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Just want to share my coming out story(s)

tbtmo02

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So, I have been up all night reading coming out stories so I decided I would share mine for the first time. I am 19 and I came out in December of 2010.

I came out to my friends because that was always easier. I told my best friend in may. She said she new already as she pretty much called me out about being gay while sitting in her car in a mall parking lot. Then there was a situation where I really had to tell one of my friends that i was gay. I was really good friends with this girl and as always when your a boy and your friends with a girl it is automatically assumed you like each other. Pretty much every one at school would say something about us. Before i told my best friend she even said either i like this girl or Im gay. Just being honest this girl was a mess.

Anyways this was not the first time I have been in this situation. Eventually I began to realize that she might actually like me so i tried to pawn her off to the other guys in my class. That did not. So, one day when she was walking me to the bus stop I told her. She flat out did not believe me. It might have been because I was nervous and I laugh when nervous. She did not believe me until i texted her again and told her I was gay and she finally got it.

With my friends out of the way I moved on to the most important people in my life, Mom and my older brother. I had alot of anxiety about telling them so i took the easy way out and sent them both emails. The next day I waited before heading home and when I got home ..there was nothing said about it. I figured my mom just had not read the email. A short while later she comes into my and tells me she read the email and that her and my step dad were perfectly fine with me being gay. Pretty much all she told me was that she love me and to lose weight so I can get a guy lol.:D

I waited to hear something back from my brother but he never responded. I figured he just did not get the email. Luckily enough I say him the next day and blurted it out. And i am very lucky he said " OK" and the he had a feeling and that was it.

After that I told a few more friends and eventually just wasn't telling any one. It took me up until the end of summer to tell my family. I have a gay uncle so It was kinda easy but its still awkward because they are little shit talkers and I just was not trying to hear the jokes they had to say. Before i told my family i had a failed coming out to my gay uncle and ever since then when ever we had family functions he would say little insiders about what happened. He made so uncomfortable. I remember one time we were coming back from a road trip from texas. In the car was my brother , two cousins, and my grandma.

I was sitting in the far back next to the luggage and he was sitting in the row directly in front of me. So he decides to test my gayness by bringing a picture of a huge black dick on his phone. He brought it up and looked back to see if i was looking. Luckily i caught what he was doing and looked away before he saw me.


One last story , I have the most amazing grandmother. I did not even have to come out to here , she came out for me to her. By this time I had told my dad and my aunt and uncle. Well my dad had a loose mouth and told her before I had a chance. This pissed me off so much. Back to my story, my grandma calls me and I am always excited to speak to her and after our greeting she tells that she knows that I am gay. I start to tear up hers, she goes quiet after saying it and then out of no where starts busting up laughing. I do not know how to respond to this, and she says that she knew since I was a kid and started listing the things i did that made her suspect. This had to be the realest conversation I had with my. grandma. While she on the other end laughing and telling em she loves me no matter what. I am fighting to try not to cry on the phone.



Sorry for having so much to go through I just hop you get a little laugh at my coming out story. To conclude the year since coming out I have surrounded my self with girls who just love that I am gay. Seriously I've been flashed like four times by different girls. I can say that i am truly happy and now I am just waiting to have my first bf. Thank you for reading

Seriously four times I've been flashed and watched my friend get her vagina pierced ..Im soo gay
 
Thanks for sharing both your story and your joy. I'm happy for you. Continued god luck and best wishes.
 
oh yea one of best guy friends is straight and it was actually pretty funny he just "its cool" and he loves vagina
 
So, I have been up all night reading coming out stories so I decided I would share mine for the first time. I am 19 and I came out in December of 2010. (.....). I can say that i am truly happy and now I am just waiting to have my first bf.

hi Tbtmo02,

Thanks for sharing your activities with coming out with us. I am glad to read that all went well, and that you are right now a proud gay guy. No need to hide and to ly anymore. And your grandmother is happy to have a gay grandson, the sweet Tbtmo02.

So I would like to wish you all the best, and I hope soon you will find a nice boyfriend.

Best wishes & take care.
 
Thanx Ganoderma... Im just lucky to have such supportive people in my life.

Ive really accepted that i was gay i think my friends and family accepted it faster than i did. They all seem to come to terms with it and recently i had a conversation with my mom we were talking about of mutual love of darren criss and she even said when am i going to bring a guy to meet her..It made my day

oh and my grandma is happy ..im not surprised she is since she already has a gay son
 
Thanks so much for taking the time to post your personal experience...

For some of us, reading it brought us back to our own "coming out" and some similarities -- for others, it will help them realize that living an open honest life isn't as scary as it may seem...

It sounds like you have an AWESOME family and a GREAT group of friends...

:):):)


p.s. I like your grandmother... :lol:
 
Thanks very much Swerve... yea my grandma is pretty awesome she has a great spirit.

p.S I would love to read some of your stories
 
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