just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

[refujiunderground]

I know refuji is ALWAYS upset, sometimes picking on others makes him feel like a big man, so hugs for him

Razor, I'm so sorry Hostess went out of business, time heals all wounds. Lashing out at others is understandable. *big girl pride*

breh, can you please get benderboy's hand out your ass for a second? you sound like an annoying groupie that has ole boy's dick superglued to your hand where you don't have to do any work to reach for it. i get that you're looking for friends on here and whatever else but the dude that you're all cheerleading for is playing your ass. either you're that big of a groupie of this guy who likes to troll around doing whatever or you yourself are a big phony trying to play this nice guy character one second and then using benderboy to reveal your real side where you take shots at people or whatever where you need someone to back you up because you don't have it in you to just speak for yourself.

keep it real, man. quit playing that wack ass nice guy act all innocent then behaving like a drama queen the next.

 

[justanothershyguy]

1. People will judge you for the company you keep.

I think it's safe to say that as most of us are gay men, we pretty much know that people who judge & bully are assholes. I leave the judging to the judiciary branch.

 

[justanothershyguy]

keep it real, man. quit playing that wack ass nice guy act all innocent then behaving like a drama queen the next.

No offense meant by this refuji, but you wonder why he reacts like a drama queen when you post this? Let him be the nice guy he is for once.

 

[refujiunderground]

No offense meant by this refuji, but you wonder why he reacts like a drama queen when you post this? Let him be the nice guy he is for once.

hey, i was addressing benderboy and mr. cupid just comes out the woodwork as if i'm talking to him or if benderboy needs a representative to speak for him. but speaking of which, cupidboy tries to play that slick bullshit like his boy and it's wack. if he has a problem, he needs to speak up for himself instead of playing that peek-a-boo bs hiding behind his boy.

 

[justanothershyguy]

hey, i was addressing benderboy and mr. cupid just comes out the woodwork as if i'm talking to him or if benderboy needs a representative to speak for him. but speaking of which, cupidboy tries to play that slick bullshit like his boy and it's wack. if he has a problem, he needs to speak up instead of playing that peek-a-boo bs.

I don't really see anything wrong with having friends who've got your back. Doesn't mean they are serving as representatives, they're just voicing their opinions too.

 

[Stoowii]

I don't like the negativity in this thread, so I rated it 1 star. =\

 

[refujiunderground]

I don't like the negativity in this thread, so I rated it 1 star. =\

but ain't that the point of the thread.

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I don't really see anything wrong with having friends who've got your back. Doesn't mean they are serving as representatives, they're just voicing their opinions too.

well, that's all good but if dude's going to take shots like that, i'm shooting back too.

 

[Stoowii]

but ain't that the point of the thread.

You're right. But I can't edit my vote anymore.

 

[xbuzzerx]

well, that's all good but if dude's going to take shots like that, i'm shooting back too.

That's the elephant in the room. Right there.

Justa, there's chronic passive aggression off Bender. All the time. I have no idea what he thinks the entirety of JUB "did to him", but he gives it off constantly. To borrow another poster's description, "his contempt for us is palpable."

Bender's not someone here just as any other poster and getting unfair heat because of his pic fiasco. Most of us, myself included, don't give a shit. Bender's here with some massive chip on his shoulder and when anyone reacts to it in any way, people pile up here from F&G to attack whoever reacted as if that person just slapped their mother.

My guess? Bender gets a good laugh out of it. He barely has to do a thing, half a dozen people rush up here and do all his fighting for him after he provokes someone to respond.

 

[refujiunderground]

That's the elephant in the room. Right there.

Justa, there's chronic passive aggression off Bender. All the time. I have no idea what he thinks the entirety of JUB "did to him", but he gives it off constantly. To borrow another poster's description, "his contempt for us is palpable."

Bender's not someone here just as any other poster and getting unfair heat because of his pic fiasco. Most of us, myself included, don't give a shit. Bender's here with some massive chip on his shoulder and when anyone reacts to it in any way, people pile up here from F&G to attack whoever reacted as if that person just slapped their mother.

My guess? Bender gets a good laugh out of it. He barely has to do a thing, half a dozen people rush up here and do all his fighting for him after he provokes someone to respond.

honestly, i don't even know about bender to tell you the truth or what to make of him and his whole entire posting thing or whatever even after seeing him for about a year or so. it's all one huge . what i can say is that dude likes getting attention. that would probably explain why he acts the way he does.

 

[Kahaih]

but ain't that the point of the thread.


. . . .

Right.

But, 48 pages?

. . . . constantly on the front page?

And have you looked at the ‘Who posted’ list to see the top contributors and the number of posts by each?



Truth be told, your yellow stars look like piss stains. You should try to have less of them.

 

[refujiunderground]

Right.

