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Just wondering..

We went on our first semi-date tonight. We live in Las Vegas, so we went for a stroll on the Las Vegas Blvd despite the fact that it's as cold as ice out. We talked and were very informative to each other. Long story short, it went well. We decided to hook up again tomorrow evening at my place, hang out and see what happens. We closed the evening with a nice kiss in his car, and on his part, he seems very enthused about this whole relationship. Needless to say, I am very happy. It doesn't seem/feel like he's playing any games and he seems legitimately happy to be involved with me and claims he wants to make this work.
 
Big Shot,

Trust your gut and go with the good feelings. If anything seems a little suspicious, it probably is -- but always keep your eyes open. I am glad that your date went well ... and that you're happy! If the games are being played you will find out soon enough. Keep us posted man!

Another dance for you ... (!)
 
Man, I feel so happy.

Last night was absolutely amazing, yet so simple. He came over at around 9, and we just sat on the couch, talked and watched the 40 Year Old Virgin. I'm not one for playing games or anything like that, but last night, I didn't put my arm around him or anything and wanted to wait to see if he'd do it, which he did kinda. He started leaning in to my shoulder, forcing me to put my arm on him. LoL. Anyway, we were cuddling and all that and watching the movie, and eventually, he made the first move for the unmentionables. I let him and one thing led to another, and it led to amazing sex again.

So after we finished going at it, we laid in bed for a while, holding each other and talking about our thoughts about the relationship. How quick this has gone, how we currently feel, and where we want to end up. Expectations, feelings, etc. We began talking about things that eventually would need to be brought up such as past experiences and such, but by this point, it was about 1:30 or 2:00 AM and we both were tired, but I was trying to pull an all nighter. Plus, we were downstairs and if we both fell asleep and didn't wake up soon, my mom would have arrived home from work, and all hell would have broken loose. He went to sleep, and I just held him in my arms and eventually, I fell asleep too. Luckily, I woke up at 6:00 with JUST enough time to get dressed, get ready for work and get him to wake up and leave with me because my mom gets home at around 6:30/6:40. I kissed him goodbye, and told him I'd talk to him later.

Also yesterday, he called me and told me he was getting me a Christmas present which was kinda ironic because I was thinking of getting him something, but thought that it might be too much too soon, and I really had no idea what to get him. But, because he went out of his way to do it, I realized that I would be fine to get him one myself, so today, I went shopping for him and got him a REALLY nice pair of Dolce & Gabbana sunglasses and got a pair for myself to match, just because they look fucking sexy. They're kinda pricey, but I wanted to make the present worthwhile as I usually try to do.

Anyway, the more time goes on, the more confidence I get for this relationship. We're both willing to make it work and that's the best thing. More updates to follow when they happen!
 
He came over last night and we exchanged gifts. He got me a set of really nice cologne, and he really liked the glasses I bought him. Him coming over was a surprise, so I wasn't expecting anything, but last night was quite possibly the best sex ever. He is easily the best lover I've been with. It's been a LONG time since I've came and shot up to my face or further, but last night, he hit me in the forehead. It was that good. He told me that he is really liking where we are going thus far and told me his feelings for me have him constantly thinking of me. We cuddled and all that shit... it just feels so right.
 
LMFAO!!

Good shit.

I'm sure you're all sick of my updates, but I have no one else to share my excitement with.
 
hey man... it's the happy endings that give people hope.

Keep those updates coming.
 
Big Shot,

No .. not at all. LOVE updates here ... at least I do. I always wanna know when my JUB brethren are happy and/or need a shoulder!!

Sounds like you have a very nice Christmas! :)

(*8*)
 
Sounds great how the two of you are connecting.

Keep in mind though, its the honeymoon phase. ;)
 
Jesus, I hope we're not overdoing it, but we both love each other's company. We've seen each other every night this far since last Thursday. Tonight, we met for dinner at Chipotle and I took the bill. Don't mind it one bit. Afterwards, we drove around, talked, he showed me his neighborhood and I showed him where I used to live and we were just talking in my car. We drove to his old school and there is a track there and it's actually really nice. We walked it, held hands, and just hung out and talked more and in the car and such. It was really sweet. I really like him a lot and he likes me. Probably gonna take a break on the hanging out the next couple of days and resume things on the weekend, but who knows. Everything is spur of the moment between us so I'll keep you posted.

I'm just really happy! :)
 
this is one of the most fun parts of a relationship.. right at the beginning when you can't find out enough about each other or be together enough...

