just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

[G-Lexington]

body hair is one of those things that totally turns me off in porn, but doesn't phase me at all in person.

A lack of body hair isn't much an issue in real life OR porn, but I quite like it both places.

Yes, please!



You still have his phone number?

Definitely.

Get out of my way Bjork.

So Lex about this guy.

Looks like a fight is brewing. Winner gets the guy. Loser gets me. But that's not such a bad consolation prize - I'm pretty damn hairy myself.

Lex

 

[Lefty]

JMHO but Natural hair is natural. I like natural
Personal preference is hirsute but not every inch of skin.
Still, better natural than stubble. Better eye candy too.

Imagine your fingers trailing through a forest of chest hair,
dallying with the nipples that grow erect...now, tracing a gentle
path down the befurred treasure trail, and, and well,
thats for another thread in another place.

Relax Mods...no penises were allowed in this picture, regardless of age

 

[xbuzzerx]

Me seeing Huntneo's kung fu

 

[bankside]

Someone said he is vomiting when he sees my fugly pic on Grindr.

Oh Grindr

lol someone referred to my body hair as "gross". I started to get upset, then thought: well, some people HATE body hair and (to them) may find it off-putting. Their problem, not mine.

btw, glasvegas--you're adorable! Fuck the haters.

I have always though people should say "Sorry, I don't find an attraction to you" and be all polite and general and inoffensive. I'm starting to think it is almost better when people are that blunt. The polite way, you might always have wondered what it was about you that wasn't attractive to that person. The blunt way, you know what the real problem is and you can say: "Ohhhhhh…Now I get it. I'm too good for that idiot….it would have never worked."

 

[G-Lexington]

I have always though people should say "Sorry, I don't find an attraction to you" and be all polite and general and inoffensive. I'm starting to think it is almost better when people are that blunt. The polite way, you might always have wondered what it was about you that wasn't attractive to that person. The blunt way, you know what the real problem is and you can say: "Ohhhhhh…Now I get it. I'm too good for that idiot….it would have never worked."

It's chemistry with pixels on screens. I find guys attractive that many others don't, and vice versa. Sometimes all the components are there, and he still doesn't do it or me. Other times, he doesn't seem to have anything I tend to like, and my dick won't stop throbbing. Sometimes two plus two equals zero, and sometimes two plus two equals five thousand. You just don't know. If a guy says he doesn't ind me attractive online, it doesn't mean I'm flawed or something. I'm just not for him. And yeah, sometimes it's the guy that gets my cock throbbing that isn't interested, and that kinda sucks. But I still don't hold it against them.

Lex

 

[bankside]

And yeah, sometimes it's the guy that gets my cock throbbing that isn't interested, and that kinda sucks. But I still don't hold it against them.

Lex

If you held it against him when he already told you he wasn't interested, it would be assault...

 

[maxpowr9]

If someone finds body hair unattractive, I would assume they are prepubescent. Men [aka adult males] have hair and often in unwarranted places. Deal with it,

 

[dereperez]

If someone finds body hair unattractive, I would assume they are prepubescent. Men [aka adult males] have hair and often in unwarranted places. Deal with it,

I guess I'm not a man, then.

 

[dereperez]

Let us take our naturally smooth bodies to a forum for prepubescents, where we belong.

Yes, let's.

One would think that in a gay community there would be less ignorance and judgment being thrown around about something that one cannot change. It is what we are born with. It's one thing to have a preference, it's totally another to demean someone over a genetic characteristic. It's just absurd.

 

[glasvegas]

Yes, let's.

One would think that in a gay community there would be less ignorance and judgment being thrown around about something that one cannot change. It is what we are born with. It's one thing to have a preference, it's totally another to demean someone over a genetic characteristic. It's just absurd.

This what puzzled me. We face discrimination from outside from the community and within community itself. It just really tiring with people judging you and berated you. Can't we just accept who whatever they are and get along?

 

[maxpowr9]

I have never heard of the stereotype that twinks think they're better than everyone else until I heard of it here. I've never experienced or observed it though.

They're better at bottoming. That explains their gaping manpussy.

