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I don't know 'Phuugi',

Lots more starving lawyers out there than starving para-legals. Para legals don't have to lie/cheat steal

or get into Politics either. Fascinating work if you're the really curious type and OH MY GOSH, what better

way to study the foibles of mankind without soiling your hands or reputation? JMHO!
 
And that my dear Johann is what I was actually alluding to. That and the fact our

young ward is to proficient at building his own stumbling blocks at times...the Mountains

where there are only mole hills syndrome.

~~~~"get him to light the candle rather than curse the dark"~~~~
 
JohannBessler said:
^I see it as a viable option, Lefty.

He can get his foot in the door as a paralegal, and if and when he gets his law degree, he will then have his "billions of years of experience" that every employer seems to want you to have these days.
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that sounds like a plan. it's more so of getting the blueprint started behind it. you know? i'm going to google if becoming a paralegal would mean that i can be exempt for that stupid lsat bullshit. I HATE STANDARDIZE TESTING. it's a piece of absolute shit. they claim that it's supposed to show how good of a student you'll be in law school, college, high school or whatever else. straight up bullshit. whatever i took on the SAT 10 years ago was nowhere in any of the work that i did in college. only thing i had to do is read, study and write. that's it. my guess is law school is going to incorporate all of those things except with class participation being in the mix where they want you to speak in class. that's one problem that i have because i'm a shy dude which hates public speaking or being in a room full of people. also have a problem looking people in the eye. i think that i can overcome that though being my experience at fast food actually pushed me to the level where i was actually engaging in conversations with people that i wouldn't bother to talk to otherwise if i saw them on the street or in a supermarket.


Lefty said:
And that my dear Johann is what I was actually alluding to. That and the fact our

young ward is to proficient at building his own stumbling blocks at times...the Mountains

where there are only mole hills syndrome.

~~~~"get him to light the candle rather than curse the dark"~~~~
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yeah, that's one problem that i know how to do well. :cry: we'll see what happens. by the end of the year, everything will start to be clear, i hope. :(

with that said, i have to vent about how i feel right now. i feel like shit. feel a bit depressed and upset to the point where my chest feels a little funny. possibly anxiety or whatever. i dunno but i want to cry right now. why? because i'm annoyed with myself. sometimes, i don't get why the fuck i am the way i am where i simply feel that something is wrong with me where i'm just not like other people. i simply can't enjoy a good moment or simply take it easy. always being worried and having something on my mind that is bothering me where i can't even keep a clear head. there's very few times where i can get a chance to relax and breath without any worries. i have like a million and one worries and the thing is i don't know how to get rid of that shit. i just want to be worry free and happy BUT i can't because my damn mind won't allow me to be. it seems like it's me that's fucking kicking my ass with everything. self confidence, self esteem, being paranoid, and etc. i hate my body too. i wish i fucking had regular adult bone mass like normal adults do. i have childlike bone mass that kids have. :( i also hate my dick size too. when i'm limp, my dick looks like a fucking fat finger. sometimes when it's really limp, it looks like a fucking baby pinkie. :cry: i don't fucking get it. why the fuck can't i have GIRTH? hell, i'm long with the erection BUT with no girth, my shit looks weird.

the only thing that plays to my advantage is that being that i'm gay. i don't think most guys are size queens in terms of girth. the asshole is small enough where you have to loosen it so i guess i'm good, at least that's what i hope. you know, life isn't bad as i'm making it sound BUT i just wish that the little things that are making me feel like shit were fixed where i wasn't fucking haunted or bothered. i fucking hate myself. i used to smoke weed and think that going to the shrink to vent about shit that i'm saying now on here would actually help take all those feelings away BUT it's NOT. hell, even taking zoloft, the only thing that's going to come about after this is they'll increase the dosage and i'll be basically fucked over on a damn drug that i have to take for the next 9 months. :( damn, how the fuck did i end up this way where i'm basically my own worst enemy?
 
Had a 4th date which I was really looking forward to cancelled, and only after I texted him about asking what time are we meeting did he tell me he had forgotten he had something on. He said to take a rain check but didn't bother to specify a date.