When that stage is over, there's a wonderful feeling of familiarity and contentment.. you know you've reached it when you can sit with each other in total silence and not feel uncomfortable.
 
So tonight we hung out again and decided we're going to hang out again tomorrow night at my house. Tonight though, I picked him up from his house, and he must have felt very comfortable because he kissed me right in front of his house and his family doesn't know about him. Anyway, we couldn't figure out what to do, so I just drove around the ENTIRE city and we just talked and talked and held hands in the car. Very sweet stuff. Eventually, we got back to his side of town which is near my old neighborhood. He was hungry so we got some food and parked in a newly built neighborhood since it was near the Burger King and he ate and we talked more. The frisky, horny fucker decided to start rubbing and touching though and eventually, we were sitting there, making out and jacking off in the car. Just our luck though, as SOON as we both finish up, security comes driving through. My dick is hanging out, he's laughing and security is flashing a flashlight into my car. I speed away and he's laughing at me. I couldn't be pissed though. Close call, but it was fun. Fun night to close and I dropped him back off and he wants to see me tomorrow. We're connecting, IMO, and that's what matters. He's constantly in my thoughts and he claims he thinks of me all the time.

*does a happy dance*
 
Haha, I'm glad you're having the time of your life. We all miss those first days with our men. ;)
 
Sounds like you're having a great time! Hope the honeymoon lasts all through the New Year my friend! (*8*)

Thanks for the update and hope it won't be the last!
 
This is really wonderful. I am very happy for you. I have been reading this and just enjoying every moment with you. I am glad that you are working on the relationship part of the equation, that is the most important IMHO. Good luck and keep us posted.
 
Man oh man oh man!

Last night was AMAZING (again). He came over, he bought me a present which was extremely unexpected. Nobody ever buys me anything and I was so giddy. Anyway, we talked, and we sat down and watched a movie (Jack, with Robin Williams) and just were lying down together. Really sweet. It led to the sexual bits and what have you. I decided to be funny and freshen things up so I got some whipped cream from the fridge and, well, I guess you can put two and two together. It was sexy. Now, neither he nor I are a bottom. I've bottomed before, but I hate it and wasn't comfortable. With him, he's never been with a guy except me, so he's never done it. I was really feeling it and unfortunetly, I had no condoms. However, he was feeling it as well and told me he wants to try and bottom next time he comes over which may be tonight or tomorrow (or both the way we've been hooking up). I was shocked! Anyway, we both finished up and went to take a shower together and ended up going at it again in the shower. Very hot stuff. That's another update. The way we're going, I'll have you all reading day by day...|
 
I've only just stumbled on this thread but I am very happy for you both. You seem to be doing this very sensibly and maturely, in that you talk with each other about your feelings and experiences. Communication is so so important, and that is what you are doing.

Your updates are great and will help others who are taking their first steps, or looking to take them. So please keep them up and, should there be any advice you need there will always be those here to turn to. It sounds as if you are doing very well and long may it continue. (*8*)
 
Big,

You're like "As the Big Shot Turns" .. tune in tomorrow ... LOL

I am glad to hear you're having a ball. A flag rose for me however when I read your post, as I could not tell right away whether you went for the bottom without condoms. Sounds like you waited, but it was not clear ... I am sure you're smart enough to know that it's [-X without them - that is until you both have been through some serious monogamy, testing, trust discussions and in a long-term relationship.

Enough of the father talk -- again, keep us updated man! (*8*)
 
Well, almost two months later, and I have an update.

Somehow, it didn't work out. Despite the incredible fire at the beginning, the fire just fizzled away completely and I realized that he just wasn't the one and when I was ready to break up with him, he kinda of got a clue and tried to avoid me so that I wouldn't have an opportunity to do it. So, I just stopped bothering him and it's just kaput. Also, earlier this month, my nosy mom found out (by snooping thru my room) that I am bi. Not a good experience, but not awful either. She then told the entire family, so it saved me trouble, but whatever. Still not how I wanted it to happen and definately not this soon. Not stressing though.

I am single, and currently playing the game trying to seek a new relationship of sorts. Trying my hand at different options thus far, being safe and selective, and hopefully I find something nice.
 
So much for the honeymoon phase. ;)

It's sad that is how it goes. "I love you! I love you! You're everything in the world too mmeeeeee!!!" Couple months later, "I hate you get out of my life you slut!"

Maybe not in those words exactly but you get the picture.
 
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