 

[Anders123]

Over the past few days, a single mosquito has been living inside my room. It would lay dormant during the day presumably, then feast upon me the minute I turned the lights off and got into bed. What makes it worse is that it's Summer right now, and the temperature has been pretty consistently over 30°C for the past week or so. Because of that, I've been sleeping in just my briefs without any covers on.

Over the course of three nights, I've been bitten three times on my right arm, twice on my left leg, twice on my left oblique, three times on my left arm, and once on my left hand. All of them occurring within five minutes of getting into bed each night. I always turned the light on and looked around my room for the mosquito after it bit me, but after a few minutes gave up on my search. Last night after she struck, I snapped and just started spraying bug spray randomly around my room in a fit of rage; behind the furniture, behind the curtains, under my bed etc.

After a random spray under my desk, the stupid motherfucker revealed herself and I smashed her so hard I thought it would put a hole in the wall. So much rage.

Fuck mosquitoes.

 

[zoltanspawn]

Fuck mosquitoes.

Malaria's deadliness makes me wonder if the rage you feel is hard-wired.

I seethe with hatred over that fucking buzz.

Cockroaches and fleas are less aggravating.

I haven't yet battled bed bugs.

 

[maxpowr9]

And that makes them less of a real man, too, right??

Hun, the phrase is: "take it like a man" for a reason...

 

[Anders123]

Malaria's deadliness makes me wonder if the rage you feel is hard-wired.

I seethe with hatred over that fucking buzz.

Cockroaches and fleas are less aggravating.

I haven't yet battled bed bugs.

I think it has more to do with my entire body itching like crazy when I'm trying to sleep or study. The worst is hearing the buzz when you're in bed trying to sleep though, because you just know that if you don't get up and kill it, you're going to wake up with at least two bites somewhere on your body. Most pointless and infuriating insect ever.

Speaking of others though, during the past week as the temperature has risen, huntsman spiders have been seeking refuge in my house. They're harmless, but they always sit in places that scare the shit out of you when you see them. A few days ago, one was waiting on the wall in the hallway just outside of my bedroom door. It was right in front of me when I stepped out in the morning. Coffee was not required that day. More recently though, one was waiting for me on the inside of the pantry, one of their favourite places it seems. A gigantic hairy spider is not something you want to encounter when you get up for a midnight snack.

Australian Summer; do not recommend.

 

[xbuzzerx]

I think the whole idea of 'twinks think they are better than bears' and 'who is more manly and who is not and who is this and who is that' is rather tiresome. It's annoying to see that gay men and lesbian women attempt to oppress each other and bring each other down based on "heteronormative standards of beauty."

We're all different. But by insinuating that the differences we have make us better or worse in some way, we're using the same victimization tactics used on us on each other.

In fairness Kien (Max's statement notwithstanding) the topic came up in reference to guys going "ew icky" about body hair... not about twinks or smooth guys being gross. And I would agree that that reaction is not at all uncommon (ew body hair.)

 

[bankside]

Australian Summer; do not recommend.

I say we combine it with the Canadian winter and take the average. Though mosquitoes are no better here. Still, no deadly spiders, snakes, or cockroaches.

 

[Anders123]

Still, no deadly spiders, snakes, or cockroaches.

Just moose, grizzlies, and polar bears, right?

 

[borg69unimatrix]

I think it has more to do with my entire body itching like crazy when I'm trying to sleep or study. The worst is hearing the buzz when you're in bed trying to sleep though, because you just know that if you don't get up and kill it, you're going to wake up with at least two bites somewhere on your body. Most pointless and infuriating insect ever.

Speaking of others though, during the past week as the temperature has risen, huntsman spiders have been seeking refuge in my house. They're harmless, but they always sit in places that scare the shit out of you when you see them. A few days ago, one was waiting on the wall in the hallway just outside of my bedroom door. It was right in front of me when I stepped out in the morning. Coffee was not required that day. More recently though, one was waiting for me on the inside of the pantry, one of their favourite places it seems. A gigantic hairy spider is not something you want to encounter when you get up for a midnight snack.

Australian Summer; do not recommend.

OMFG they're that big ??? I would be setting out mouse traps, and walk around with a tennis racket.

 

[Anders123]

OMFG they're that big ??? I would be setting out mouse traps, and walk around with a tennis racket.

But if the mouse traps were to actually catch a mouse, it would only attract more huntsmans to feed upon the corpse.