But, 48 pages?

. . . . constantly on the front page?

And have you looked at the ‘Who posted’ list to see the top contributors and the number of posts by each?



Truth be told, your yellow stars look like piss stains. You should try to have less of them.

well, you're ranting and that's the point of the thread so *shrugs*

 

[G-Lexington]

That's the elephant in the room. Right there.

Justa, there's chronic passive aggression off Bender. All the time. I have no idea what he thinks the entirety of JUB "did to him", but he gives it off constantly. To borrow another poster's description, "his contempt for us is palpable."

Bender's not someone here just as any other poster and getting unfair heat because of his pic fiasco. Most of us, myself included, don't give a shit. Bender's here with some massive chip on his shoulder and when anyone reacts to it in any way, people pile up here from F&G to attack whoever reacted as if that person just slapped their mother.

My guess? Bender gets a good laugh out of it. He barely has to do a thing, half a dozen people rush up here and do all his fighting for him after he provokes someone to respond.

Contempt for the contemptible. But, as the saying goes, I ain't even mad.

And if there's an elephant in the room, it's probably me. Unless someone else wants to claim to be the grey, round one with the long dangly part.

Lex

 

[justanothershyguy]

That's the elephant in the room. Right there.

Justa, there's chronic passive aggression off Bender. All the time. I have no idea what he thinks the entirety of JUB "did to him", but he gives it off constantly. To borrow another poster's description, "his contempt for us is palpable."

This whole damn forum is about being passive agressive, it seems. If you back a dog into a corner it's going to bare his teeth. It's instinct. And it's not the entirety of JUB. HT is the only place. Check his posts in the Amateur Showcase. His picture thread. Fun and Games. Newbies & Introductions. None of them are bad and negative, so why is it like that here? Because people treat him like shit. Tonight, it was JB. Was it unwarranted? That's not up to me. But he cast the first stone tonight, so then in this case Bender's the one 'shooting' back. So before you call out Bender and his friends for what they're doing, look at the other side of the room and check to make sure it's really them doing it first.

My guess? Bender gets a good laugh out of it. He barely has to do a thing, half a dozen people rush up here and do all his fighting for him after he provokes someone to respond.

Maybe he does get a laugh out of it, maybe he doesn't. I'm not him, so I wouldn't know. The glorious part of a forum is that all people are generally welcome everywhere and have this amazing ability to click wherever they want. Same way people from hot topics are more than welcome in any fun and games thread. I don't come here to speak for Bender or for Cupid. I come here to voice my opinion, and it just so happens to align with theirs from time to time.

what i can say is that dude likes getting attention. that would probably explain why he acts the way he does.

Attention.. Everybody likes attention, so that's not a good enough reason to hate someone. I want attention for my story (in my sig, check it out sometime, solid promo there).

 

[maxpowr9]

I learned a new favorite word from a friend a week back and I used to hate him using it but has caught on with me: "shitters". That IMO, is the new "fuckers".

 

[justanothershyguy]

I like this gif because Emma's in it. Thank you, Stoowii

 

[G-Lexington]

I know people who use "shitter" to mean "toilet" or "bathroom". I once caught my friend saying "I hope they have a shitter here, because I really have to tinkle." I said, "Did you just use 'shitter and 'tinkle' in the same sentence?"

Lex

 

[G-Lexington]

If you think i get a good laugh out of constantly being attacked you must be living in another world.

Not even bothered. This is why you're beautiful.

Lex

 

[Sparky-Sparky-Boom-Boom]

Oh girls just kiss and make up...............

 

[xbuzzerx]

First of all. i think if your unbiased you'll see that tonights crapola was started bt Refuji and Johann having their usual snide digs, but who am i kidding, you've looked down on people from F&G from the moment you got here, calling them fluff posters, and bitching about gifs nonstop, all the while arselicking everyone in the place and you and the herd bullying anybody on here who dares hold a different view.

If you think i get a good laugh out of constantly being attacked you must be living in another world.

As for you refuji, why bother even, you change your mind not only from post to post but sometimes six times in the same sentence, flaky.

You can think what you like Bender. You're not a very nice person. You do take digs at other people. You do post provocatively. And then you're the victim. you're even, somehow, from the way you act, apparently the victim of your own pic deception. None of us did that to you. You've given off huge attitude ever since as if we all did something wrong.

For someone who feels so victimized and bullied, you certainly do make a point to come around, post, be snide, and mock our discussions.

There's absolutely no way to see your behavior other as attention-seeking. You're saying you just mind your own business and people pick on you. Because I actually read Hot Topics consistently and not as a drive through occasional lurker, I know better.

Oh yeah, and those love fests off topic with Glee gifs? You're not trying to attract attention when you derail threads with those? Give me a break.