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G-Lexington said:
Grant seemed to accept my denial of his ticket request with equanimity, which I felt good about. Then he asked me for tickets to something else.

...I really should just start hitting HIM up for stuff now. Nothing to lose here. :)

Lex
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I'd suggest a shrubbery.
 
Jesus, use entire words and sentences!

I've been half-ass chatting with a guy and all he can give me are one-word messages - still with spelling errors.

This century will put me in the grave...
 
Singularity said:
Jesus, use entire words and sentences!

I've been half-ass chatting with a guy and all he can give me are one-word messages - still with spelling errors.

This century will put me in the grave...
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One-word answers especially in a conversation means they're disinterested in you.
 
I can't stand people who post they don't like your post cause it's meaningless ...well...that makes THEIR post EXTRA meaningless!
 
Seriously fuck advertising. Cant even look through a menu at a diner without going through pages of adverts.
 
If I had a man here with me in person, who was good at foot and leg rubs, I would gladly give him any kind of sex he wanted. :sex:

That would solve 2 of my problems, right now... ;) *|*
 
"____________(some ass hat)_______" is now following you on Twitter!"


I don't spend a lot of time on Twitter, but it really annoys me when some Spam Monkey forces themselves on me and adds me, only to promote themselves with their music, sex add's, ... Is there a way to get them off my list once they've added themselves or am I stuck with them and their crap forever???
 
Well, the only way they could "annoy" you is if they either send you "direct messages" or if they just keep tagging you in tweets. I occasionally get somebody who tags me a bit too often in tweets, but never had any give me a ton of direct messages. If someone IS sending you too much stuff, you can block them. Go to their profile page, click on the little person silhouette at the top, and select "block". This will keep their tags of you from showing up in your feed, and I think it makes them automatically unfollow you as well.

Lex
 
Twitter really seems like a big fat waste of time. I mean, how interesting a life do you must believe to live to have enough tweets a day for complete strangers to stumble upon and decide to follow you?
 
G-Lexington said:
Well, the only way they could "annoy" you is if they either send you "direct messages" or if they just keep tagging you in tweets. I occasionally get somebody who tags me a bit too often in tweets, but never had any give me a ton of direct messages. If someone IS sending you too much stuff, you can block them. Go to their profile page, click on the little person silhouette at the top, and select "block". This will keep their tags of you from showing up in your feed, and I think it makes them automatically unfollow you as well.

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It's highly possible I'm not fully understanding how twitter works... I know there's people I requested (friended) that I WANT to hear from, and then there's a ton of posts from people I don't know who they are that I don't want to have to read on my "HOME" page.

It's frustrating!!!

Although I do see some are re-tweets from people I subscribed to.

I did figure out how to block some of the spammers. ..|
 
The only things that should show up on your main Twitter feed are from people you follow. If one of them "retweets" somebody, then yes, that item will show up in your feed as well. It should say "Retweeted by (person)" underneath. You will occasionally see "Promoted tweets" on occasion as well, which is how Twitter gets paid. These have an orange icon and say "Promoted by" at the bottom.

Anything that doesn't fit either of those conditions, but that you're not wanting to see, means you may have ended up following them by accident. Feel free to check their main page and see if it says you're following them. If so, just "unfollow" - no need to block.

Lex
 
One of my closest friends is dealing with the death of a family member at the moment. He flew home to be with the rest of his family and has been telling me how much he needs me right now, but I'm in a pretty terrible place and just don't feel like I can be there for him the way I usually am.

I'm really trying, but I have this terrible habit of isolating myself then feeling worthless because I'm alone and nobody cares. It's like I have no legitimate reason to feel bad about myself so I go out of my way to create one. I want to reach out to people, but at the same time I want to lock myself in my room, change my number, and self-delete on JUB. It's kind of exhausting having to battle against these sorts of self-destructive impulses, especially when I'm supposed to be there for my friend as a beacon of support.



Actually, I just decided to text him to see if he's up for hanging out tonight. I really want to work at breaking this habit of self-inflicted isolation, but more importantly I want my friend to know that I'm here like always, even if I'm feeling a little weak and broken on the inside.

Hopefully he's up for it. I think I need it just as much as he does right now.
 
Facebook is such a piece of shit.

They locked our not-for-profit page claiming they don't recognize the device I'm using. I'm using the same computer I always have, and the only one that's ever been used to access the page.

There's no help offered. All that happens when I try to make a report is a generic page appears with a place to give feedback, plus I get an e-mail saying to provide a copy of our articles of incorporation.

What sort of idiots run that place, anyway?
 
Anders123 said:
Actually, I just decided to text him to see if he's up for hanging out tonight. I really want to work at breaking this habit of self-inflicted isolation, but more importantly I want my friend to know that I'm here like always, even if I'm feeling a little weak and broken on the inside.

Hopefully he's up for it. I think I need it just as much as he does right now.
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That is so good that you were able to actually talk yourself in DOING YOUR BEST (UNDER THE CIRCUMSTANCES) to be there for your friend. The sincerity of your effort is the important thing...and did you actually end up getting together after all? Sometimes breaking the "habit of...isolation" is a diversion which is neutral toward all other people (such as going alone to a cinema to "escape" for a while) but, in this case, it's a very constructive and caring thing to do. I think it will do good things for both of you - in addition to causing you to notice other alternatives and methods that may help get you out of a funk, methods that you have so far tested only sparingly. Exercising this helps to reinforce that alternative.

What is likely to start out, from all outward appearances, as a "pity party" is most likely to evolve into something else entirely as the interaction goes on, and it's quite possible that some valuable and perhaps "timeless" insights may be shared from both sides of the conversation.

I'm so glad you did this...or, if you didn't do so yet, PLEASE do.

Even though I know nothing about the circumstances, I feel that I can virtually guarantee that you will not be sorry that you did.

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Facebook is such a piece of shit...

There's no help offered...

What sort of idiots run that place, anyway?
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I found this out a long time ago. I wanted to find a way to interact WITH ANYBODY who might actually resemble a "customer service representative" but, look all over the site as intensely as I could, I could find absolutely NO trace of anything at all that resembles customer service.

That is entirely inexcusable! You're right, Facebook DOES suck. CRAAAAAAAAP!!!!!!!!
 
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