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Just Want to be Held

  • Thread starter Thread starter Zildjian
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Yeah, almost everynight I just want to feel someone warm around my own body. Not in the naughty way, but you know, just the comfort of being near someone who loves you, your body temperatures balancing each other out. Sex is fine, but this is a whole different level of intimacy.

PS, Angela Aki for the win. One of her best songs.

Small summary translation of some lines:
"Where there is love, there is peace"

When I was suffering, I just held you, and in that moment, there was peace

Now I won't let go of your hand, the power of believing will free my love
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Anyways, just something interesting. It is kinda pointless to post something in a different language unless you explain what it is, don't cha think? ;)
 
Gomaki said:
Yeah, almost everynight I just want to feel someone warm around my own body. Not in the naughty way, but you know, just the comfort of being near someone who loves you, your body temperatures balancing each other out. Sex is fine, but this is a whole different level of intimacy.

PS, Angela Aki for the win. One of her best songs.

Small summary translation of some lines:
"Where there is love, there is peace"

When I was suffering, I just held you, and in that moment, there was peace

Now I won't let go of your hand, the power of believing will free my love
...
Anyways, just something interesting. It is kinda pointless to post something in a different language unless you explain what it is, don't cha think? ;)
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actually no, :P

its the emotion felt when you hear her sing and play the piano.
 
I used to have the feeling before I got into my first relationship. I always wondered what it would feel like. It's an amazing feeling to hold someone close to you and when they hold onto you.

I don't dream about someone holding me anymore, though. The dream never feels the same as the real thing.

In time someone will find you and give you that hug that will seem to last for eternity.
 
I feel like that sometimes. Though to be honest I never just be held. Usually some other thought creeps into my mind as well. The comfort and intimacy of just being that close to someone...

OF course, I have no-one to blame but myself that I don't have that more often. It takes me a long time to feel that at ease with a guy, and I'm just plain bad at maintaining relationships.
 
I understand what you mean. I have been with Alex for almost 2 years now and many nights we just lay together hugging and chatting without having sex. Those nights are just as special as the others. It's so wonderful finding a man that's not all about sex. Good luck to you, don't get discouraged. Mr. Right is out there somewhere.
 
Im feeling like this nearly all the time now. In the past few months ive really needed someone i can 'spill my guts too' and just have someone to hold and make me feel better. All my mates have sort of paired off, and i feel like the odd one out, and its really starting to get me down.
 
I want to so much that I think I'll head over the BF's right now. Thanks for reminding me.
 
For me, it is not just when I go to bed. I can be at work, driving somewhere, or just about anywhere when that feeling comes over me. Yet, in a way, I know I may not be that receptive, that trusting. It does not happen often. When it does, I feel quite empty, alone and defenseless.
 
Yes, I know exactly what you mean.

Holding someone you love, no matter where, and feeling that someone beside you, is THE most blissful experience of the human condition...

As is saying "I love you" to that someone before you close your eyes...

And sneaking up to him to give him a gentle kiss while he's still half-asleep...

And knowing that the first thing you see when you open up your eyes in the morning, is him...

...

I feel very grateful and fortunate that I was able to experience that at some point in my life. Alas, I have that no more, but when I had it, it was BY FAR the five happiest months of my life...

And I cherished every moment of it. I can have no regrets...
 
Yeah I know what it means to be lonely. ](*,)](*,) I would love to wake up spooning my bf but unfortunately I don't have one. :cry::cry: I have had a few casual gay encounters but after the deed is done they want me to leave, when all I want to do is stay and cuddle up and maybe cook breakfast in the morning or have seconds before breakfast! :sex::sex: (!)

MIKIKI
 
mikey23 said:
Im feeling like this nearly all the time now. In the past few months ive really needed someone i can 'spill my guts too' and just have someone to hold and make me feel better. All my mates have sort of paired off, and i feel like the odd one out, and its really starting to get me down.
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i know how u feel and i know how much it sux, i feel so lonely some times i dont know what to do:cry:


Mikko
 
Wow. I never thought that I would ever find another person who felt like this, let alone a whole thread's worth. The hardest part about not having a bf right now is when I have this feeling/longing. It is comforting though, to know that there are other people who feel this way. :rolleyes:
 
I never knew there were other people who had these thoughts besides me......how interesting. Although I love being alone, I do get lonely laying in my bed every night wishing that there was someone there to hold. And this has been happening for a long while. I really don't know when my time will come....
 
I feel the same way, I am 20 and a darn Virgin. But still I know I can get someone, but I am afraid of taking that step. All I do are long distance relationships. :(
 
Zildjian said:
Anyone ever feels like this?

Sometimes when I am getting into bed, I lay there for some time thinking about how awesome it would feel to have your arms around another guy - the sensory satisfaction of being so intimately close to another warm body. To smell his hair, run your hand up his arm...oh, how I want that.
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Many many nights I've done this. It's been happening a lot more recently, though.
 
Zildjian said:
Anyone ever feels like this?

Sometimes when I am getting into bed, I lay there for some time thinking about how awesome it would feel to have your arms around another guy - the sensory satisfaction of being so intimately close to another warm body. To smell his hair, run your hand up his arm...oh, how I want that.
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Pretty much describes every night for me. well except the hair part.. we both shave our heads.
 
Hold up....any off you on here longing to be held live near each other? Great place for a love connection!:luv:
 
Try to think of other people who is less fortunate than u ... i hope this helps a little bit.

eg. the homeless & the alone.
 
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