Really bummed, as the same thing happened last time.
 
My friends always make me feel like I'm the least important member of the group. It just seems like I've got to fight for some share of the conversation, and then I'm only the focus of I'm being teased. I realize it's in good fun, and even though I bring this up, I feel like no one really cares about me as much as anyone else that we're with.

Not really looking for advice, but if anyone could relate, maybe we could find some solace in that.
 
One thing that irks me mostly happens on places like Bear 411. I'll check out a guy's profile, send him a short greeting and message, then get a response about a month later (or none at all). Even if I get messaged from a guy i'm not attracted to, i'll at least chat with him and thank him for signing my guestbook or sending me a compliment within a reasonable time frame.

The other thing that bugs me is when random dudes send me "wanna cam?" messages out of the blue, even though I've put "Not into cam sex" on my profile. :rolleyes:
 
FuryOfFirestorm said:
One thing that irks me mostly happens on places like Bear 411. I'll check out a guy's profile, send him a short greeting and message, then get a response about a month later (or none at all). Even if I get messaged from a guy i'm not attracted to, i'll at least chat with him and thank him for signing my guestbook or sending me a compliment within a reasonable time frame.

The other thing that bugs me is when random dudes send me "wanna cam?" messages out of the blue, even though I've put "Not into cam sex" on my profile. :rolleyes:
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I never get that either. I mean, not excluded or restricted to personals sites, which I haven't ever really used, but anywhere. When people blow off messages or polite hello's online or in PM's or comments or questions on something they've put online, and they're clearly checking and reading, but never bother to respond, I don't really get why they bothered putting themselves out on the internet at all.
 
xbuzzerx said:
When people blow off messages or polite hello's online or in PM's or comments or questions on something they've put online, and they're clearly checking and reading, but never bother to respond, I don't really get why they bothered putting themselves out on the internet at all.
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I've always been a little confused about what is the proper way to respond to a forum comment. Do most people expect a comment in return? At least with a PM, you get the sense they are looking for dialogue, but with a comment, unless they ask a question, is it rude to not respond to it?
 
sixthson said:
I've always been a little confused about what is the proper way to respond to a forum comment. Do most people expect a comment in return? At least with a PM, you get the sense they are looking for dialogue, but with a comment, unless they ask a question, is it rude to not respond to it?
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Sometimes I try to respond with a PM, but then their inbox is full and I can't even respond.
 
A comment is just that: a quick remark or observation that needs no reply.

For conversation, or to invite response, use PMs, because comments don't work that way.
 
The internet has turned many people into "libertarians" but it is the extroverts who pain the most because they need to fuel off others which leads to excessive trolling while the introverts can step away from it and bury their noses in something else.
 
Sometimes life gives the harshest reality checks. Especially when it comes to a close family member passing away.
 
JohannBessler said:
Do you think your friends are really friends?

It doesn't sound like you're getting much back from them.
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I've been starting to question that more and more. I'm starting to notice that our social activities are almost exclusively alcohol-infused and I'm not sure if that's what I would want from real friends.
 
JohannBessler said:
I've come to the conclusion that libertarians--despite the fact that they're often intelligent individuals--lack the most basic knowledge of history. Ignorance is not necessarily bliss.
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Interesting Johann. you all seem to be hitting 'around the bullseye'.

It has been my experience that the libertarians have vast sums of data and empirical
stacks of 'facts' based on biased reports of experience through time immemorial. Their
mirrored counterparts are similarly endowed.

Incontrovertible evidence from mans earliest attempts at civilisations. Alack and alas,
like all data it has been corrupted by the various interpreters throughout history. Is
it not amazing that often 3 eye witnesses to an incident tell the story differently.

Bottom line, I agree with 90% of what you have said. My major and final caveats
would include telling all sides...experience for yourself before you attempt to judge,
instruct. demand or dictate.

Reality is
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or maybe just...
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Now I know why I am self-deprecating. The moment I mention I have "nerdy" tendencies, people flutter away from me.
 
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