothes=doubting identity; insert pretty woman here.)

interesting. so your dream was basically you not being completely sure if you're gay?

 

[borg69unimatrix]

Ugh...do you guys ever have a day/week/month in which it feels like any and everyone you come in contact with is trying their hardest to piss you off?

EVERY day.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

The thing is, RJ, it doesn't match reality at all. I feel quite comfortable with my sexuality.

I wonder if it relates to my no/fap experiment? Testosterone levels rise during no/fap.

Basically, RJ, he's stopped jerking off to the point where his horny sub-conscious is willing to entertain the notion of doing a female in a worst case scenario in order to get off - one way or another. It's a sub-conscious act of desperation, throwing anything it can out there in hopes of getting a hit.

 

[refujiunderground]

The thing is, RJ, it doesn't match reality at all. I feel quite comfortable with my sexuality.

I wonder if it relates to my no/fap experiment? Testosterone levels rise during no/fap.

Basically, RJ, he's stopped jerking off to the point where his horny sub-conscious is willing to entertain the notion of doing a female in a worst case scenario in order to get off - one way or another. It's a sub-conscious act of desperation, throwing anything it can out there in hopes of getting a hit.

so basically.... damn, that makes sense. not fapping will not change the gay brain period even if someone has a naked woman in their dream? it doesn't mean anything. so we're really born this way?

 

[mikey3000]

Charity overload. Anyone else feel it?

I mean some days I feel I have everyone's hands in my pocket fighting over my few remaining pennies, and the ads are getting more desperate. Run For This; Walk For That; Blah blah blah. I've had it!!! These professional fundraisers are lining their pockets and the charities are getting less and less. No more. I just quit all my contributions to everything. Charity begins at home guys!!!

 

[borg69unimatrix]

so basically.... damn, that makes sense. not fapping will not change the gay brain period even if someone has a naked woman in their dream? it doesn't mean anything. so we're really born this way?

Let me put it like this... have you ever been so starving hungry that even stuff you don't like was starting to sound good ??

It's a self preservation mechanism to ensure that you survive, even if it has to trick you.

 

[frankfrank]

I love my friends... but god damn, trying to plan out a vacation is hard when half of them are unemployed.

I don't really want to exclude anyone, but at the same time, I don't want to have to stay in budget motels just because that's what my friends can afford.

And I assume the other half are employed, most of them having at least some money to do something as well, but with no TIME to make use of it. Americans don't get very good vacations from employers, usually.

Yeah, TELL ME about it. It's a real BITCH trying to find somebody, especially, who is interested in sharing aggressive vacationing (such as overseas travel), especially.

 

[nate78]

Just one of the stupid little things that bother me of which there are very few. I hate when people say "I'm OCD or I'm ADD". That's like saying "I'm diabetes or "I'm cancer". You HAVE OCD or ADD, you aren't the ailment itself.

 

[pat grimshaw]

Just one of the stupid little things that bother me of which there are very few. I hate when people say "I'm OCD or I'm ADD". ...

It's the fashion now for people to wear their illnesses like a label.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

^JUB seems to be going through some kind of metamorphosis. Have you noticed?

How so ???

 

[bankside]

Had to unsubscribe from this, because apparently people don't know how to laugh/have fun at anything anymore without making a serious debate out of everything.

I think I've been on this site too long.

Well if we can't talk about different experiences on another thread, at least we agree here: Venting right back atcha….

 

[refujiunderground]

Let me put it like this... have you ever been so starving hungry that even stuff you don't like was starting to sound good ??

It's a self preservation mechanism to ensure that you survive, even if it has to trick you.

so what you're saying is that when someone masturbates or get a sexual release regularly, they are their normal selves. when sexually pent up with no form of release, they become turned on by things that they wouldn't normally be turned on by. so a gay guy that hasn't wacked off or had sex for awhile might end up having a wet dream involving a woman. but he's still gay though.

Fuck Brock Lesnar. That piece of shit wants gay people dead. He doesn't deserve a WWE contract, let alone a major WrestleMania victory. I'd rather he be selling shoes at Mall of America.

for real??? i know that dude is a real life douchebag but damn, dude is that much of an asshole? thanks for letting me know that bit of info.

 

[refujiunderground]

maybe it's just me or i'm just being paranoid but what the fuck is up with some of these dudes in the gym all fucking walking close to me as if i'm in their way when they have a whole bunch of space for them to walk around. this one guy walks right in front of the leg machine where i push my leg against the weight and it pushes it out. dude walks right in front of it as if i'm supposed to stop what i'm doing so he could pass. i just kept doing my thing and i wouldn't give a fuck if i hit him or not.

then when i'm standing around talking to my brother and my homeboy as we're working out. you had like 3 dudes all walking all close invading my space as if i'm supposed to move out their way when they have a whole lot of walk room behind me as if they want me to notice them or something. not even saying excuse me or even showing any manners. i stood there and thought to myself like "what the fuck" i didn't get heated but i got rather annoyed where i was just waiting for someone to run into me or to cop an attitude when they were in the wrong fucking violating MY space. i would have fucking let them have too as i was really waiting for them to see what i'd do if they tested me and shit.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

so what you're saying is that when someone masturbates or get a sexual release regularly, they are their normal selves. when sexually pent up with no form of release, they become turned on by things that they wouldn't normally be turned on by. so a gay guy that hasn't wacked off or had sex for awhile might end up having a wet dream involving a woman. but he's still gay though.

Kind of the same in reverse as straight guys in prison or navy.

 

[refujiunderground]

Kind of the same in reverse as straight guys in prison or navy.

well, what if a gay guy enjoys sex with a woman but is still attracted to guys, does that mean that he's no longer gay gay since he enjoyed vaginal sex or he just had a incidental straight moment?

 

[borg69unimatrix]

well, what if a gay guy enjoys sex with a woman but is still attracted to guys, does that mean that he's no longer gay gay since he enjoyed vaginal sex or he just had a incidental straight moment?

I seriously doubt that all those prisoners and navy guys convert just because they dabbled in a moment of desperation.

 

[eastofeden]

I hate all of those fake antique shows on the air right now. I don't give a fuck what some TV show says...something is worth what the market is willing to bear...period.

 

[jdcnow]

^ My mom had an old Underwriter brand typewriter. Old-timey dinosaur thing. I remember having to use it when I was little, on occasion. I remember intentionally pressing multiple keys together just to watch the tiny individual hammers that imprint the characters onto the paper all meet together and stick - just to see how the thing worked.

 

[FuryOfFirestorm]

I know it's selfish, but I hate that my friends make me justify the fact that, on my first day off after a 45-50 hour work week, all I want to do is play video games, not get out of my PJ's, and not be bothered all day.

I'm an introvert; after 16 years you'd think they'd know to not be offended when I just want to spend a day by myself.

Just tell them, "Fuck all you bitches - it's ME time!"

 

[FuryOfFirestorm]

well, what if a gay guy enjoys sex with a woman but is still attracted to guys, does that mean that he's no longer gay gay since he enjoyed vaginal sex or he just had a incidental straight moment?

If a openly gay guy has sex with a woman, he's experimenting or was drunk as fuck.

If a closeted gay guy has sex with a woman, it's because he's trying to keep up the lie.

If a gay guy ENJOYS sex with a woman, and wants to do it again, then he's actually bisexual.

I hope I cleared things up for you.